I understand everyone wants the person they are with to show affection in some form. More and more I feel like a wallet with legs. Expensive gifts, exspensive dinners, cruises, expensive vacations, pampering, etc... When do you finally feel like a princess? I cant seem to find a woman who doesn't want to be pampered and taken care of. Everyone needs nurturing to women equate money with love and nurturing?
2007-11-11 13:18:39 · 14 answers · asked by leo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every girl wants to be treated like a princess,
but that doesn't mean you have to spend loads of money,
just show her you care =]
treat her as if there's no other woman in the world, and you only have eyes for her =]
but from what it sounds like, the women you're dating don't like you, they just want your money =[[
hope everything works out!
2007-11-11 13:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kailey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't need to be treated like a princess to be totally honest, I just want a guy who can support me and a family comfortably you know I would perfer not to live in a trailer park(no offense to people that do I just don't want to) Anyways a nice gift is a great thing to get but I don't have to have it if you don't have the money and if you do have the money to I would rather have little gifts that I could maybe decorate the house with or a small piece of jewelry like a ring or necklace or something like that. I hate being pampered unconditional love and a faithful man is all I need.
Ok now that I'm done preachin' on my soap box I hope that answered your question. If not I'm sorry you had to read all that.
2007-11-11 13:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you're getting involved with the wrong women, those who are only interested in money. Try finding a woman that works as hard as you do and has her own money. Also, be sure that she just wants someone who plain ole treats her like a lady and nothing else, and everything will fall into place.
2007-11-11 13:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord, I don't know who you've been dating but that's about as far from my behavior as you can get.
I live with a young lady who is barely 18. She doesn't know how to change a tire, check her oil, or even make a meal. Why? Its been done for her, her entire life. And god forbid she go outside and get dirty doing anything remotely 'outdoorsy' ... lol and clean the house? HAH!! What I can say, is that she's got a good heart.
But her answer to everything is "That's what I have _(boyfriend)_ for." or "I'll just call Daddy." etc. Instead of being self-sufficent, she depends on these men in her life.
And in her relationships? She encourages her boyfriends to buy her things.
Frankly, I dont understand.
On the other end of the spectrum, there's me and my best friend.
I do many of my own car repairs, I work on a farm on my spare time taking care of my horses.
When I go out with friends, I take care of my meal every time. I don't like it for others to pay my way- it makes me feel as if I owe them something.
I take pride in paying my own bills and when I do occassionally have to borrow money from a friend (for those emergencies we all have) they KNOW it'll get paid back ASAP because I take responsibility for my bills.
To have a boyfriend pay for a meal every now and then is fine. But for the most part, I like to go dutch as often as possible. Or taking turns, is fine too!!
I don't like expensive gifts. I'd rather spend time with you doing something I like to do (ride horses, etc). And instead of buying you things, I like to spend time with you doing something YOU like to do (maybe go to a football game?).
And my idea of a perfect night? Its not an expensive vacation. I like a good movie, a simple dinner (pizza & beer is ok with me lol), and a night spent cuddling in front of the TV.
I know you may have experienced this 'greedy princess' routine more than once, but please don't lump all women into that category.
There are many of us who just want companionship, not money.
2007-11-11 14:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by kerrisonr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will treat a man like a king ..if i am treated like a queen !!! that is my personal motto.
if your treating women like a princess and not getting treated like a prince...keep looking. you are being used by the ones that give us good women a bad name.
i cant speak for ALL women, but can speak for quite a few good friends...LOVE, RESPECT, TRUST, come first, money can then make it more fun in doing things together.
why dont you try meeting someone without lavishing them to the hilt. dinner, movies etc till you get to know them ...save the expensive gifts, cruises, vacations etc for the one that DOES treat you like a king.
good luck
2007-11-11 13:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're chasing the wrong women. Taking care of someone has nothing to do with money or gifts. It's about having someone who'll laugh with you and cry with you, share hard times as well as good times. My partner and I take care of each other. Yes, there are times when he makes me feel like a princess... but there are also plenty of times when I make him feel like a king!
2007-11-11 13:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by tocumwal_kate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH gosh not at all I am dating this guy right now and yeah he pays for dinner most of the times but i've paid for drinks or movie tickets and stuff like that maybe you're just not dating the right kind of girls. Yeah we all want to feel special and wanted but him buying me things is not the only way to do that. I like it when he just texts to say hello or good morning or ( not that he's done this yet) but i would love if he just showed up cause he wanted to see me and talk that' really makes me feel wanted. defintely upgrade your female friends
2007-11-11 13:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by Help Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they extremely a similar women individuals,notwithstanding? i have talked about women individuals that insist on the princess therapy and characteristic the princess mentality are often airheads,and do not even recognize what equality skill. Ah,there is the answer. they are basically morons.
2016-10-24 01:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like you are attracting the wrong women!! I am all for being treated like someone's special 'princess' if you will, but I certainly DON'T equate money with attention. I just want regular thoughtfulness and consideration. :)
2007-11-11 13:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by sublime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they love to be treated like they're worth something to someone.
And maybe you're just dating gold diggers like the above said.
2007-11-11 13:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋