Singles & Dating - 11 November 2007

Hypothetically let's say you are 5'8"-5'9" (or if you really are this height or shorter, even better!). Who would you rather be in a long-term relationship and picture a future with:
a girl who is 5'6"-5'7" and slender, or
a girl who is 6'0"+ and husky/big-boned?

Let's assume they both have pretty faces and great personalities. Explain your choice, pleeease and thank you.

Oh, and if you choose neither that's fine too lol (but please explain as well).

2007-11-11 06:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by nightmare hippie girl 3

2007-11-11 06:07:07 · 1 answers · asked by crickey21 1

This is a repost, wasn't getting any answers:I work 60+ hours a week and I haven't been feeling well so I haven't had the energy but I still did it. I'm beyond baged this weekend and all I want to do is relax by myself. I just want to be by myself today and tomorrow. My boyfriend is upset because it's his sons birthday and there's a party at his parents. I don't feel comfortable there and I like I said I'm beyond tired. My whole body hurts. I'm still going to go to the dinner at a resturant for his birthday next weekend. There's no way I'd miss spending a birthday with him. He's very important to me. So I will still be making his son happy, my boyfriend happy and me happy. My bf doesn't see it that way. He thinks I should attend everything his family does together. I just can't do it this weekend. If it was another and I didn't feel how I do, then I would most likley go. But today I need to take care of myself. Does anyone see it the same way I do? What can I say to make him understand

2007-11-11 05:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i already know:
how to win a (grls) heart
1. Hugs from behind.
2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other(don't make her grab yours)
3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
4. Cuddle with her.
5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
6. Write little notes.
7. Compliment her Honestly.
8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
9. Be super sweet to her.
10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
11. Comfort her when she cries.
12.Wipe away her tears
13. Love her with all your heart.
14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
16. Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her!& DONT ever act diff in front of ur friends than u r when its just u and her
17. Take her for a long walk at night
18. Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when its cold to comfort her and hold her close
19. NEVER LIE TO HER
so i like this boy.how to win his<3

2007-11-11 05:50:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have your girl friend ever complaint about your...

2007-11-11 05:47:59 · 2 answers · asked by frankie l 1

2007-11-11 05:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 05:44:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend dislikes sex, she can go without sex for long periods of time, unlike myself who loves it, and can get it everyday. She once suggested that we have sex once a week which equates to 4 times a month, for our age (mid 20's), I laughed really hard at her suggestion. What can she do to increase her sex drive and what can I do to help her with this issue.

2007-11-11 05:44:10 · 5 answers · asked by jfkcash81 1

Try and give a mature answer, please.....

2007-11-11 05:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by PRH1 3

i have some questions : 1 - wat time of the day .. shuld i go for it ?
2- how much time does it take ?
3- how shuld i go abt takin off her clothes? heelllp me ppl !

2007-11-11 05:36:52 · 31 answers · asked by Steve S 1

Hi I'm 27, and since I got contact lenses I have been getting looks from guys.. well I happen to look about 19 or 20, because I'm petite. If one of these guys approach me and start talking, and then ask what my age is, and I tell them I'm 27, they might get dissinterested.. like I'm just a boring old lady.. why is this? Am I no fun anymore? Thank you

2007-11-11 05:36:14 · 11 answers · asked by chilipepper 3

I think my girlfriend can do better than me :( I'm 17, tall, handsome (not bragging), and in shape. When I say I think my girlfriend can do better than me, I mean she can find someone with more experience :( I don't even know how to make out, she would tell me how her boyfriend would make her laugh and how he would make out with her. I have no experience at all, and I think she can do better than me. She is always anxious to see me, that's what she and her family tells me, but I don't know how to make her happy or how to feel comfortable around her enough that I could make out with her or just to do things with her.

2007-11-11 05:29:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this. There is this girl that i really really like. I am 15, and my parents are out of town the last 2 nights. i had a couple of friends over, not a party, just to hang out. she was the only girl there. I was trying hard to show her i like her, but i have never had a girlfriend, so i don't really know how to show it. She kept going in on my bed and saying how soft and comfortable it was. i tried to go in there with her to talk to her, but the other guys kept following me in. Last night, she was on myspace on my computer, and she changed her status update to say "i love dustin" then she grabbed the sticky note pad out of the desk and wrote two notes that say "gaby loves dustin" and stuck them on the computer. then she wrote one that said " I secretely want dustin" and put that between the other two. when i went to bed last night after she left, i couldn't stop thinking of her. ---please read additional details below---

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i layed in bed for about an hour and a half thinking of her until I could finally go to sleep. The point is, I don’t think I can go much longer without knowing how she feels about me. Do you think she likes me? How can I tell/show her that I like her. ?

2007-11-11 05:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by dustin_del1 1

ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while, and i even thought its been about a year, i really love him, and on thansgiving break, im going up to vermont with him for a few days, and i know we're gonna end up having sex, im 18, and i dont want any **** of if your not sure your not ready, because i want to do this, but my question is how bad does it hurt the first time, he is more experinced than me,and will he be ok if we go a little slow?

2007-11-11 05:23:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy at work, much older than me around 12 year older. He is successful, accomplished and a gentleman. I was new at work and was really interested in him. I thought he was too as we both would look at each other all time. He never made a move on me. In the meantime i started to like another guy around my age and in a different office. Now this older gentleman started to show interest in me. He showers me with attention. gave me tickets to a show. I just mentioned to him that I had lost my leather gloves and the next day he bought me a very nice pair of gloves. He says that he cares for me and will do that always and that there is nothing beyond that . His actions are otherwise. He must have gifted me stuff for nealry USD 700. Then he invited me to dinner and i accepted, no harm in that I think. He wrote me an email saying that he misses my smile and he wants me to be happy always. What do i make of this. I am just torn. I think I love him. Pls help.

2007-11-11 05:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would u do if this guy that u liked ofer the summer, and he liked u, didnt email, im, or ask about u at all, gives all ur friends his screen name that he uses the most and not u and u emailed him a couplle months ago and didnt bother to email u back, just imed u today and asked u a question and when u responded didnt respond back until15-30 min later, so then u were busy during that 15-30 min, and then got back and sed, i dont get it, and he just signed off. what would u do?

2007-11-11 05:18:06 · 20 answers · asked by rivery 3

the message was explicit, and he replied back to the girl, cool, don't get angry, but please don't send messages to my mobile, have got problems, send me emails, please understand. What is he up to??

2007-11-11 05:12:28 · 27 answers · asked by Loli 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and he stays over my house a lot. I tell him all the time to go out with his friends but he always tells me he'd rather not. Whenever he does decide to hang out with his friends, which is hardly ever, I don't get mad because I usually have one girl's night out a week with my friends. Last night, however, he was online talking to one of his friends and his friend asked, "are you over at what's her name's house?". My boyfriend asked him what the hell that meant and I guess the conversation ended in a "F-YOU". I don't understand why his friend would say that. I really don't hold my boyfriend hostage here...he does what he wants. I try to get along with all his friends but they just don't seem to like me...or have given a chance to like me.

2007-11-11 05:12:26 · 3 answers · asked by bri 3

He is always looking at porn on his phone and lies to me saying his brother sent him an email link and thats all. but i know for a fact (having my ways) that he is emailing himself the porn links. He knows that I do not like it. I mean watching porn with me is one thing but every day behind my back and lying about it to me. What do you think? Is he losing interest in me? Is it a sign he might start cheating on me?

2007-11-11 05:04:03 · 16 answers · asked by TTC #1 2

I see that sometimes and it has happened to me. what do they think really? 35-60 year old flirting with young girls

2007-11-11 05:00:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

the last boyfriend i had about 8 months ago used to tell me i was VERY prude and i wouldnt let him do ANYTHiNG. and now my current boyfriend and i are veryy sexual and i keep telling myself i dont wanna let him do it cause im way too young, but somehow he makes me want him to do it. its really weird and i dont like how i am now. i tell myself im not gonna do anything with him and then when we hang out he tries stuff and i give in. someone please help me :(

2007-11-11 04:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so there is this girl that i like that likes me as well, and i want to progress our relationship and i feel like to do that i need to be more sexual and flirtatious. any clue on how to do that?

2007-11-11 04:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

only to get your heart broken again,,,I am so angry right now.
why do I love her so much,,despite everything she has done,,I cant not love her,,its really taking its toll on me,,together 11 years,,this crap has been going on for the last 2 years,,,If anyone has any advice for me,,please let me know before I do something stupid,,,Im sorry if I sound out of line,,but f**k,,I am really,,,,REALLY piss*ed off,please help,,,something,,anything to calm me down,,,,I am gonna go off big time!!!!!

2007-11-11 04:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by nickson faction 7

So last night I had a friend (girl) over in my room, we're in a few of the same classes (here in college) and we've known each other for a while. Something came over me and before I knew it we were having sex. I'm not looking to get into any relationships right now, what happens next?

2007-11-11 04:31:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Heres my story, im a 20 year old male, who works for my parents at a RL Polo store located in S.Korea, we recently hired a new girl employee (the store is very small mind you) she 19, i never took interest in her until recently, where she would go behind me and put her head on my shoulder, when this overconfident jerk would try to flirt, also would say dumb random stuff to her boyfriend saying look were a couple!! and she would put her arms around me. Once i met her at a bustop and she told me to wait with her, as it was cold, i was gonna offer my jacket but im not as confident, so i did not.. she sat very close to me, probably to keep from gettin a cold. After she left she texted me thanks for staying with me till the bus came. I flirted with her once or twice, trying to be smooth as possible (lol) asked me what shoe looks better i told her anything looks good on you, your too cute, or something of that nature. She turns around and giggles..

2007-11-11 04:26:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal....I have this crazy *** g/f who I made the mistake of letting her move in with me. She has a 3 y/o daughter who is a brat (of course all kids that age are to a certain extent I suppose), but she is to the extreme. Anyways, I've tried to get her to leave by:

1. Cheating on her (several times)
2. Getting an eviction order from the County Magistrate (although I went back and cancelled it b/c evictions stay on your record if a landlord does a background check....remember I am trying to get rid of her)
3. Acting like a complete asshole (ladies, I am really not one and I hate acting this way)
4. Refusing to be the babysitter

The problem I have is that she has no family and no other friends who are willing to watch her daughter. I am tired of being the babysitter because I am in need of a PT job and just want to go out with my friends sometimes. I am also a full time college student. She also doesn't pay any of the bills...

What else should I do????

2007-11-11 04:23:39 · 21 answers · asked by Wes 2

Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex. I didn't though - i am not that type. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to crash over. I confronted him once but he convinced me he wasn't. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out his female friend (i know her) told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she texts me to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? So far, i played along & said yea i'll crash over. Now i want to clarify i don't sleep over. What should i do?

2007-11-11 04:22:48 · 1 answers · asked by angelgirly333 1

Well there's this new girl at school, and she's totally a prostitute in training. I've been friends with these guys for a long time now, and since she's moved here, they've started ignoring me and my friends. Also, my other friend had this crush on this guy, and she knew it and tried to sit on his lap one day. It broke her heart! Now, we all think she stuffs her bra, because it's so... un-natural. But we don't know how to prove it or anything. How can we get her to admit she stuffs her bra, so all the guys will leave her alone cuz she's fake?

2007-11-11 04:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by Julia 3

Would you rather go out with a shy tall guy or a short guy who is very sociable?

2007-11-11 04:16:42 · 5 answers · asked by bear 1977 4

we were going out for a little and then he said we never talked... he was going out with one of my friends then he broke up with her...he asked me out and then he broke up with me hOW DO I WIN HIM BACK??

2007-11-11 04:16:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous