ok i work at a daycare.. there is this single dad that comes in alot.. i think he is so cute and i would love to get to know him but i dont know what to say because that is my job :(
he always smiles at me and i smile at him
but its still my job
please someone telll me what to do
2007-11-18 17:00:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if you might have coffe or something with him one evening after you get off
2007-11-18 17:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kirk K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to him first. It's only after you both chat a lil here and there everytime, that he'd get a bit familiar with you, and then u can think of the next step. Right now, perhaps he is still only being courteous. And who knows, he might be dating someone already? Best is to start a conversation with him about the kid....then gradually, as u get familiar, ask him about himself, what he does etc. Let him ask u questions too. But don't start any topic of going out etc. until u r both a bit more familiar with each other. All the best!
2007-11-19 01:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. So what if it's your job...it's not a workplace thing(he does not work there).
Sure whoever is in charge of the daycare does not want you to date parents....but that is kinda silly and selfish on their part. They tell you what to do at work, not your whole life.
If you feel you have to, just meet him outside of the daycare. Go there on your day off at the time you know he will be there and bump into him in the parking lot. Or if you find out he will be at the petting zoo on Sat....you go there too.
And watch the movie 'Must love Dogs' :)
2007-11-19 01:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it!
Hint up that your available as well (be a little obvious), then wait til he asks you out. If you make the first move and he disagrees, it can make things uncomfortable and the eye-candy could never come back.
When and if he does make the first move, keep it on the down low for a while; other parents and staff members can accuse you of giving his child more attention only because you are dating him.
Keep your fingers crossed and keep in mind that you shouldn't find love where you make money
2007-11-19 01:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a bad Q just try to get to know him
2007-11-19 01:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by spy_rock12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes not asking then just make sure he knows youre available. then its in his court.
2007-11-19 01:04:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ben S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it... you never mix relationships and work. it could end bad. just try to forget about him
2007-11-19 01:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by hahapsht 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out, he might like you too.
2007-11-19 01:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by edrcormier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋