He doesn't reciprocate!?

Question

I am always kissing him, giving him massages, rubbing his back and masturbating, but he vary rarely does anything in return!

He hasn't rubbed me properly in ages now.

I asked him why he doesn't and he says I have to ask him for it! Why should I have to ask him for it?

I'm thinking that if that's the case I'm going to DEMAND he do stuff for me, not ask. Though I worry if I do that he will refuse. Maybe I should just give him a spanking if I have been pleasuring him and he refuses my demands for pleasure in return?

But what I really want is for him to take some of the initiative like he used to. Why do you think he stopped? How can I get him to start again?

I am dominant and it's REALLY pissing me off that I give pleasure but get next to none in return. If I didn't like him so much I would never do such a thing! And even though I like him, I'm not going to keep this up much longer before I take the initiative to start taking my pleasure from him...

Answer 1

DUH why punish yourself leave him . Seems the love in your relationship is gone . If he doesnt love you why waste your time beating a dead horse , NOW GO FIND SOMEONE >

Answer 2

If you're so Dominant, then why haven't you dealt with this before now? It sounds to me like you're bending over backwards to keep this guy, even though he does nothing for you in return. If he's supposed to be the submissive one, then it's time that you pull his leash and get him back in line. I wouldn't suggest a spanking, though, unless you know that he won't enjoy it.

Answer 3

You need to have a heart to heart with him....you need to tell him your feelings, and give him suggestion on how to help you feel better.

Just to let you know, i myself am looking for a domestic discipline relationship...however IMO this isn't a spank-able offense

Answer 4

Cut him off for awhile. Tell him you don't want a sympathy ****