my friends all hate my boyfriend and i really dont want want to hurt him or break up w/ him. i love him so much but my friends think he is controling the relationship!! please give me some advice!!!
2007-10-31 02:00:51 · 10 answers · asked by roxxi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your friends how you feel! tell them you love him or like him alot so they dont think your crazy!(some girls hate it when their bestfriends love a man to much) maybe they are a tad bit jealouse because your boyfriend wants you around. But also talk to your man! tell him you have friends who you want to hang out with also, and that he should be with his friends as well!! or maybe you should really see how controlling he is. if it is driving you crazy then you make your own desicions! noone can make them for you
2007-10-31 02:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww peer pressure!
You have to decide what is best for YOU, hon.
Take a look at him and your relationship. Are you happy or not? Does he treat you well or not?
If he has control issues and tells you what you "should" do, well, you have the choice to let him know you can decide what to do for yourself. You might tell him that if you want advice or help, you will ask for some.
If he is dictating what you can do and who you can see, that's not very healthy.
I would guess that you are using your own brain in this situation, like the guy and it's YOUR decision. Your friends don't control your life, and who you associate with -- YOU do.
take care and i hope it works out.
2007-10-31 09:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There might be something to what your friends are saying. Try sitting down with them and listen to what they have to say. They're your friends and they care about you.
Plus, if he is controlling you and the relationship takes a turn for the worst, you're going to need the support of your friends.
A healthy situation is typically one in which you never have to choose between the people you're close to. Something isn't right here, and I suspect your friends are probably telling you a truth you're not ready to hear.
2007-10-31 09:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Tikva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not what your friends think about your relationship, it is what you think about it. Does it matter to you if he controls your relationship. If it does talk to him, not to your friends who hate your bf in the first place.
2007-10-31 09:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lei Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey luk, u have asked sumthing which is very ridiculous! if you luv sum1, u r doing it according 2 ur own wish. what the hell r the friends doing in the middle of this?
u r not luving 2 show off 2 ur friends. love is always a very personal matter. keep it always in mind.
2007-10-31 09:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hii...u told everyone hates ur boyfren. this might have 2 possibilities...either all of them r rite or all of them r wrong...but the thing is to know dat how u take it n understand it. u r in love not they so u better know bout ur partener whether he is true to u...n if he is true then no need to bother buddy coz true love has always been an obstacle to this world.....be true to urself n expect d same thing from the other side......... tk cr n all d best.
2007-10-31 09:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by arpita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore your friends who, in fact, are not friends at all but mere acquaintances. Follow your instincts and your heart, with a little bit of head thrown in.
2007-10-31 09:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by FRANsuFU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been thru that before and wat u need to do is dont talk to ur friends about u and boyfriend relationship cuz they aint gona do nothing but talk bad and down on u and also dont bring ur friends around him at all!!
2007-10-31 09:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by True Diamond Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your choice and your life so you make your own decisions and your friends are only saying that because they care for u but it is still yur choice of who you think is your one and only someone
2007-10-31 09:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jonathan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-when you are emotionally involved with someone, you can't see how they really are. Listen to your friends and dump him.
2007-10-31 09:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋