well i cant get any males i guess im not attractive,should i become a lesbien?
2007-11-11 14:15:13 · 25 answers · asked by kim L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People are gay or they arent.
Noone "becomes" a lesbian.
2007-11-11 14:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by aisydaisylady 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You can`t just become bi. You are bi when you are attracted to woman and men. If your not attracted to woman then you aren`t simple as that. The fact is you just sound like you are down on your luck when it comes to meeting someone. You know i used to think the same way but someone perfect for you will come when your not looking. Until then concentrate on you and improving your life and get a hobby join a club, or organization and do things that make you happy and and that you enjoy. It will happen just concentrate on you that usually when you look appealing to someone else because confidence is a great tool. :)
2007-11-11 14:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by misunderstood_45177 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't become bi just cause you can't get guys.... Being bi isn't something people become just for that reason.. they are bi cause that's what they find attractive and what gets their 'noodle' goin.... your either bi or your not...don't force it........maybe it's just the kind of guys you are trying to go after...Maybe guys are attracted to you and you just don't see it cuz your so insecure.. think positive about yourself and others will too.. just hang in there...but don't force yourself to be someone your not..
2007-11-11 14:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by MONA♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't ask us if you want to become a bi. You need to do what your heart tells you. We don't know how you feel around guys or girls, whoever makes you feel better in a longer lasting relationship is the right gender for you. Hope that helps!
2007-11-11 14:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you can't just become a lesbian. it has to be something you feel and are attracted too. Are you attracted to women? Have you ever thought about playing for the other team? If so, then try your hand at it...you may have better luck.
2007-11-11 14:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by concernone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought that the basis for the whole argument that homosexuality is something you are born with and can't change is that people are compelled into it. It supposedly isn't a choice.
But you are clearly saying you are thinking of choosing it. Hmmmm.
I think you are inviting a world of hurt by choosing it.
I would say, "No. Stick with heterosexual."
Best wishes.
2007-11-11 14:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by oghk2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're selling yourself a bit short don't you think? Don't say you're unattractive just because you don't have a boyfriend at the moment. You might be attractive physically but that low self-confidence is unattractive. Besides, you can't "turn" bisexual or lesbian. You either are or you aren't.
2007-11-11 14:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by LimboChamp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you don't know what you want. Just because you can't get any guys at this point in your life, doesn't mean you never will. Don't just try to change your sexuality because you're not getting enough from the opposite. That's not what homosexuality is about.
2007-11-11 14:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
no u just have to give it time and wait unless ur attracted to gurls then no if so then become a bi becuz u obviously like guys
2007-11-11 14:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by kelseygurl_2011 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If girl-on-girl action is appealing to you, then yes.
If you're just switching because you're desparate, that's probably not a good thing.
In any case -- do what makes you happy.
2007-11-11 14:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Clueless Dick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you are truly attracted to girls. You shouldn't change because you can't get any guys.
2007-11-11 14:21:27 · answer #11 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋