2007-10-31 08:19:47 · 22 answers · asked by Jesus_lover 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so everybody knows: If i see a guy on the street, i really can't tell you if he's cute or not because i look completly on the inside. i just really don't look at the outside of a guy. I mean i do, like i could say what guy is definatly a nerd and what guy is definatly cuter than the nerd, but I'm not attracted to a guy unless he has a good personality if that makes sense to everybody. idk if it does or not. sry!
2007-10-31 08:39:24 · update #1
We don't know, girls are a complete mystery to us.
2007-10-31 08:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
IN MOST CASES, NOT ALL: It makes me sad to say it but I think if the man is not visually appealing, then he doesn't get a chance to show he is emotionally appealing. Hot guys can do anything they want to girls and they put up with it, hot guys can be stupid and women will accept it (even though they might not like it), and hot guys get the chance to show how they are emotionally. Ugly guys, have to have a great personality or else a woman will not give them a chance, ugly guys can't make mistakes because the girl will say "he did this and he isn't even cute", and ugly guys have to find a way to get a chance to show their emotional side, it isn't just handed to them.
I know not all women are like that. The worst is that the majority of women that say they aren't like that are lying to themselves. Atleast those kind of men know they are like that because every girl jumps down their throat about it. When men say stuff like that, women just brush it off and think they are wrong.
Tell me that isn't what most of you women think!
2007-10-31 08:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a guy but obviously if u dont know the person u are visually attracted to them. if u see a guy on the street u woule be like "damn he's hot!!" and then once u get to know the person if u get a chance..then u can get emotionally attached. thats just how it is.
2007-10-31 08:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not any guy, but it's natural to be attracted to different people then the one your dating at times. This is where up-bringing, morals and values come into play to stop the attraction from afar from being an up close encounter.
2007-10-31 08:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Average Joe 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it really depends on the guy. most guys will say visually, but they are pretty much just anal retentive and totally into themselves or they never experienced true love before. but myself, i am a rarity in this world, i don't care what you women look like, it's what your outlook on life and the things that make you unique that i find attractive. there are some of us out there, maybe few, but we do exist.
2007-10-31 08:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally I'm attracted to a guy in both ways, but since first contact is usually visual, that's often what gets my attention (then personality has to be there to keep it). âºâ»
2007-10-31 08:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think a lot of things have changed in this world of attraction...so though women who were at one point possibly purely emotionally attracted to men, got all screwed up and now they think visually before they think emotionally.
2007-10-31 08:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly it really depends on the girl but girls at first glance are attracted to a guy visually
2007-10-31 08:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by wyattwillis19 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may be visual at first but emotion soon takes over.
2007-10-31 08:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by dtedad-50 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well there are some who attracted to me visually and emotionally
alot just like me for my looks or my class that really gets on my nerves because its not true love
there are also some who like me for my smarts or because they just do that i can stand because it real
2007-10-31 08:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys are wired different from girls. men are visually attracted moreso than women. women are in tune with how someone makes them "feel." listen to women talk and count how many times they use the word "feel"
2007-10-31 08:24:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋