Singles & Dating - 11 November 2007

My friend's question:

She's with this guy that she loves so much, but she has feelings for his ex best friend who has feelings back as well. She knows that her boyfriend is better for her, but she likes the fact that his friend is a little more daring than her boyfriend. She's been really depressed and got so miserable that she told her boyfriend what was going on... except for the fact that she has feelings for his friend. I think it's getting her boyfriend down but she can't help how she feels. What should she do?

2007-11-11 04:13:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you find it unattractive when it isn't shaved orwithout the use of wax ???? Should it be used in all area ????

2007-11-11 04:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by ....................... 7

2007-11-11 04:03:07 · 39 answers · asked by Anthony 1

Single mothers in their mid thirties. Do they have a chance finding and staying in love? Is it possible? Any advice?

2007-11-11 04:00:27 · 2 answers · asked by blackstoryteller 1

There is this guy down my local pub...i go down there only sometimes and he lives two doors away from me. He is in his late 30's i think, he is married and has two young children. One night down the pub, a year ago he kept staring at me and saying 'i like those kinky boot's' and down in the pool area i coud see him glancing up to me all the time. The past few days every time i go down to the pub he is there staring at me all the time, i find it quite weird but i sort of like it! Once at a party he was saying how attractive i was and making a conversation..my mate overheard him saying to someone about me and my friend that we were so gorgeous. Oh and also the other night he wanted to know how i got on when i went home (i kind of stole my parents champagne for a laugh feel so bad lol :S) and he says i should talk to him more. what do i do? does he like me in that way? should i just avoid him...im so confused because i kind of enjoy what he is doing...it turns me on!? :S

2007-11-11 03:57:39 · 45 answers · asked by ? 2

Okay, I live with my ex-husband but I don't love him. We have 4 kids though. Well, I met someone who I really care for. We saw each other for a good while but there was just some things that I wasn't sure about. Feelings wise he had and still has my heart. We kind of drifted apart for a good while. And now he is seeing someone else and that is killing me. Did I screw up letting him go or do ya'll think it was for the best?

2007-11-11 03:47:07 · 2 answers · asked by just me 2

Everyone thinks it must be great to have hollywood good looks and every woman must want you and everything comes easy.

That's is the biggest bunch of BS going. I've had many women tell me that can't date me because my looks intimadate them.

OH...if you talk about it...you are CALLED arrougant and big-headed and full of yourself.

If you don't believe wait and see numerous people will call me names just for posting this or expressing my feelings. 99.9999% of the time I never say anything or brag BUT people will never give you the luxury of expressing feeling & emotions.
I know thir type....I've seen them all my life...you talk about judging others based on looks alone.

It's 100% the opposite of what everyone thinks...women, men both love to see you fail, they can't wait to cast stones. It makes them feel better about themselves somehow.

I'd love to hear you thoughts

2007-11-11 03:47:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I just found out this 25 y/o guy I went on 2 dates with is trying to make me fall into a relationship with him just to have sex. I didn't though - i am not that type. He went as far as claiming he is a virgin and asks me to crash over. I confronted him once but he convinced me he wasn't. He played with my emotions and made me think he likes me and all that. I also found out his female friend (i know her) told him about how i treated her cousin really bad when we went out, so she knows he is playing me and she texts me to convince he is a good guy and def. not a player type. They are both plotting against me as a subliminal payback. Apparently, there are some people that still hate me in this world. I know ths sounds crazy but i am shocked as well. How should I handle this? So far, i played along & said yea i'll crash over. Now i want to clarify i don't sleep over. Should I confront him & the grl...or should be civil and tell him "i'm not interested in you...let's just be friends"

2007-11-11 03:46:42 · 1 answers · asked by angelgirly444 1

ok, I think im in love with my boyfriend but ive got these weird feelings that seem to come over me. when i look at him i just get lost in his eyes and cant stop staring is it love? .

another problem is my friend and he told me he was gonna propose to me sometime btwn now and the end of the year and just a reminder i am only 15 and he is only 17. when my friend told me about this i passed out. when i woke up i had no emotion tword wat she had told me and then when he addmitited it still no emotion and now im feeling mad at him cuz i know he is gonna do it but dont know when and it is buggin the hell out of me what do it do?



ok last question this is for the guys. ok my bf tells me hes ready if i am and im not sure what to do so guys what should i do?

any tips accepted and well aprecitated

2007-11-11 03:30:42 · 1 answers · asked by purple_croc_2005 1

hi. so this is a really long story made short..me and my ex have been broken up for about 6 months now..but ive never stopped loving him..last month he said he missed me and loved me and i told him i felt the same but that was that and he just kinda stopped talking to me..i asked him what he did on halloween and he said he hung out with one of his [girl] friends..ive been going so crazy over him the last 2-3 months or so and i honestly, REALLY need to tell him how i feel even though i did tell him way back in augustish..and i had a dream last night that we were talking to eachother and we both confessed we loved eachother and he was asking why i couldntve told him sooner, because in my dream he then had a girlfriend, which sums up that i need to tell him and really really let him know how much i love him once and for all before its too late..idk sorry here's the question- if he had feelings for me after 6 months a month ago do you think he still has them? what should i do...

2007-11-11 03:20:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here's the story and question....

I was with my girlfriend almost 5 years....we loved each other very much....we did have some fights and arguments.
I wasn't perfect, I did say mean things sometimes or do things but I have OCD and Borderline Personality Disorder.
Not all of it, but most of it was caused by my problems, I have been getting help and working on myself for the last
year and a half and been getting better. I regularly go to my therapist and psychiatrist and take my meds as prescribed.
I have gotten better. She left me 3 months ago because she said she didn't like the way I treated her. She is the type
that wants a "fairytale" relationship. Everyone has told her including her parents that she won't get that with anyone.
She also expects no fights or arguments. Well anyways she told me for the first two months after she left...that she
still wanted to be with me, she loves me, misses me, wants to know I'm serious about us, etc. Then two weeks after
that go by and she doesn't say much to me....well I texted her a lot but it was because when I tried to give her space
before by not texting as much, she would text me and say why are you ignoring me or I don't think you're serious about
this...and then when I did she didn't want me to text or wouldn't text me back most of the time.

2007-11-11 03:20:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 03:17:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really don't want to contend with going away next weekend. I've already talked to them and they said think of what else you can do..

2007-11-11 03:10:52 · 2 answers · asked by S H 2

Lately, I have been going through some stress of my own&I have been HORRIBLE2my AMAZING boyfriend. I never cheated but I say HORRIBLE things. I belittle him, I don't do anything4him, I call him names etc.Hes told me that it pisses him off, its disrespectful and he doesn't like it, but I never stopped. The other day he called me and I had an attitude (as I have had for the past YEAR...off and on...obviously we have or good days and good weeks even)...but he said that hes tired of my attitude and hed call me in the morning, so I broke up with HIM, for NO reason, just being a b**** and the next day I realized how dumb I was. I tried to get back with him but now, he does not want to have ANYTHING to do with me. Even though I left HIM, he feels free of all the **** I have put him through and doesnt want to be a "yoyo"...I KNOW FOR A FACT, that he LOVES me. he wants2be happy wit me but he THINKS i wont change n wont gimme a chance.HOW do i fix things.if i cant...how do i get over him??????

2007-11-11 03:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe because some people don't know how to treat a person.

2007-11-11 02:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have known this guy since i was four, we're almost 17 now, ive been going out with him for about a year and a half. he wants to have sex with me, but i dont want to yet, i mean i love him extremly much, but i just want to keep my virginity a little longer, he knows im a virgin, and i know he's not, i want to just tell him i want to wait, but will he get mad, how will he react? what would you do if your girlfriend wanted to wait?

2007-11-11 02:51:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

People say to keep it cool and like yourself and eventually you'll find a boyfriend/girlfriend. What if this never happens? People say to just have fun and not let getting a boyfriend/girlfriend be your main goal.

2007-11-11 02:46:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I said something I shouldn't have said last night, and it resulted in her ignoring my existence and me storming out the door. We're still playing the quiet game. What should I do to make things better again? I've apologized a few times, but she ignores it. Help!!!

2007-11-11 02:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by Brad 3

so. i have been with my boyfreind for a year now. we had a rough time getting to where we are now, but now that we are on this level things have been great. we live together and so fourth.

I have been home with my family sick with MONO and i get a call from my boyfriend who had just left his frat's mixer with a soroity on campus. He tells me something I already knew... that he had cheated on every girlfriend he ever had except me and his first girlfriend (she broke his heart) and that his honesty plagues him....

he tells me tonight that he could had an opportunity where he was inches away from cheating (twice)... and that he walked away because it was wrong and because he loved me...

Then he started telling me about how all the girls wouldnt let him stop dancing with them and that it felt so wrong having his body up against another girls'
I mean thats good and all

but now i am going to be going nuts every party he goes to and i am not there?!?! how do i deal with this?

2007-11-11 02:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by boots4939 1

This guy (my best guy friend) acts like he likes me but I don't know how to tell.

2007-11-11 02:28:05 · 2 answers · asked by bubbly 2

My boyfriend is a couple of years older than me about is now at university of the other side of the country, I'm worried that the distance will end our relationship.

Have you ever been in a long distance relationship that has survived?

What ways can you make long distance relationships more bareable?

2007-11-11 02:19:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay..met a guy on Monday, made out with him Wednesday...He called me twice after that, and I've called him twice after that (one was last night). He acts like he likes me, and I think I may like him, but when I talk to him on the phone he seems un-interested...but when I see him it's different. Now I'm pretty sure that I'm just on the rebound (I'm not sure yet, it's only been a week), but I feel like from his prospective he's using me...what do you think? Am I his rebound girl or something?

2007-11-11 02:17:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 02:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by virgox 1

I with this boy that I love so much. But he is just so attached to me he loves me and gets really scared that i am going to break up with. I asked him Why does he worry so much he said its because he scared he is going to lose me. The thing is i am like this extreme cheater and scared that i am going to hurt him really bad.
I want to stay with him cause i love everything about him. I dont want 2 cheat on him but i am scared it just might happen
Stay with him or let him go?

2007-11-11 02:13:41 · 15 answers · asked by devil 2

m nancy n is 15 yrs old

2007-11-11 02:13:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend's question:

She's with this guy that she loves so much, but she has feelings for his ex best friend who has feelings back as well. She knows that her boyfriend is better for her, but she likes the fact that his friend is a little more daring than her boyfriend. She's been really depressed and got so miserable that she told her boyfriend what was going on... except for the fact that she has feelings for his friend. I think it's getting her boyfriend down but she can't help how she feels. What should she do?

2007-11-11 02:00:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-11 01:57:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys, I need to ask this.

What are the main things you like about Girls,
I know some of the answers are gonna be silly LOL but really being real, what do you like in a girl...looks and personality
(sorry about my spelling lol)

Sara
x

2007-11-11 01:49:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the female.

2007-11-11 01:43:05 · 1 answers · asked by Alex J 3

My bf asked me if i wanted to go on a drive after office. And i said yes. He told me to wrap my work and i did. But then suddenly some queries came on a report i had sent and my boss asked me to discuss it with him and answer the queries. Consulting him and sending the reply took me almost an hour. My bf was calling and i told him that something very urgent - important has come up and he'll have to wait. I said sorry even and asked him to wait. As soon as i finished my work his msg came that 'by the time you'll read this msg i'll be gone and dont call me'. I didn't call, but i was so hurt. Night had fallen and i was thinking didn't he even care how i'll go back. He has a car so he could leave me home, i usually take a bus back home. Im sure a lot was going in his mind too but did he over react by leaving me? I feel so bad... it has been 5 days now but its hurting so much that i didn't talk to him on phone even when he asked me to. Tell me what to think

2007-11-11 01:39:19 · 11 answers · asked by spicy cola 2