Please help, I even went out of my way to try and make things right, but itstill wasn't good enough.?

Question

I have been with this guy, whom I love dearly for 9 months now, we have had our ups and downs, he even proposed to me back in May, shortly after that he lost his job, eventually he got another but it wasn't paying enough, so he waited til something better paying came along, which did about 2 months ago,and about 3 weeks ago he started acting wierd, and distant. He snapped at me the other night for no reason, (I had just gotten home from work and hadn't seen him all day.) Iit escaladed and insted of walking away like I should have, I said some very cruel and hurtful things out of anger. Of course after the fact I felt terrible and apoligized the next day, and I found out that he was very stressed out and unhappy with his job at the time. It's been 3 days since we got into that fight, and he still isn't acting right, as a matter of fact he's being mean, I asked if he wanted to end the relationship or needed time apart, and he said no. What more can I do? Will things get better.

Answer 1

The best solution is dump the guy. Soon er or later you will Hurt very bad and the tragedy will be huge for everybody. If the guy can't take it because life some times is hard, he must go and look for someone else.You have to be happy and a person like that always be bad news.Take a deep breath and think about it.