Why can't I maintain the interest?

Question

I've been single for quite a few years now. Some people say I don't really make the effort. I'm begining to agree. I loose interest pretty quick. In the past, when I liked a girl, it could be for months or years. Now I'm interested in a girl for a few weeks, then I can't really be bothered. And it's been this way for a few years. What's going on with me?

Answer 1

Depends Richard, you can easily FAKE your interest if you get interested in kiddos are just don't what to be alone like the rest of the human race. But maybe, just maybe your actually getting the good part of the fact that you need more then a pretty face, I say maybe. Because it could just be your a jerk, I don't know you, but if this is geniune your dealing with a social problem that revolves around the way we don't treat real relationships right. See you need friendship at the center of a relationship, not lust, like most people (I'll give them credit, they don't SEE that) do. So you could be forced, to have to make actual geniune relationship are else your not going to be interested for long. I ran into the same senerio. I dated a girl for 6 months, never got intense or serious enough for me, so lost interest QUICK. Then I had a best friend for 5 years, ran into a relationship with her, and I'm STILL having trouble not being interested. So you could just be growing up! You need more? And maybe you don't, your just a jerk looking for a slave, again I don't know you.....