Well I know how he feel I bet. I have been that guy before. There has been 2 women in my life that I have been so in love with that I would not give up. The fact is he likes you, he thinks you are beautiful, smart, funny, and sweet. He wants you to be part of his life and he wants to be the one who you can turn to and rely on when your whole world is falling down. Yes it is sad when someone finds them self in love with someone who will not love them back. You need to ask yourself, why you don't like him. Is it just because you do not think he is that good looking? If that's your only reason then you are a fool and I hope you never find happiness! If it is because you do not get along with him, you think he acts stupid, childish, and would not or does not respect you for who and what you are, then you should not go out with him. The 2 women that I have felt that way about in the past 1 was in high school, well she never dated me and I had a crush on her for 2 years. I then met a Japanese girl named Nao, who I dated a year and feel more in love with her than anyone else that came before her or since her. The second woman is a bar tender who I met one night out about 5 or 6 years ago. I think she is so beautiful, she is smart, funny and so sweet. Yet, she did not like me because she 1, just had started dating a guy whom she is now married to who has cheated on her and is not that good to her in all. 2, She did not find me attractive. She has always said I am a sweet guy, nice, and kind. Yet I am not as attractive as guys she usually dates. Though I see her for far more than her looks. Will I ever give up and get over her? Yes one day I will if and when I met another woman who I fell for like I did Nao Adachi. Until then I do not know. She, I remember gained about 60 or 70 pounds and I still thought this second girl was beautiful in my eyes. Her husband must not have that’s when he cheated on her again. You should ask yourself why you do not like this guy. Is it for real reasons meaning you will not get along with him, and or he will not be good and faithful to you? Or is the reason just because you do not think he is cute enough to be with you? If looks is the only reason you are basing your reasons for not dating him, well, I hope you get what you deserve and the kind of love you deserve in life. Just remember that at one time a guy did love you for who you are as well as how you look. He will move on it may take a little time but he will see that you are not as wonderful and perfect as he sees you now. Good Luck. ☺
2007-11-11 13:53:29
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answered by Prof. Dave 7
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this happens lots to adult men i knew my suggestion is the two come out and tell her the reality or attempt and meet somebody new your in easy terms sixteen you have multiple time to fulfill new human beings and girls and to circulate out with them yet once you elect a female chum now attempt to no longer be sooooo extreme high quality and much less of a chum and greater of a guy they might choose as much as now be greater flirty and suggestive approximately what you elect theres no different way as i see it
2016-12-08 19:06:02
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answered by finnen 4
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Girl, I think you should find out what grosses him out. like if he don't like farting, or ppl that pick their nose, or uncleanliness, gross him out. He'll be like EW! THATS FREAKING NASTY. I dont wanna date someone like her. haha.
hope i helped. good luck with your huy
2007-11-11 13:37:18
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answered by ChelsWels 2
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