I just don't get the whole developing relationships thing with women thing at all.... I'm serious.
Don't get me wrong I'm not shy, well I used to be very SHY...but I am a very social and good looking person.
And no I'm not arrogant or mean at all, but women always end up hating me a LOT.
I just don't get it....
For example let's say I'm talking to a women....why does she expect me to ask for her number and compliment her looks and the same old routine?
Why do women in general (NOT ALL) but why do women expect every guy to be to be so typical?
Don 't get me wrong not all women are the same, I'm not saying that.
Shouldn't a women be happy that a guy wants to get to know you a little more and not kiss your but?
It's almost as if I don't do that, they begin to have a growing hate for me. As if I think I'm too good to notice them or say but kissing things.
The thing is I NOTICE you beautiful women, and I admire you, but I refuse to turn myself into a kiss butt in the process.
2007-11-18 16:45:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say your not relating this to all women but it seems like you are quite a bit buddy.
Some women stick to the 'old ways' because it's eaiser on them. They're not comfortable with making the first move.
You making the first move isn't kiss their as.s either.. it's complimenting. Brown nosing is sucking up to get something else in the process.
2007-11-18 16:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you get tired of being alone, you will learn to give a little. It is called give and take.
Let's face it, when it comes to sex, women have the advantage. We don't think about it all day long every day of our lives like guys do. We can say no to it without having blue balls.
By the way, if you don't kiss alittle butt, another guy will. Guess who will be getting the attention!! After all, we kiss butt for guys too.
2007-11-19 00:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You haven't met the right person to develop a relationship with yet. These women you're meeting have certain needs, whatever they may be, and expectations and you're not meeting them. This can make women dislike you. Every pot has a lid. All that crap will end when you find the right girl that you're compatible with.
2007-11-19 00:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by jognmiles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you and you can't judge one women and blame the whole world in general.
For simple fact ppl do not think or act alike.You attract the wrong kind of people and the way you behave is what you tend to attract.
You are being yourself and if you are cold and shallow and don't like to self express your feeling's is you.But,don't
confuse thought's with feeling's because,that just cause's chaos!
To me you sound very bitter man with very little knowlege of a women's self worth.
Is not kissing *** when you tell a women how she look's or as if you don't want to don't do it.Is just common coursey.I'm a southern women and I know class and how to treat a man.I sometime's expect that in return..But not saying you are hot in every sentence is not intelligent at all..In fact it just show's that person is just based on phsyical attraction and not in the intelligenical aspect.You have to comprehend that sometimes you can't be a begger and chooser even if that is hard concept to understand and gasp.You have to know that with a little old fashion courtsey goes a long way.You catch more bee's with honey.
Good lucky with that!!
2007-11-19 00:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Excellent question. It's because too many guys think they have to kiss a woman's butt and say all kinds of flattering things in order to win her approval and hopefully have sex with her in the future. It is a weakness that all too many guys fall prey to. Good for you that you don't want to play this phony game. It will filter out all the superficial women who just want to hear all the lies. They are probably telling their share of lies as well.
2007-11-19 00:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear what you're saying. Women complain that they want someone different, like you, someone willing to take their time etc. And yet, when they come across it, they are frustrated to no end! I think I'm the same as you, and it's frustrating for us too. Bah! Women are complex and confusing, and they secretly like to think they are always in control, and when they find out they're not - not happy! (Nothing wrong with you - It's them!)
2007-11-19 00:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree there is something wrong with you LOL just kidding.
Seriously i have to agree with most of what you said...I dont think you need to kiss someones bum just to keep them around and i dont not think anyone should expect that either...Maybe you just need to find the right female, one who knows who she is and doesn't need someone to baby her...One that's independent, also so she doesn't need someone to baby her...And above all one who will treat you like a man, not some credit card or daddy she is lacking...
2007-11-19 00:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are born in the wrong place and at the wrong time. By the way you did not ask anything. So how about asking what you wanna know?
2007-11-19 01:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anju 11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i get what you mean. i understand where your coming from.
just keep looking. cause if im that way there's got to be someone like me. but one you must know. once in a while you must do it not all the time like those drones want it. you'll find her. there's always a person for someone.
2007-11-19 00:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by gabiehr9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the question?
2007-11-19 00:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋