there's this older guy he won't leave me alone i told him that i already have a boyfriend but that just doesn't seem to be enough how do i get him off of my back?
2007-11-11 13:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by mela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him if he will not back off then you are going to report him to the police . That should make him realize you are serious & wanting him to leave you alone. Good Luck.
2007-11-11 13:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by simplesimon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh I hate when that happens. They are so annoying aren't they?
Be very firm with him. Say what part of "I am not the least bit interested in you" don't you understand??
Now, I've done that and they've come back with a smart a#@ remark...so I say ...and I love this saying but it's great.
Hey ! Stop wasting good air around me (and you can add, YOU OLD FART !) that should embarrase him enough to leave you alone finally.
If he calls you a bi^%$....then tell him well if that's what it takes to get you to stop harrasing me, well then let it be written and let it be done.
Being very firm and being ready for a comeback is important. If you do it right...he will be the one who walks away, if not, you leave and don't ever smile. look him straight in the eye with the most serious look you have, like you are scolding him...(he will recognize the look believe me)
Good luck ~
2007-11-11 13:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him flat out you're not interested and that you would like for him not to contact you any more and if he does then you call the police and get a restraining order... if he breaks the order then he goes to jail for a min of 3 years
2016-05-29 06:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he doesn't seem to get the hint, you just have to tell him to leave you alone. You are going to have to stand your ground and you will have to get stern with him. Don't answer his emails nor any telephone calls if he persists.
Hopefully he gets the message then and you won't have to resort to legal measures in order for him to stay away.
2007-11-11 13:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg! I no the type and i hate ppl like that. they r so annoying this 1 kid kept doing that 2 me he came down to my street and stufit got so bad bcuz he was saying rude comments about grls bodys and stuff that my neighbors (we r a caring neighborhood) some how band him. I think the best way 2 get rid of him is 2 avoid him. tell ur boyfriend im sure ur boyfriend will b really mad and take care of it LOL! have u and a group of friends tell him off. thats wut i did! lol
2007-11-11 13:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him to leave you alone and you have a bf already
2007-11-11 13:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him strightforward once and seriously. and then if he still continue, then igrone him completely, no matter how big small, whatever, pretend he is air and give him no reaction, no madness--when you mad at him, he still get response.
if he come closer to you, leave right the way.
coldness and igroneness is best of treatment
2007-11-11 13:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by Gooch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say, "Leave me alone and if you don't, I'm going to have you arrested for stalking."
2007-11-11 13:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Laredo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him "Leave me alone or I will call the cops!" Hope that helps. , )
2007-11-11 13:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by spiritius4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him honestly that you are not attracted to him and that his attempts at flirting are at most shameful and that you would really like to never have to see him again
2007-11-11 13:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋