Singles & Dating - 31 October 2007

I am losing hope. I've become completely depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.We were only together 4 mo
Should he and I get back together? He said that he is not violent.That he would never hit me.?
Where did I go wrong?
Oh No!!!! He is dating someone else!!He told me that I am the reason he acted this way! Will he treat her nice
Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
13 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
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He said that he has never behaved that way before.Then said he would get frustated when I would drink.I told him that he acted that way even when I wasnt drinking.

2007-10-31 08:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by Butterfly 2

2007-10-31 08:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by hegimony1 1

but nothing has been done about it, plus it's difficult to get talking in that enviroment. Is it ok if I were to break the ice by slipping him a note with my number and little message? I'm still pondering on the message.

2007-10-31 08:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Smokella v2.0 2

2007-10-31 08:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been facebooking this guy and have just found out he has a girlfriend?
he keeps on asking me out for a drink!

Again his girlfriend is like a porn star dont really no what he wants with me or why he is asking me out help any reasons!!
Im really conservative and she is taking about the sex they had last night on his wall!!!is this normal behaviour or a little trashy!!

Do men like trashy women or prefer girls who are not so in you face with sex and leave more up to the imagination

2007-10-31 08:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay this guy asked me out. I said yes. While we went out I started noticing his flaws and became interested in other guys so I dumped him. He asked his best friend to ask me why. I told him the truth "other guys...flaws..." Well when I said "OTHER GUYS" his friend thought I meant him. I kinda do like him and don't want him to know because I just dumped his best friend. He was going to ask me out before and didn't because best friend liked me. I like him and he likeD me.




How can I like someones best friend when I just dumped them???



Is that wrong? I mean I like the friend .

2007-10-31 08:50:06 · 37 answers · asked by gadfgfrsdfer 3

there is this girl at my chruch one time i was talking to my firend and she was talking with her firend but she was stareing at me when i look at her she smile more big and then nextweek when i go to chruch and if i look at her she keepon smileing and she lauge for my jokes and the same day when she tas talking to me she keep on toching my arm 4 5 times does she like me?

2007-10-31 08:49:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 08:49:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have plans to get together with a guy and he blows you off, without giving you any explanation (except that he fell asleep), do you give him another chance??

2007-10-31 08:48:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of a friend keeps asking if I am gay over and over again. I keep telling her no I am not gay but she won't let up. Is she just a lowsy flirt or is she doing it out of spite? I don't flirt because I have had several prophecies saying God has a wife for me and so I am just waiting for her to show up. She is going to have to come to me. I want to tell this girl that but she is so damn malicious. I don't even like guys so where does she get off asking me that question over and over again?

2007-10-31 08:47:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like no sex for a long time- on purpose? How has it helped your well being?

2007-10-31 08:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How soon after you get into a relationship is "too soon" to have sex? I was seeing this guy for about 1.5 months before he asked me to be his girlfriend. I'm 22 and he's 25. We have made out but that's as far as I let it go... I would like to sleep with him but I also want him to continue to respect me and I don't want our relationship to turn purely sexual. How can I ensure this? And how long should I wait to have TOTAL respect from my man? I don't want to make so many mistakes in this relationship! Thanks!

2007-10-31 08:45:10 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently iv encountered a constant problem where guys initially seem really keen and txt/ring all the time then for no apparent reason seem to lose and interest and leave me kinda hanging and wondering what i did wrong (even though i know iv done nothing!) Id be grateful if anyone has any insight to offer on why men play such mind games.

2007-10-31 08:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-31 08:44:12 · 3 answers · asked by kutaiba1980 1

How many people have you been with so far in your life?

2007-10-31 08:42:57 · 10 answers · asked by zarro 1

It's sad because i think of things that he has done while we have been together & it drives me nuts. I get into moods where i would love to beat him down. So i am hoping others have the same problem.

2007-10-31 08:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by MiChele 1

GIRLS!
If you are female would you ask a guy out? How would you?

BOYS!
Would you be ok with the girl asking you out? Why or Why not?

2007-10-31 08:40:49 · 3 answers · asked by Lala 2

We where together for almost 4 years. I thought that I wanted to be apart, now 4 months later I so deeply regret what I did and I don't know how to fix it. She says that she still loves me but that she is just too angry with me right now to even date me. I am desperate to get her back. What can I do?

2007-10-31 08:37:15 · 27 answers · asked by luvmyflipflops 1

*Fred* says i make excuses to not meet him && stuff && this really bugs me because we supposed to be going out and i never do make up excuses!...so my friend told me to go with her to go see her boyfriend *Bob* so i can see *Fred* too ...but *Fred* was at this girl *Pennys* && was staying the night! It seems like he would rather spend time with her and he says she is just a really good mate...but she is really pretty...Once i was in the bar where he works and she came out in this low top && ripped jeans...and Fred* noticed straight away that she had changed...this p***ed me off really bad because it like he doesn't notice i'm there!...He also has been wanting sex 8-) && i don't feel i am ready but we like tried but yeah...that another story....and sometimes i just think he wants to be with Penny* ....He says he loves me but i don't know cause he isn't prepared to come meet me i always have to trek to see him!!..I dont know if he is interested?

2007-10-31 08:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by no name 3

My ex is still my friend. We occasionally hang out and keep it strictly platonic. We flirted a little too much one night but overall we are JUST FRIENDS. However, he now has a girlfriend and she is aware of our friendship though I never told her and I have never been around him when she is there. Mainly because she lives out of town from us. Lately, she seems like she is trying to create a friendship with me and she recently invited me to his surprise birthday party. I told her I couldn't make it but I'm choosing not to go because I feel like her friendship attempts are not sincere. I think she is using that old cliche': KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND ENEMIES CLOSER. I don't consider her an enemy but I don't really feel comfortable with being her buddy either. Especially since you can tell her boyfriend (my friend) still kinda likes me. I believe it is just inviting drama. Basically, should I even go to the party and what do her intentions sound like to you all?

2007-10-31 08:31:15 · 7 answers · asked by ALeoStar 4

What do you think of a 28 year old going out with a 19 year old. I think thats crazy but my friend says it no big deal.

2007-10-31 08:31:03 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♥TinaThat...ME♥♥ 3

okay this is kind of embarassing but here goes. Im 21, Im not a virgin, but still, im terrified to have sex. I havent had a boyfriend since I was in high school, because I cant stand to be held, or kiss, or makeout, I start to panic and make them stop, so then they think I dont like them..it just really sucks. The few times that I had sex, I cried the whole time and made them stop. It just doesnt seem worth it, its not just a bad experience, its like hell, and I end up hating myself for weeks afterwards. WHY, am I like this? I feel like such a loser, I dont want to be alone for the rest of my life, and its hard to watch everyone around me be in a relationship. Guys dont understand how someone that isnt a virgin wont have sex. My friends always talk about sex, its so uncomfortable because they will be like, oh I havent had it in a while, im going crazy, you know? but no I really dont, Ive never had any sort of desire, ever. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-10-31 08:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

she said luvs me, i didnt respond, then she said she got a bf, and kept telling me how they in luv, so i thought she still likes me, and told her i like her, she said no, but stopped talking about her bf, and she still talks to me, even i'm not really talk to her, what shes thinking?

2007-10-31 08:25:30 · 32 answers · asked by joe 2

2007-10-31 08:19:47 · 22 answers · asked by Jesus_lover 4

looks atitude.... ect..

2007-10-31 08:19:32 · 13 answers · asked by lol the perfect word Y 3

Do you think he like me? Ireally like this guy and I don't know if he likes me. The other day we had to play seven-up before a field trip and he had to pick and picked me first. Also, during the field trip he was like always near me and even when I went up to the trash he came up after me. Today at lunch I even saw him looking at me across the lunch room. When I close my locker and walk away to science everytime I look behind me he is right behind me. He is really cute and nice. Do you think he likes me?

2007-10-31 08:18:48 · 55 answers · asked by Indie 2

This wand is very magical and can do many things but don't overuse the power of the wand.. Merlins wand is especailly for Merlins sweet friend to use first..

2007-10-31 08:17:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23 years old and have been single for almost a year. I would like just to meet someone, but everyone I seem to meet has something going on with them negatively. I am going to school to be an RN, I'm out going, funny at times, artistic, love dogs, etc. etc. I'm told I'm pretty, so I guess I may be. What is up???

2007-10-31 08:04:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think it's ok for you partner to look at women on the internet? All different websites and searching for particular page 3 girls. Would you have a problem with that?

2007-10-31 08:04:06 · 21 answers · asked by DIONNE H 2

After reading all the posts in here, aren't you glad that you're out of school, know when someone's interested, know what to do when you break up, know how to keep a relationship alive and just plain matured?

It's worth the 5 points it cost just to share my gratefulness!

2007-10-31 07:59:17 · 13 answers · asked by QWERTY 7