my friend really likes this guy who likes her back he is really hott and sweet and really cool but he is a year younger than her. she is in 8th grade and hes in 7th. people have told her that she cant go out with him because hes younger but a lot of people also say that it doesnt matter at all.
shes really confused so anythign would help
answer pleasee
2007-11-18 17:20:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be nice to know how old they both are!
2007-11-18 17:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by James M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. I've always dated younger guys - my husband is 3 years younger than me and most of the guys that I have ever dated were younger than me. If she truly likes the guy (and she isn't just trying to choose someone that will make her look good socially - if she is that's really bad) then she shouldn't care what other people think.
2007-11-18 17:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by Roxcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, its not even a large age difference so it doesn't really matter. If he was like a few years younger then sure THAT would be weird.
I once went out with someone younger than me and it was totally fine. As long as they are about as mature as your friend you know? it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks, they'll get used to it. Alot of people in my school are going out with someone younger than them.
Tell her good luck :)
2007-11-18 17:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter goes with a guy who's younger than she is and my son goes with a gal who's older than he is. They're both happy. Don't let other people tell you what's right. In affairs of the heart, there are few rules. You have to be with someone who makes your heart sing, regardless of his age.. If your friend is confused, then he's not the right guy. Age wouldn't matter if he was.
2007-11-18 17:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kargold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly if you look at it like this in the years ahead like we can say she was 21 and he was 20 it wouldnt make a difference why cause they're both over 18 right well her friends doesnt notice this but its all the same 1 year difference should make no big deal it may look big now but if you look at it future wise then you should notice that there aint a big deal after all
2007-11-18 17:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by andrew f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is actually not a big problem..
who said we can't make a relationship with the person that younger than us..?
you just tell your friend,don't worry about this and ignore what the other people are saying..
just go with that..
try to look at siti nurhaliza and dato' k..
they had been married although they had 20 years difference!!
ha ha(^.^)
2007-11-18 17:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by haz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with a girl who is 18 and im only just gonna turn 17 in a month. We are so so so in love. There is nothing wrong with it at all. If they like eachother then there is no problem. The only reason that usually doesnt happen is because girls mature faster than boys, so girls tend to go for older boys that are more on their level.
2007-11-18 17:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Terribly Confused 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When I was 31, I had an affair with a 21-year old. God, was it good! I am now 66, he is 56, and we still correspond after thirty-five years.
2007-11-18 17:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Poots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you get older, a difference of 10 years isn't a big deal at all. So, an 8th grader dating a 7th grader is NOTHING.
2007-11-18 17:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dave124 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't really know about these things. But, just tell her that if she doesn't go out with him, she might get heart broken.
"The heart wants, what the heart wants" - Suite Life of Zack and Cody (What?! I was browsing the T.V stations)
2007-11-18 17:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Little Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. My husband is 3 years younger than me. Age really doesn't matter. What matters most is what you feel for each other.
2007-11-18 17:23:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋