Good looks, a sense of humour and similar interests.
2007-11-11 01:51:54
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answer #1
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answered by Jack 4
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When a guy is young and does not know any better, physical beauty counts very highly. However, in the long run, to have a happy life, one must marry someone that they actually like being with. A spouse is a lover, a parent, a friend, a confidant and must be dependable.
Everyone must discover this for themselves. That includes both men and women. Your handsome prince may not look all that handsome. His beautiful princess many not be the most perfect version of the current thinking of what beauty is.
If you have a beautiful looking boyfriend but you spent a lot of time dealing with him cheating on you or bailing him out of jail, or degrading yourself for him, he may not really be all that attractive.
On the other hand, if you have an average looking boyfriend and you have lots of fun together, really talk about things and he treats you the way you deserve to be treated, well, that goes a long way.
Boys do not know what they want. Do not worry about it.
The main motivation for boys is sex. They want girls to do all kinds of degrading things for them then they will tell everyone else about it. Sometimes they enjoy telling the stories more than the actual acts themselves.
No guy wants to end up with the gal whom everyone else has already had.
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2007-11-11 02:06:36
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answer #2
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answered by Jacob W 7
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There are a few things that a girl must have in order to be attractive. 1. Looks are only skin deep. 2. She must be able to have an intelligent conversation. Once the honeymoon is over there has to be something else there. 3. I like an intelligent woman. One who can share knowledge on many levels, at least up to date on current events. 4. A woman who is secure within herself. Someone who clings to you because they want to be close to you, not because they are clingy and needy. 5. A woman who is independent, but still has some old fashioned values. 6. A woman who has a vision and goals in life. 7. A woman who wants things and is not afraid to go out and get them. 8. A woman who can be herself, no matter who she is around. 9. A woman who doesn't talk about people behind their backs and spread senseless gossip. 10. A woman who knows she is a woman, and loves being a woman. 11. Someone with a bubbly personality or pleasant personality, who can easily adjust to whatever situation arises. 12. A woman who is fun and exciting, even if just sitting together in a park looking into each others eyes.13. A non couch potato, that just likes to watch cartoons and play games. Now this is not for everyone, this is just what I like in a girl/woman
2007-11-11 02:15:06
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answer #3
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answered by tc 2
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Any girl that dresses like a tart and gets smashed at the weekend trying to emulate the knuckle dragging boys are definitely OFF the list.
Girls should have a bit of respect for themselves and then they can get a bit of respect from a decent fella.
Dress well, act well (like a sober female not a drunk male), make the best of your looks and try not to humiliate the boys.
I give and expect respect. It goes both ways and then a long term fulfilling partnership could develop.
However if a quick bit of $%^ is wanted then a smashed tart will do as you can then leave her in her own vomit.
2007-11-11 02:54:58
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Maturity and the willingness, ability, and aptitude to exchange things of value. I admire intelligent women with good personalities that are confident and capable. To be sure, I am really into women that are physically attractive and are good in bed, but in the long run it's the whole package that turns me on. With a little effort in the right direction most any woman can be attractive, unfortunately some women don't make the necessary efforts in the right directions to be attractive,likewise, some men fail to do so as well. Honesty, maturity, and continuous conscious effort go a long, long ways. The continuing exchange of ever increasing things of value is the key to a long lasting love relationship. To be in love, now that's attractive.
2007-11-11 02:10:28
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answer #5
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answered by Michael F 3
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First of all, I would not even talk to a girl that acted spoiled, so personality is a major thing for me. I like a girl who has a good sense of humor, nice nature, caring, and down to earth. I also wont go out with any sluts
Second thing is looks. Ill start with the hair, cuz if its ugly, im not gonna evn talk to her. Dont ever go bald or buzz, its ugly. I like it at a nice length with some kind of flow or somthin. Im not too concerned about the color of the eyes, but the face is another important thing. I like a girl with either a cute or beautiful face. The girl can never be flat in the chest for my liking. i like medium-really big boobs. Next is the stomach, I dont want any anerixic chik. I like it fit and toned, but I can it hav it curvy anyways. Next is the buttox, I usually like something there, like toned and fit, altho i could do without, but not too much junk in the trunk. Then comes the legs, i love beautiful legs. just clean smooth legs tht are also somwaht toned. I dont want fat flab over here or on the arms, wel not too much anywayz. i just like nice feet, painting them makes it better tho
thn theres the overall height, i will not go out with anyone taller than me. o and hands, its better if u have a nice color on the fingernails too
I hope this all helps you, but dont kill yourself with this. i consider myself pretty picky
2007-11-11 02:05:14
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answer #6
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answered by dudeman15 3
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Overall, if the girl makes the guy a better person, then she's the one. And I don' t mean she makes him better by doing his chores, but if she fulfills the other part of him, and ultimately brings up his self esteem, she's it.
She's got to have nice eyes, and definitely a nice smile. She definitely needs to know how to have a good time, and not be a negative presence, despite past experiences.
Also, she's gotta have nice knockers. Just kidding. I think. lol
2007-11-11 01:56:03
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answer #7
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answered by WiiSoHornii 2
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I maybe old, but I still like womens faces and figures,I do not with most men like ultra thin or obese fat ladies.Age does not matter to me, or so called attractiveness, much of make up,
Just a good old fashioned girl ,a female mate,whom I can go home to, and cuddle, and spoil occasionally,also one whom has a mind of her own but wont impose it,and most of all faithfulness,which I will trust and be trusted on.
2007-11-11 01:59:40
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answer #8
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answered by ardha11iday 3
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Everyone has their own likes about looks and personalities. Basically we are mainly (there are obvious exceptions) geared up to like the opposite sex.
I personally like big gals with abrupt personalities.
Unlike Yo Mamma I have a two point grading system... 1 point for each **** cheek
2007-11-11 01:57:09
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answer #9
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answered by Anonymous
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Uniqueness.
Nice face, I prefer a unique one. But in a pretty way :P
And of course a good slim body (she doesn't have to have anorexia though...)
sense of humour
a good personality (not a fake or slutty one, someone with her own opinion and stuff)
and I prefer bright people :)
and shes gotta be a very cheerful person!
and I hate whiners... shes gotta be reasonable yaknow xD and honest. and understanding... and fun... and wud b nice if she shared some of my interests...
2007-11-11 01:55:13
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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Personality is the major no1. What good is a stunning looking girl who cant hold a conversation. Relationships aren't just bout sex and people forget this. What I mean is when your outa the bed what then???!!!
2007-11-11 01:54:12
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answer #11
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answered by knight32 4
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