An Ex question thats kind of hairy I feel trapped what should I do?

Question

I brokeup with my ex after dating for 6 years cause he would not marry me.Well we had been broke up for 6 months and he got in an accident and called me.He cant walk .He is on a walker for the next month and I came back and have been helping with housework,shopping and cooking. His mom also helped and for a breif time I thought I might consider getting back with him.Then about 3 weeks ago I found out his father had cancer and from what I can see he is fading fast he cant eat much and he is very weak.The problem is my Ex has started to treat me like crap.The whole weekend he talked to me like I was a moron.When I had trouble with my car he put me down and made me feel bad.He always says why dont you call your brothers .In the end I called a professional.But he called me a pitiful orphan and said my family wouldnt help me.It hurt and I just thought to myself .I hate him.Next We went and had dinner with his Mom and his Dad asked if we would go to church together as a family.I will but?

I really feel angry at him but he needs help and his Folks like me so much.I would feel like a heel if I ditched him when his Dad is dying by not helping them anymore but I dont feel any warm fuzzy feelings toward him right now.

Answer 1

i don't blame you.The best thing to do, is talk with his mother an tell her about the problem. Be direct and she must understand about the matter.The guy is a loser and nothing can be done.Your life is important too.Be nice is one thing, be an idiot is other. Think about it.You had enough.