Singles & Dating - 11 November 2007

imm 13, and i never had it. Im not gonna do it early i just want to know how it feels and all.
Some guys in my class always mention about it, and they said they did it before. they laughed when I said i never tried it.

How does it feel ?
What age is okay to have sex?
Is it painful the first time?


thankss for whoever answers

2007-11-11 07:32:23 · 19 answers · asked by Lauren 3

ive been seeing this guy for almost a year already..we've been off and on again various times..its weird its like he gets cold feet about being seriously committed to me. First he'll be all lovey dovey telling me we're gonna get married soon and how he wants me to meet his mom..then after a few good months he'll start saying things like im not really ready to commit..this confuses me last night he told me that we're only friends again i dont know whats goin on in his head someone please help....

2007-11-11 07:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by Joy'Cee's Mom 2

my ex and i broke up last month thru text messages..he lives in a neighboring town about an hour from here. well last night, my roommate and my friend and i went to that town to do some partying b/c the college team had won...at the very last bar we went to, who else is there but my ex!! i bought him a drink and we talked a lil bit but not much b/c my roommate was trying to find my friend and dragging me along. i invited him to an afterhours party we were gonna go to but he said nah. then kinda walked off. my roommie was like "man he's rude". i shrugged, didn't care. well i ran into him again b4 leavin and gave him a hug bye. then when we were driving home, noticed a missed call from him. i texted him "yes?" and he said he was gonna come to the party but he was already home. told him we decided to skip the afterhours and go home. about an hour later, he texts "i wish you would've stayed in town 2nite...b/c i dont like sleeping alone". do you think he misses me, or..

2007-11-11 07:31:28 · 13 answers · asked by Melanie 5

i have a friendship with a girl who i think likes me but she is shy and so if i straight up asked her out she may be too embarrassed or it might make the situation awkward.

Are there any things i can do to confirm from her (from her body language) that she likes me too?

i would just ask her out but don't want to spoil a great friendship. She means the world to me as a friend....and in the future, maybe more

dave

2007-11-11 07:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what 's your idea?

2007-11-11 07:26:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive started talking to this guy and hes 20 years old. Frome the very beginning ive been honest about my age and he didnt care.
Hes seems perfect and seem to really like me, he pursued me these last two weeks but now..all of a sudden..hes kinda letting me go? we havent done anything but he hasnt called,Instant messaged me or texted me.. its only been like two days hes been doing this but it really bothers me. Should i chase him or should i just let him go?

2007-11-11 07:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany T 1

*He met her in December last year, she was dating someone else and he was dating me.
*Me and him split in April, very nasty sudden break up -hes gutted, Im gutted. We had talked about marriage.
*Didnt see him again and had no communication.
*She split with her man in July/August. They had been together a while.
*Shes just 20 and works as a model. Dont think shes earning much.
*Shes the dominant one. He was the dominant one in our relationship.
*He told me they had barely dated, just decided to get married after being together 3 weeks and got hitched on a whim.

Hes under a lot of pressure with work.

He told my friend he thought i was going to visit him (as we had planned for me to go in October) and that was the reason he married her!

When I called him last week he told me he hates me (err whats his problem)???
Her ex is still on the scene - hes my ex's good friend.
Anyway dont mean to sound like sour grapes but I admit Im gutted its like a slap in my face.

2007-11-11 07:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i pretended i did not know by bfs name in front of my friends and somehow he found out and we had this conversation.
him: My name is LARRY!
me: yeah i know i was just kidding around
him: i see nothing comic about this situation
me : it's nothing to get mad about all i said was that i have not been here a lot and i forgot who everyone was i don't even no why i did it i was just being stupid!
him: well ya know that should be easy for you.
me: exuse me?!
him: why are you so funny all the time i don't get it
me: jp and i were just kidding around!
him: oh yeah and just who is this jp guy?
me : MY FRIEND!
him: you hang out with him to much
me: oh now i am not allowed to have friends?
then he walked away later he apologized and we both let go of the situation should i still go out with him

2007-11-11 07:18:58 · 24 answers · asked by mistoemegan 2

I left my so-called boyfriend because he didn't want to commit to me..he didn't want the title of boyfriend/girlfriend and I did and I found a guy who wanted me and wanted to be with me...he wanted to call me his girlfriend. Now that I am with this new guy, he holds my hand, and tells me he loves me and misses me (all of which my ex did not do). So things are good and I realize I could have been treated a lot better. The thing is my ex wants to talk to me tomorrow--I am afraid he's going to say he wants to be with me now and commit. But I don't think I want that now...I think my feelings have changed towards him..and I realize I can be treated a lot better (like my current boyfriend treats me). It's to the point that even if things dont work out between me and my current boyfriend, I don't think I will go back to my ex. And even if my ex and I did get back together as bf/gf, I dont think things could ever be the same. What are your thoughts on this?

2007-11-11 07:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 2

He lives about an hour away now. He always asks for pictures of me. We write letters and his last letter said, "send me some more pictures, please?" He already has about 8...why does he need more? It's not that I don't want him to have them I'm just curious. He has told me that he thinks I am beautiful. So maybe it is because he likes me? Or maybe he is doing something with them? What do guys do with pictures of "pretty" girls? I asked him why but he hasn't wrote me back yet.

2007-11-11 07:13:22 · 5 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2

2007-11-11 07:10:57 · 26 answers · asked by racheal m 1

I been seeing this guy... We ended up sleeping together recently... But I dont realy like the way he does it... He very sweet and nice but when he makes love he kind of does it very fast and not very romantic ... How do I get him to be more tender and loving? How to tell him this?

2007-11-11 07:05:49 · 18 answers · asked by Moi 2

Ok theres this guy that goes to my school nd is in my one class...everytime we're in class together and r talking he starts flirting a lot...like he tries to make me laugh and goofs around...but any other time we're in school and he sees me he just walks right by (sometimes he smiles in my direction though)...so does he like me or not?

2007-11-11 06:57:51 · 22 answers · asked by {[mAdNeSs]} 2

2007-11-11 06:53:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

and well this is my situation I'm in love with my ex of 3 years and we broke up last month and also adding i'm 18 years old. and well a close guy friend since i went to middle school we were friends and well i found out he likes me alot and started to tell his parents about me and well he knows i'm still in love with my ex and yet still wants to be with me. and as for me i don't feel the same. but my friends said i should give him a chance. what should i do?

2007-11-11 06:51:17 · 45 answers · asked by Red K 2

We have been together for about 5 months, but she has cheated on me recently. So we agree'd to end it, not that she cared, she was glad I think... I love her though...

SO today, I find out she is on the phone with the guy she cheated with, booked a ticket to go and see him and stuff...

I can't take it!

I want to forget about her but I can't.

I have never been in a relationship that lasted more than 2 weeks, I am 18, only had a few girlfriends in the past... but she, she was serious to me.

2007-11-11 06:51:06 · 32 answers · asked by .... 2

2007-11-11 06:50:13 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex and i havent spoke in a year, recently she had called me crying because her bf had cheated on her.

everyday now she texts me asking how im doing and sending me pic messages. which is wierd because we havent spoke in such a long time. I still love her and all and i havent been in a relationship since we broke up so im confused if i should get back with her or not.

two days ago she had called me saying she wanted me to visit her, my gut feeling is saying yeah go, but my mind is telling me no and something bad might happen.

What would you do?? and What do you think about the situation??

Thank You very much!!

2007-11-11 06:48:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this boy,im sure he likes me too.im 14 in hs,he always stares @ me he asked me for my #,he told me i was pretty,he always texts me back,he called me babe in a text message & he also asked me how my day was?he got jealous when my guy friend tickled me cuz he did it 2 & @ the end of class he came & sat on my desk.he touches my arm a lot 2. & he said my name in a cute way.he asked me if i liked this kid & i said he was ugly & he asked me what i think bout him & he told me wat he thought bout me.he put his hand in the front pocket of my sweater once & he made me put his fone in my short pockets.Last Nite,my friend texted him and asked him if he liked me, he said "idkn" a lot.she told him that i kinda like him. he said 2 me, its not true rite?i said "no",but i was lying.i asked him if he was afraid 2 say yes or no, he said "u go first" i said "no u" he said "were just friends so for now no". i think he said that cuz i said no but i think he likes me, do u?will he act diff. in skool?

2007-11-11 06:47:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous A 1

and the last 2 nights i have walked her to her car and gave her a kiss. But its just been like a peck. How do i know when it should be more than just a peck on the lips. Its kinda felt right to give her more than just a peck but i have no idea how to give her a little tongue or someting and i don't want to make myself look too stupid because she has probably made out w/ boys before me. And do u think dating someone for 9 days and making out with them would be appropriate? Any idea would help. Thanks And by the way if it helps we are both 16 years old

2007-11-11 06:46:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been very good friends since our childhood. These days I hardly get the opportunity to meet her as we both are busy with our jobs, but that really didn't affect our friendship.
I love her from the bottom of my heart, but I cannot be sure whether she has similar feelings for me or not. I could never express my feelings to her in the fear of loosing her and her friendship. Occasionally when we talked about our views on love in general and how she 'got rid of' the guys who had proposed her, I noticed that she is a bit conservative about relationships. So now if I go and propose her, it might also sound like a betrayal from her childhood friend and our friendship will be ruined forever..........
So please help me, I need to be sure before I proceed..........I simply cannot loose her.............

2007-11-11 06:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by but 2

are muscular men actually hot???

2007-11-11 06:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

im remembering my past relationships and how great it felt to feel loved. what can i possibly do to pass through these feelings?

2007-11-11 06:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by hammy 3

so i started going out with this guy over the internet about 4 weeks ago maybe not even that!! and ive tired to break up with him 3 times already, but he always seems to say something to make me stay with him!! and hes told me he loves me and ive asked him to stop but he like gets all mad and yells ( emails with caps. ) i havent talked to him over the phone or met up with him and im not planning to!! but how do i break up with him?? i dont want to be mean. but i just cant really "be" with him anymore.

2007-11-11 06:23:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just deciding on what to get my boyfriend of 10 months for christmas/bday. What do ya think? Either:

A night or two of fun in a hotel (maybe a meal too?)
An experience e.g. racing driving with his friends/banger racing
An ipod engraved "i love you"
Some other gadget (please suggest)
psp if i can afford it

Hmm what ya think, he'll be 19 and don't suggest sporty stuff cos he doesn't like sports lol!

2007-11-11 06:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys are straightforward as hell...i've always known that if a guy wants nothing w. you - to be friends or anything, he'll cut you off completely

but what about if he'll cut you off and them come back, cut you off and come back? or just be there, but not completely - doesn't wanna get too close and too attached?

2007-11-11 06:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

the guy i have a HUGE crush on is having a big 13th b day party with like 36 of my peeps invited and all of my freinds are invited exeped for one girl who everyone secretly hates... could this mean something... am i a loser? i spent all last night crying. at the beginning of this year i thought that 7th grade was going to b my year, its the toatle oppisot.

2007-11-11 06:15:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Theres this guy in my class, he seemed ok the first day I talked to him. As time progresses he started to get really annoying. He makes jokes of others that aren't even funny. Only he and these 2 people are laughing out of 30 people. Whenever I try to start a conversation he just turns it down and makes it look awkward. At first I humored them to be friendly but after a while I started to sit further form him and ignore him.

He saw me ignoring him so he started to call my cell phone during class 3 times. He was smiling and looking at me but I was all cool since my cell is on silent. I blocked his facebook. Well this one day he saw me on campus and came up to me and gave me a five.

Should I feel bad for cutting ties with him or did I do the right thing.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-11 06:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Closed 5

2007-11-11 06:12:15 · 8 answers · asked by o7dmacko7 1

...she wants to sleep with you--something that made you want her so bad you had to get with her? And ladies, what's the most erotic way you've ever told a man...what exactly did you say?

2007-11-11 06:11:46 · 3 answers · asked by CRM 2