Singles & Dating - 15 October 2007

last year me and this guy (ricardo) were gonna go out, but he was sorta with someone and i was really sad so i just got over it and 2 months after that i went out with another guy (javi). the same day ricardo dumped his gf for me was when javi asked me out. he called me some mean things and we hadnt talked for a year. so the last month me and ricardo have been talking again and i kinda have some feelings for him again (we're both single)

the conflict:
*hes in the grade lower than me, and im about 7 months older than him
*my other guy friends like hate him
(ricardo and my guy friends dont hang out, from 2 different groups but some of my guy friends know him and hateee him)

what should i do? i dont like him alottt or anything but i have like a little crush on him..

2007-10-15 06:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my man since beginning high school (now im 20) and we had so many memories together and he recently heard that I cheated on him (which wasnt true) and he broke up with me when I came to his job this morning. I was a mess.. i was about to commit suicide and he told me to go ahead. He left and then I called my dad to come get me and now I'm home just a mess and I cant stop crying and I cant get help. I love him so much and he told me he will never be with me again and to stop calling him. Im mess, I cant even go to work to school... What helps get thru this? Thanks

2007-10-15 06:36:37 · 2 answers · asked by Krissy 2

Did you feel good when you ex kept calling you for days, weeks, even months after you two broke it off? Did it give you an ego of some sort, that he or she was still trying to see or get back with you (even though you did not want them).

If so, why?

2007-10-15 06:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by no 3

Ive been mates with a lad for13years now. I went out with him 3years ago for about 9months. It was never really serious and i did nothing more than kiss him. We remained very good friends and i speak to him all the time through texts and msn. I very rarely get chance to meet up with him, but hes having a party this friday and has invited me.... one problem, my boyfriend of 14months has a problem with it. He doesnt understand that were just mates nothing more. I understand he must have doubts coz this is an ex-boyfriend but he shud trust me, if any1 has reasons to doubt trust its me, as he cheated on me 4months ago. I really dnt wanna risk ma relationship but i dnt wanna lose my best mate. Plz Help... thanks in advance xxxx

2007-10-15 06:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Claireluvsyaxx 2

Why does it always seem like when a relationship ends the guy moves on SO MUCH FASTER than the woman. It seems like the guy always gets another girlfriend ASAP. Why do men fall out of relationships and then JUMP right back into another one?

2007-10-15 06:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by ALeoStar 4

Just someone that you make eye contact with.

2007-10-15 06:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been cheated on by men all my life there is nothing wrong with me i cook i go to work and im a good person i hate drama and im a rider for my man but now i have been dogged so much by men that im a lesbian now with a wife who loves me better thenany man has i dont think i will ever be with another man now i believe all men are doggs for sho'

2007-10-15 06:27:19 · 14 answers · asked by AISHA S 1

Here is a little back story. I meet this girl at the casino, I didnt even talk to her i just wrote my name and number on a bingo card with the ink dabber. Walked up and set it in front of her, and walked away. 2 hours later i got a text message from her. She thought it was really cute what i did. We talked a little that night, last wednesday. We talked some friday. I asked if she had any plans that night. She said she was busy. So i told her to call me when she wasnt busy. she replied to that with "maybe I will :)". Then last night we talked about what we did over the weekend. Nothing big. So what should be my next move?

2007-10-15 06:26:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jon G 7

All I ever hear about is the horrible ones, and Im such a cynic, which im trying to change, but I have no references for it, so I was hoping you happy people could help me!

2007-10-15 06:25:34 · 17 answers · asked by Emmauk 2

okay nive been talkin to this guy for about three weeks now and he says he dont want to get into a serious relationship wit me bcuz hes in 12 grade and hes about to live so i was cool wit it and i told him if it gets serious then we'll figure it out from there. that same day i told him that i found out he staarted going out wit someone else. i talk to him about it and he said he was sorry and he was going to make for it. and he said he was going to break up with her . whats up wit this

2007-10-15 06:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by Ms.TruBlue 1

ok... my g/f just posted up a question about "Is this considered cheating when...."
Thank you for all the answers. Some of you guys did say that I was cheating on her, and some said I was not.

Hear my side of the story.

I had dinner with my friend/client without telling her (my gf) because she always whines and gets mad. I knew she would be mad so I didnt tell her. I offered dinner (my client/friend) because I just wanted to be nice to her and because she is my client and bought my product. Yes, I dressed up to meet her. Why? because I wanted to respect her as my client.

After dinner, I spoke to my Gf and told the truth. I dont like keeping secrets. I dont know how she (friend) feels about me but as long as I think of her as friend, i believe its not cheating. Besides, my friend do know that I been dating for 5 years.

I believe cheating is when touching or more gets involved. I touched her by shaking her hand.

is this cheating?

2007-10-15 06:18:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-15 06:17:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i just got a bf today, and he is great, and i do not want to screw up my relationship with him, so could you give me any tips, and what to do and not to do and any other things that you feel would be helpful, i waould really apreciate it

2007-10-15 06:15:02 · 6 answers · asked by The bored and hyper one 3

i waited through four years of highschool until i finally went out with this girl that i had had my eye on. When we were finally going out, she said that girls didnt want to date me because i wasnt an asshole, and even she was weird about dating me because i wasnt an asshole. When will girls stop being confusing?

2007-10-15 06:13:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 5' 3" tall, just dyed my hair brown, i have an amazing personality and an average body. It just seems like guys are only interested in me for eveything else except my company. I dont wear slutty clothes or a ton of make-up.. im just myself and guys seem to think that im all about makinout and hookin up.. how can i change this!? ahh.. why cant guys like like me for me

2007-10-15 06:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica 3

if you really are thinking about going back to the EX you broke up with when you wre 15 because your parents made you because they thought you were to young to date at the time is it wrong

2007-10-15 06:10:48 · 2 answers · asked by JUGGALO 1

i am in need of a girl, age to be 18 to 25 buth some one apere as 20 while she is 35 when isee such person what will i do?because it is painfle for some one to betray another one i can remember the golden rull from, which says what ever u want others to do to u, u likewise do them. but i found out that people dosnt have regarde for others thise days.what do u like to say on this matter?

2007-10-15 06:09:43 · 4 answers · asked by chidubem e 1

She is 35 and gave me her number last Friday, she came over on Thursday and nothing happened between us. I was thinking about making a move on her, but I didn't get the right vibe. We were talking about porn and wet dreams she has had, but we weren't talking about it for that long. Was that a sign that she likes me? She seems very friendly, so that leads me to belive she wants me. What 35 year old woman gives a 22 her number? after only knowing her for a week?

2007-10-15 06:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1

i've been with my g/f for 4 years, long time i know today she broke up with me for personal reasons, i love her to death. there really isnt a question that im asking because i know that we wont get back together ever again. if you ever been inlove you know that it hurts so much knowing that someone you love wants nothing to do with you, it feels like your empty inside. :-( so help me have a somewhat better day or atleast bring a smile to my face by leaving a nice message for me. thanx

2007-10-15 06:08:11 · 12 answers · asked by Ollie 3

2007-10-15 06:05:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-15 06:05:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met a guy a while ago and i thought that he was playing me b/c he had a girlfriend at the time and he flirted with me a lot. he also asked me a lot of questions that made it seem like he wanted to know me better...we'd also talk for hours at a time. he made it seem like he was not so into his girlfriend. anyway, a few months after i met him, we had gotten pretty chummy and i still hadn't given anything to him but smiles and a few light touches. i never really flirted back with him. then his dog died and he was so distraught he cried in my arms and he was soo open with me about his feelings. he went to stay with his parents for a while and when he came back, he was really happy to see me and was once again really vulnerable to me. however, nothing changed...he went back to being with his gf and still flirts with me every so often. was he playing me or did he have real feelings and just happened to have a gf at the time?

2007-10-15 06:03:34 · 12 answers · asked by moosekid 2

if you leave soemone three times and say you don't like them but you really do but that is wat you tell them but you decide you really want that person but he has found someone else but still likes you is that wrong to try and talk to them again and tell them you like them when they are going out with someonelse but he says that he likes you better? is it wrong to talk to them wen he has a girlfreind?

2007-10-15 06:03:21 · 14 answers · asked by gecia k 1

2007-10-15 06:01:49 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I broke up because he says he doesn't care about me paying him back the money but that the effort wasn't there...

I've realized I have a problem with money...I spend it too easily and have trouble paying it back...

I wish I could turn back time and not borrow all of it, but I can't...I've sincerely apologized for not making the intent to pay him back...

All I have to do now is just wait and see if he accepts it or not...

2007-10-15 06:00:03 · 5 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1

they guy i dated for 2 yrs left me, a bunch of friends took me out to help me feel better including my best friend who is a guy while i had never thought of him in a way other then a friend but while my realtionship was on the rocks about a week ago it crossed my mind that my best friend would make a really good bf, but it quickly passed i know that my friend has never seen me that way either
but back to the night out i got pretty drunk and passed out on the way home when i woke up i was in his lap (both dressed) and he had his arms around me he was awake and kinda just softly rubbing my back. well what does that mean? when we danced that night we danced a little closer then we used to. was he just trying to comfort me or was he feeling the same thing i was feeling? we spent the whole next day together and everything was normal just like before but he did do some things that were diff like he protected me from his brothers teasing me and stuff. should i say something or wait for him?

2007-10-15 05:58:40 · 16 answers · asked by ... 4

And why?

2007-10-15 05:57:55 · 13 answers · asked by -_-_-MoNicA-_-_- 1

music you like making love to?


or do you prefer no music at all?


thank you

2007-10-15 05:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by Fall Back 1

Alright, so I've got this guy friend that wants to take me shopping. He says I need 'sluttier' clothes. I've only said, "Whatever you say," and never totally agreed, but he went on and on about what I would need to get. He even went as far a saying I had to get some thongs. And he guessed my bra sized (he was only off a little), and by God, I told him my actual size. And he told me what color bras we would have to get. (I'm sure you can tell from that little information that we have a pretty good relationship) And he kept going on about how pretty I was and how I had to use it. And that I have boobs now.

And then as it got later (10:30 last night) he asked if I could date anyone who would it be. I was drawing blank after blank, so I finally said him. Not sure if it registered, but I said it.

So, anyway, my question: That conversation wasn't normal, was it? Any ideas on what could be brewing? Any ideas on anything?

I'm clueless about guys, so any help would be great!

2007-10-15 05:49:48 · 8 answers · asked by Hockey Girl 4

Why do people say or do things and then turn around and say I am sorry or I apoligize. They way I see it is it still doesen't change the fact that you said or did it. You said or did what you did because that's how you were feeling or that's what you wanted to do. So why be sorry about how you feel and what you said or did, the damage has already been done and can't be undone. The person you said or did it to will always remember what you did before you said I am sorry or I apoligize. If you didn't think it you never would had said it or did it so you must of meant it.

2007-10-15 05:46:12 · 23 answers · asked by honestspeaking 2