I'm 22 years old. I broke up with my boyfriend of 10 months about 1.5 months ago. I'm dating someone new now. He's not my official "boyfriend" yet, but we are definitely headed in that direction. The problem is, I'm not completely over my ex. Although I ended the relationship, I am still keeping in contact with him and I do miss him and think about him. Is this really b!tchy of me? Should I stay single because it's not fair, or should I get into a relationship with this new guy (it may help me move on)? Please let me know what you think! Thank you!
2007-10-31 03:25:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, you sound like a *****.
You need to grow up, and decide what you want. Either you want a relationship with your ex, or you want to date the new guy. But either way stringing some guy along for six weeks is unreasonable. Make a proper decision about what you want and stop stringing people along.
2007-10-31 03:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's not exactly being a *****. You want to move on but you can't because you are still not over your ex.
It's very unfair to the new guy you're dating though. How would you like it if someone you were dating was thinking about someone when they are with you.
If you really like this guy, be honest with him, let him know how you feel, and tell him you want to put things on hold until you figure things out. If it's meant to be, it'll work out.
In the meantime, you need to figure out what make you still hung over your ex? And why you really broke up. I'm sure if you think about it a bit and have a talk with him, it will help you get a closure on the relationship
2007-10-31 10:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Deena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you shouldn't get into a relationship with someone just so you can get over the previous one. That is totally not fair to the individual you are presently dating, and yes I would say that doing that you would be a major *****. If you are still upset or broken because of your last boyfriend, let time heal your heart that way you can devote all of your attention to the new relationship and not have it doomed to failure even before it starts.
2007-10-31 10:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by steven c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what u all need is to think about yourself and try to come with conclusion that may guide you or at least that could make you understand that u are ***** or not. you see, you have not mentioned much of reson to deduce your problem still i think that spring on from oen relation to other relation is noot so good . for whatever reson you are broken , if u are yet thinking about him might be there is some thing wrong has taken place from your side. if i were you, i would give up the idea with being in relation with others. i suggest you to take next step which does not allow you to move on with other. rethink on your finalized decision and try to draw the all factors which leads you to in same direction as you are used to flow early.
2007-10-31 11:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by sumi_decent_mercy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not descriptional. So love does not make you a *****. Nor, does it make you immature. I say your perfectly fine. But, please don't hurt people around you. Be single for awhile until you get over your ex. This does not neccessarily mean you can't have friends. But then go out and meet some new people, a new boyfriend to say. Time does heal, but desperation makes you a fool.
2007-11-01 13:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by grfisgd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call that childish. Thats the kind of thing you would expect out of a 14 year old high school girl, not a 22 year old. If i was either guy i would tell you to get lost.
2007-10-31 10:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. On a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being "not a b*tch" and 10 being a "b*itchy b*tch"... I'd give you a 9.5. You're being completely unfair.
2007-10-31 10:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like the guy, even just for a little, he may help you move on, been there, its hard to forget exes esp if you still love the ex boyfriend. just try and just be sure that the ney guy likes you a lot..
2007-10-31 10:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by haydee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you miss ur ex then I think dat u guys shud take some time out to think about it and c if you can find the question to why yall broke up and then c if u guys can fix it..IF NOT then move on
2007-10-31 10:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy601~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you still have feeling for your ex there is nothing you can do about it. If I were you I would try to give it another go with my ex, or just try to make sure I am only friends with him.
2007-10-31 10:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋