Singles & Dating - 11 November 2007

I found out this evening that my girlfreind doesn't know who she is. She is very confused on life in general so to speak. She has been taking a bible study class and says he has no idea what she is reading she doesn't understand a word of it. She goes to church with me every sunday and she tells me tonight that the sermons confuse her she has no idea what to make of them. She doesn't understand why I love her. She doesn't understand why her doesn't want to live with her(she is nine by the way and i don't even understand that one.) Her daughter is constantly over at her grandparents house. FYI when her daughter was younger her ex-husband would treat them both like ****. he would constanly yell and scream tell her that she is worthless. She has never been in a loving relationship until now, and she is not handling this one very well. I love her with all my heart and am not going to abandon her. she constantly asks me why are you with me? I tell her it is because i love her with all.

2007-11-11 14:52:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i have liked this guy for about 3 weeks now.
(i'm 14 btw)
and he's a year older,
so he tells all his friends and my friends that he likes me and another girl, he just can't decide.
then when i talk to him he says the same thing.
he calls me all the time and is ALL OVER ME (in a good way) at school. and were always together because we have tennis pratice together after school and we have most of the same friends. so he has liked me for the same ammount of time i liked him but the entire time he has liked some other girl(about 5 different ones)
last night we were at a friend's house and we ended up sneaking off to make out. and he is the BEST kisser. oh my god. i freaking melted!
hahah
then today when we were hanging out he was being all boyfriendish(rubbing my sholders, picking me up out of nowhere and like kissing me on the forehead)
but he didn't ask me out!
what the hell is goign on!!?!?!!?
thanks for reading all this...hahahha

2007-11-11 14:46:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

my good friends dad just died today. i feel awful i feel like i piece of my heart just got ripped out and im just sitting here crying. i cant go over to her house right now. i was good friends with him, we talked all the time and he was really nice. i remember his voice. why am i so sad? i shouldn't be the one sad. my god what should i do?

2007-11-11 14:31:44 · 14 answers · asked by aminallover29 2

Hi ill start out by saying im a freshmen in high school. yes, sadly. But im one of those few freshmen who hang out with all the juniors and sophmores. I have this class where all grades are in it. its 2d art. theres this kid named victor who isn't really popular, hes apparently really funny, weird, and the best head of hair ive probably seen in a guy. hes a junior too and its not really a big thing cause my schools weird and yea. This weird small kid told him I think hes hot and he said cool, and the next day asked the kid If i liked him, i dont know what the small kid said to him. I see him in the hall alot. he looks at me alot. we never talk. i have a chance after class to say hey but it seems I don't have enough guts. Hes pretty mellow and is not rude so I don't know why. My friends make fun of me cause i like him so much and I talk about him alot. so what do I do to get his attention, and I know talking to him would help but **** man i just can't

2007-11-11 14:26:22 · 1 answers · asked by lyrical headspin 1

I'll admit it I love having sex, I think it feels amazing, and is just an amazing thing all around. But why does that make me a slut to every single girl. It's not like im going around sleeping with their men. So can someone please tell me why it's such a big deal to have sex?

2007-11-11 14:24:47 · 1 answers · asked by kiss_kiss_bang_bang40 1

Im an incredibly emotional person and im intense and a lot of people cant handle it, geez sometimes I cant, When I fall in love i fall deep so when i get hurt i react strongly, unfortunately some of my intense emotions have ruined a relatioship with a great guy and I want to change this for myself how?

2007-11-11 14:24:35 · 1 answers · asked by liz 1

Just things like going to the movies or spending time together, absolutely no sex involved.

2007-11-11 14:19:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The story in a nutshell. Recently, I have begun seeing a guy we will call "John". Our first date, out of the blue, "John" decides to tell me a few things about himself...one of which is "i've never been close to getting married.". I thought to myself, well this is a strange thing to bring up, but im not going to comment on it...and we go about our date perfectly fine. We got together last night, and he tells me "i have no desire to get married any time soon"...again, we were not talking about getting married, i've not said anything to lead him to think i even want to get married...but yet he feels the need to keep telling me...what's the deal here? Im 26, he's 28...yes i want to get married eventually...but it's not first and foremost on my mind...any idea how i should respond to this if he happens to bring it up again...or what exactly should i think about a guy who keeps bringing it up..out of the blue...for no reason...

Men..give me your thoughts :)

2007-11-11 14:18:01 · 15 answers · asked by shopaholic2008 1

I brokeup with my ex after dating for 6 years cause he would not marry me.Well we had been broke up for 6 months and he got in an accident and called me.He cant walk .He is on a walker for the next month and I came back and have been helping with housework,shopping and cooking. His mom also helped and for a breif time I thought I might consider getting back with him.Then about 3 weeks ago I found out his father had cancer and from what I can see he is fading fast he cant eat much and he is very weak.The problem is my Ex has started to treat me like crap.The whole weekend he talked to me like I was a moron.When I had trouble with my car he put me down and made me feel bad.He always says why dont you call your brothers .In the end I called a professional.But he called me a pitiful orphan and said my family wouldnt help me.It hurt and I just thought to myself .I hate him.Next We went and had dinner with his Mom and his Dad asked if we would go to church together as a family.I will but?

2007-11-11 14:17:48 · 1 answers · asked by butterflyspy 5

well i cant get any males i guess im not attractive,should i become a lesbien?

2007-11-11 14:15:13 · 25 answers · asked by kim L 1

I feel like I am not as pretty as other girls at my school or guys think that I i'm just good for a friend not a gf". I'm not short (5'5"),. Only the weird goofy looking guys look at me "that" way it's never the hot emo guys! and I hate sitting out on slow songs. It makes me feel even worse about myself. I don't like being alone, i miss holding hands, kissing, cuddling, ect.

2007-11-11 14:11:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw my crush for the first time in 6 months. He was blushing, smiling, and raised his eyebrow at me. His eyes also got wider when he realized it was me. He also had a gleam in his eyes.

2007-11-11 14:07:04 · 1 answers · asked by sarah 1

I don't know what to do. My ex and I are still into eachother because we never really broke up I just wanted space. Something happend and he has to go to trail for. He wants to send me to Miami during his trail. He's paid for it all and I still haven't made up my mind yet. The trail is going to start in December that's around my birthday. Should I go to court on him or should I go to Miami

2007-11-11 14:01:01 · 1 answers · asked by ikea t 2

in the tense , i don't like it
not in the tense i do this because its a habit

2007-11-11 13:59:02 · 1 answers · asked by daz r 3

There's this guy that I'm friends with and I don't have any classes with him this year, so I said we have to hang out sometime. He mentioned that his hottub is up and working so we're going to hang out in there and catch up. I like him, and would love for him to be my bf, but is he thinking the same thing? I asked him out a couple years ago and he got all "I don't wanna ruin our friendship" on me. Hottubbing is a good sign right??

2007-11-11 13:57:39 · 30 answers · asked by crzygrl0902 2

Does anyone know how to get your freinds mom to like u and eventually take u to bed?

2007-11-11 13:47:36 · 32 answers · asked by OJ 2

I been in a relationship with a friend for 3 months and at times it feels like when we are together, we run out of things to say. I mean, its not all the time, but it happens once in a while. The conversations are not as deep anymore, more like how our day went and telling stories. Don't get me wrong, its not like we are uncomfortable with each other or anything, we enjoy each other's company and trust each other alot. Its just that we are so comfortable with each other that the passion is thin since we are seemingly as friend and lovers at the same time. We see each other atleast 4-5 times a day since we get off college at the same time.

I was wondering if this is normal? What are some topics we can talk about to spice our conversations up?

2007-11-11 13:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i do something in front of people like presenting a class project it feels like the whole world is looking at me.its been like this since i was little.i don't singing or dancing for people or just performing.i try to aviod performing in front of people. even in front of my family i get nervous.someone please help me get out of this.

2007-11-11 13:39:59 · 24 answers · asked by livelifelikealibra 3

So i was browsing myspace recently and I found someone who i went to high school with.
Here's the thing, when we were nerdy freshmen we hung out with each other 24/7 because we were both new in town.
Then he ditched me for the cool kids. Seriously.

Grudges aside, i want an ice breaker so i can email him.
Naturally I'm a funny person but I've got major brain fart. Any good openers?

2007-11-11 13:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by Meganyeahthecook 3

I apologize for the joke my little brother played but I do have a question...was I drunk at a party???

I 0nly weigh 100 pounds
I drank about...2-3 cups of beer from a Keg
plus took about 3-4 shots

I don't really remember a lot
I remember I hit on my boyfriend's little brother and told him he was cute (mind you he's 14 I'm 19) I gave some guy a lap dance told random people they were cute and also was hugging everyone and laughing A LOT.

was I most likley drunk or "tipsy"
also I almost fell asleep on my boyfriend's stairs
but then woke up and walked up the stairs

2007-11-11 13:34:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

does that mean he really like her and cant get over her until he have her. Cuz there this guy i'm not interested in i rejected him many times and he still stares at me and flirts at me.

2007-11-11 13:29:56 · 4 answers · asked by Jasmine 1

Love aside, what age range do you think I should be dating?
Also, how old do I look?

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2225/1639495243_5e86e96884_b.jpg
(sry, it's a close up, but I'm 5'7", 144 lbs, average build, 6:30 mile)

2007-11-11 13:28:12 · 15 answers · asked by Adam S. 3

...I am not racist and very open to other cultures...Why do people get pissed cause I dont want to date outside my race...

2007-11-11 13:24:18 · 6 answers · asked by Textiles.Beauty 1

I like to go on and on for hours at a time. My g/f suggested we use lubricant. Can anyone suggest a type of lubricant that will allow for slipidy sliding for like 3-4 hours at a time?
A kind that does not melt condoms would be nice too.
Thanks!

2007-11-11 13:23:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this jehovas witness boy who i want to ask out, but i am a christian, we like each other, but would that affect either of our religeons? Plz help!

2007-11-11 13:21:41 · 2 answers · asked by jordyn d 1

I understand everyone wants the person they are with to show affection in some form. More and more I feel like a wallet with legs. Expensive gifts, exspensive dinners, cruises, expensive vacations, pampering, etc... When do you finally feel like a princess? I cant seem to find a woman who doesn't want to be pampered and taken care of. Everyone needs nurturing to women equate money with love and nurturing?

2007-11-11 13:18:39 · 14 answers · asked by leo 1

All my life I have been attracted to a petite figure. However my girlfriend (of 4yrs) is a size 12. I love her unconditionally and we are best friends. I am extremely attracted to her and her figure. You could say I am converted.

I'd like to hear what men and women have to say to this?

2007-11-11 13:17:53 · 17 answers · asked by George C 2

i am a perverted funny jack as idiot but all my friends are do i sound like an undatable loser

2007-11-11 13:16:38 · 28 answers · asked by Joseph 1

there's this older guy he won't leave me alone i told him that i already have a boyfriend but that just doesn't seem to be enough how do i get him off of my back?

2007-11-11 13:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by mela 2

How do you tell someone is losing interest in you?

2007-11-11 13:09:55 · 18 answers · asked by ~*Lucy*~ 3