my bf and I have been dating for about 3 years, and its been a really rocky ride. we are serious and love each other a lot....but here's the problem: because we've both had our share of quirks (HIS immaturity, constant joking behavior, taking everything for granted, and MY nagging, emotional-ness, always wanting to discuss our probs)...we never get anywhere.
I DONT WANT ANYONE TELLING ME TO BREAK UP WITH HIM RIGHT AWAY...
i'm just looking for some advice because ive narrowed it down, but theres still a lot I want to talk to him about....but the minute I say the word "talk" he gets furious and tries to avoid me and the situation for as long as possible. I try to tell him that it saves us both a lot of time and pain to talk about things and figure out how to fix them right away rather than never knowing and then when the problem arises again, we get into trouble.
how do i fix this? i want him to realize what he does wrong without thinking i'm a nag...please give me practical advice!
2007-10-31
03:28:25
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