Singles & Dating - 31 October 2007

2007-10-31 14:18:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

And go from 5'5 209 to 145lbs?

2007-10-31 14:17:31 · 34 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2

We met three months ago and hung out twice. The first time was just lunch, the second time was a real date. We work next to eachother, so I see him everyday. Now for the first month, he was texting me like crazy. He would text me every morning and to say good night. I see him just about every morning he acts all cool but he stopped the texting everyday. Dude is 37...what is his deal here? I have a clue, just want to see if mine matches up to others...then I can let this "boy" go. I thought they get more mature the older they get? ; )

2007-10-31 14:15:45 · 3 answers · asked by jaselew 2

My classmates brother passed away 2 years ago in a Holloween car accident. He was a football player at my school. I didnt know him personally but ever since he passed away I havent been able to get him of my mind. I feel like i knew him, and I still cant forget about him. Why is this happening if i didnt know him personally?
P.S. His older brother and my older brother went to school together and know me and his younger sisters go to school together.But I never met him.Plz help me

2007-10-31 14:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by I Love MJ <3 2

well i went to a halloween party today and i just got back.
well while i was there towards the end of the party we told scary stories and while we were listening to the scary story, this guy asked me did i want him to massage me. i didnt want to be mean, but i really didnt want him to do it, so i said i dont care. and so when the lights went off he started to massage me. and his sister (my friend) asked me did i asked him to do it. i told her no, he asked me and i said i dont care and she told him to lay off the shoulders. and now thinking about i feel really bad and i think i should have just told him no. and i only like him as a friend, but i can tell that he likes me. i actually like his friend which i think likes me. so was what i did right?

2007-10-31 13:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok am a girl,and i just had this idea of maybe one day i go to different city,i dress like boys,i wear a fake mustache,the reason why it's coz i've always wanted to see how it is to live like a boy

2007-10-31 13:56:00 · 13 answers · asked by tara tara 3

How is one to behave when they have had enough? When you get to that point where you realize just how far someone has pushed you outside of your personality and sound mind? When a female becomes pregnant twice, afraid, neglected, miscarries, has numerous surgical removals of he child, and is made to feel like her sorrow is ridiculous and she should get over it and want to go for a walk in the park the day after her losses…how is that female to carry that? When she moves hours away from her element in attempts to secure her relationship after being made to feel like she made things worse by being so far away, how does she rebuild? When she becomes suspicious and her gut tells her that he’s cheating on her while he insists that he’s being faithful, how does she clear the fog in her head? When she starts seeing more obvious signs of infidelity and confronts him, only for him to make her feel as though she’s insecure, paranoid, and should see a shrink, how does she confirm her sanity? When she wants to leave because she feels herself slipping, but is unable because she doesn’t have the money to, and has to allow him to come and go as he pleases, how does she maintain her former sense of independence? When she starts to break down inside because she cant understand how anyone could be so cruel to her, how can she avoid accepting that she may have to deal with this until she is financially stable? When her overwhelming grief and loneliness over losses of children, complete alienation by he who says he cares for her, and knowledge that she allowed this to ruin her pathway to a PhD, how can she stay calm?

How is one to behave when the moment comes in which her every suspicion is finally confirmed? When you realize that you were no more than a house pet to use at his convenience for years…When he blames you for his cheating and disrespect… When you register that this mind warping has gone on for this long and he took advantage of all you could possibly do for him…when you realize that from all surgeries your chances of conceiving with someone who could truly love you have been shot..when you feel like you gave and gave and he took advantage of all things I hold dear…after it all, you ask him to get away from you and quit hurting and he still wont leave…when it all ends in a physical struggle because youre thinking about everything you’ve lost, but still holding on to a shred of dignity in knowing im still alive through all of this…when he throws you across the room when you insist that he leaves and you retaliate in defense of your physical pain and everything he’s put you thru…when youre at work the next day bruised, limping, and in shock that it actually led to something like this…

Why is it that I still feel like everything is my fault and that it was wrong to finally fight back? All the lying, the cheating, the alienation for so long….allowing me to feel crazy and cry to sleep at night because he wont go away, but he can never love me or what was to be my children…I feel like I should be the one to apologize, but I know I didn’t do anything wrong outside of that last aggressive incident…

And how can someone tear another down for so long if they can never love them anyway?

I know I sound pathetic to have let this happen…but I still feel like I did something wrong in hitting him.

2007-10-31 13:55:38 · 2 answers · asked by angelabennett_12 1

friends. I was going out with this woman for 9 months and then found out she was in a relationship with someone else since before we met. At first she said she wanted to be with me and that she needed time to get things straight in her life. I was giving her time then after 3 weeks she sent me a text that I pushed too hard too fast and it was all her fault and now she was ending it. She said never to contact her again. Then 3 days later she calls and said she fell and hurt her leg and was going to the Dr. She called back the next day to tell me that she had an allergic reaction to the meds and was going back to the Dr and would call later. She called two days later and we talked a little but she was late for a meeting. Finally that night I asked her if she still had feelings for me or just wanted to be friends. She said she wants to be friends. Everytime I try to get together and do something she says she is still in pain and it is not a good time. Does she want to be my frie

2007-10-31 13:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by dhack567 2

If women can have multiple orgasms, does that mean they can go on forever?

2007-10-31 13:52:05 · 20 answers · asked by life_is_insane 1

They make it look so easy - i almost broke my back trying last night. What's the secret as i'd love to be able to do this?

2007-10-31 13:51:54 · 30 answers · asked by . 7

2007-10-31 13:50:05 · 13 answers · asked by kimberly k 5

my lady quit her job and moved to my city to live with me. it has been about 3 months and she now says she is scared of commitment. i love her dearly. i have been taking good care of her as she is looking for a full time job. she says she loves me but when she told me how she felt, it broke my heart. she feels badly that i am hurting and has apologized many times. i have gone into a shell since i don't want her to go but i realize she must have had a change of heart. how do i get through this?
only serious opinions please.
thank you.

2007-10-31 13:49:59 · 1 answers · asked by KT 7

IF you watched Dr. Phil today, I saw myself in that couple. I can have a firey personality, being aggressive and not backing down in an argument. The day my ex got physical and dragged me across the floor was the day I fired a report with the police department, and he said, "it's over." I texted him(1 wk later) saying, "You attacked me over a piece of candy?" (i threw it in his direction before he dragged me), "Its like your *** just snapped. Its deeper than just being about me. It always has been." then i said "You broke my heart, Ill never date again." Looking back I can see how I can provoke someone, but thats never an excuse to put ur hands on anybody. He needs anger managment, I need counseling.

SHould I write him a letter suggesting anger management and that I was as wrong as he was? My only fear is that he's mad I went to the police AND I destroyed his room after the dragging incident.

2007-10-31 13:39:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this creepy "friend" i have. I saw him and he was alone so i went to talk to him, but now he act's like we're really close. Whenever he sees me he holds me or puts his arm around me and won't let go. I try to stay away from him. It's really creepy, and one time when he held me and i moved away he held me tighter. My best friend saw this and got upset. He said "you have to do something, it's sexual harrasment, I'm only saying this because i care about you, if you don't do anything about it i will". Is he right? IS it sexual harrasment? He holds me and i feel uncomfortable and he's really creepy about it, like he's an obsessed freak. If i do report him to the authorities what will they say? I don't think they'll do anything about it because "that's what friends do". I don't think they'll believe me or do anything unless i tell them he's actually touched me in innapropriet places. I don't want my best friend to have to do it for me. Should i report him? what should i do/say?

2007-10-31 13:35:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not an affectionate person. I HAVE to have my personal space. I'm not hug-y, and I don't like someone hanging all over me. I'm perfectly satisfied with hand-holding or simply sitting moderately close to him. He, on the other hand, is a very touchy-feel-y person. He complains I'm never affectionate with him, but he wants to cling and constantly be showing PDA. I made him aware of the way I was when we first met. I just feel smothered...and I know his feelings are hurt, but what can we do to find the middle ground?

2007-10-31 13:28:58 · 2 answers · asked by southernsoul05 1

2007-10-31 13:19:06 · 17 answers · asked by cavsfan45 3

I got a note on halloween from a so called secret admirer. I want to know how i can find out who it is without asking people if they wrote it.

2007-10-31 13:14:35 · 17 answers · asked by Save the trees! 3

I am going Dec 14th. If I tell her she will get mad that I am not taking her. The reason why I am not taking her is that she only gets 4 weeks off a year and I get 6 weeks so she has to work. I dont want to tell her now and have her mad from now till the trip, but if I tell her too late she will pull the " I wouldnt have been mad if you would have told me sooner" which we all know ISNT the case. What do you think?

2007-10-31 13:10:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to a adult school for my GED and I am 34 years old and there is a Subsuite teacher that dose not subsiute in my class all the time and he dose not teach at my school all the time either. And I think he likes me and I think he is cute too. How do I ask him If he is married and ask him out.

2007-10-31 13:07:49 · 1 answers · asked by cottoncandy47 1

I am always kissing him, giving him massages, rubbing his back and masturbating, but he vary rarely does anything in return!

He hasn't rubbed me properly in ages now.

I asked him why he doesn't and he says I have to ask him for it! Why should I have to ask him for it?

I'm thinking that if that's the case I'm going to DEMAND he do stuff for me, not ask. Though I worry if I do that he will refuse. Maybe I should just give him a spanking if I have been pleasuring him and he refuses my demands for pleasure in return?

But what I really want is for him to take some of the initiative like he used to. Why do you think he stopped? How can I get him to start again?

I am dominant and it's REALLY pissing me off that I give pleasure but get next to none in return. If I didn't like him so much I would never do such a thing! And even though I like him, I'm not going to keep this up much longer before I take the initiative to start taking my pleasure from him...

2007-10-31 13:04:08 · 4 answers · asked by Philosopher 5

what is an appropriate height ?
I´m 6 foot 11 I used to think it was pretty cool but
some time ago I realized it had some major down sides,
like flying economy class.
So I was wondering is being to tall often a turn off for women?

2007-10-31 12:51:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 12:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this girl about a month ago and now we are going out...ikm a junior by the way......so what im having troubl on is that the last girlfriend i had was like 2 weeks before i met this girl and we had problems because im not the physical realationship type person...im a klittle more on the respectfull side...but it didnt work out because of that.... and all i want to know is.....how should i treat the girl now..


in a good respecfull way

or should i go more for the physical way....?

2007-10-31 12:43:12 · 21 answers · asked by subhuman 2

I have been quite confused by the behaviour of a work collegue, she has been very subtly flirting not really giving herself away, possibly waiting to see if I take the hook, well I did bite (just by chatting with her), but now she has backed off (for now), so it seems it was all a game to see if she could get me interested, is it an ego thing...what do I do next?

2007-10-31 12:38:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

People always talk about how a good personality wins friends, blah blah blah.

So what exactly are good and bad personalities anyway?

Can you define them. And please try to me specific.

2007-10-31 12:36:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were messing about. He rolled on top of me, and laughing said, "Squash Am-" and then stopped. (His ex is Amy). Then he tried to cover it up by saying over and over again "squash 'em, squash 'em" as if that even makes sense! I know he has been talking to her a lot online recently as I have been there when he's talking to her. I know they are still friends. If he says her name instead of mine, does this mean he still has feelings for her? Should I be worried?

2007-10-31 12:36:05 · 16 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

I am having girl problems right now and I need someone that knows them well or even be one. I met my Sweetheart in feb 06 and ever since we have been the most happy couple ever, we were so in love. For a year I actually lived with her and her parents and nothing change we just grew more in love. Of course there were times that we would argue but who doesnt argue? there were times that I didnt have time or the money to do things everyweekend, Well two weeks ago she gets her first real job and puts me out the door saying that we never do anything or go anywhhere with no sign of her even being miserable she tells me that we need to spend time apart because we do nothing but argue and she wants to be alone and hang out with her friends. Well If that was case than she could have done those things without breaking up with me, all she says to give her time and if it is ment for us to be together than we will... I cant even sleep at night and i know she wouldnt do that to me.

2007-10-31 12:29:33 · 30 answers · asked by rock 1

Ok I am dating this guy who has never brought any of his girlfriends home to meet his family. Even a girl he dated for a couple years and this christmas Him and I are flying from Alaska to Idaho to spend christmas with his family. I have met his Dad since his dad lives in Alaska What I would like to know is seeing as how I am the first girl he is bringing home to meet his mom and grama and sisters......do you think that means he is looking to stick aroud long-term?

2007-10-31 12:27:06 · 7 answers · asked by Lovin Life 2

Does this sound dangerous to you?
I am losing hope. I've become completely depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.We were only together 4 mo
Should he and I get back together? He said that he is not violent.That he would never hit me.?
Where did I go wrong?
Oh No!!!! He is dating someone else!!He told me that I am the reason he acted this way! Will he treat her nice
Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
13 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
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He said that he has never behaved that way before.Then said he would get frustated when I would drink.I told him that he acted that way even when I wasnt drinking.

2007-10-31 12:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 2

do you do genital depilation?

2007-10-31 12:24:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous