well i went to a halloween party today and i just got back.
well while i was there towards the end of the party we told scary stories and while we were listening to the scary story, this guy asked me did i want him to massage me. i didnt want to be mean, but i really didnt want him to do it, so i said i dont care. and so when the lights went off he started to massage me. and his sister (my friend) asked me did i asked him to do it. i told her no, he asked me and i said i dont care and she told him to lay off the shoulders. and now thinking about i feel really bad and i think i should have just told him no. and i only like him as a friend, but i can tell that he likes me. i actually like his friend which i think likes me. so was what i did right?
2007-10-31 13:57:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm glad you asked the question.
You were wrong.
Don't say, "I don't care" when it is about your body.
Don't lead a guy on if you don't want him.
2007-10-31 14:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is just a massage. though it does mislead him but what is done cannot be undone. so just don't let him touch you again. keep a safe distance and he will back off. and the guy you like, try to get love sparks btw the two of you. and wish you guys can get together soon. cheers.:)
2007-10-31 14:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by cheer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever happened is happened dont worry about it now. if that boy make passes towards you, this time be really frank. these things happen to lot of people. be happy that it ended with just a massage
2007-10-31 14:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by snigdha 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It would have probably been better if you had said "no". He may get mixed signals from you thinking that you liked him and when he finds out that you don't really, he may get hurt.
2007-10-31 14:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by randmthots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ae told him no.and you might want to ask his sister was there something she wanted to tell yu about her brother wanting to touch you.was it something more to it.
2007-10-31 14:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by ripp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel to bad it was only once.
2007-10-31 14:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have said no! But just learn from this :)
2007-10-31 14:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoyed it, then it was a good idea.
2007-10-31 14:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have just told him no!!
2007-10-31 14:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Pixie-Flames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋