Singles & Dating - 15 October 2007

What does it mean when a guy you barely know suggests that the two of you "should hang out?"
No, really. WTF does this mean?
Enlighten me.

2007-10-15 10:23:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was 14 at the time. I regret it and have had other sex partners since. I'm almost 17 and wish I waited. What is your experience? I lost my virginity to my boyfriend who was cheating on me at the time (I didn't know) and he dumped me a few days after we had sex.

2007-10-15 10:20:52 · 20 answers · asked by In hiding 4

This boy has wanted to go out with me for 2 years. He asks me, i say no. then he'll wait a while then ask again. I told him to 4get about us ever happening he says o.k. a month later hes askin again. I don't want to be rude but hes ugly, and hes mean to alot of other people. What should I do now because No isnt cutting it.

2007-10-15 10:16:24 · 13 answers · asked by daneeneechick 1

2007-10-15 10:16:24 · 11 answers · asked by Caity 1

I've been with my boyfriend for two years now. We have had sex, and I feel comfortable doing things for him (To be frank, i mean giving head and also handj***) Although when I ask him if I would get anything in return, he says he doesnt want to because he thinks womens vaginas are unattractive. I feel rejected because i feel like he was targetting me and he promises me thats it's not me, it's just all women in general that he finds the vagina unattractive and that he's unexperienced at head and using his hand. I was sympathetic and told him I didnt care how experienced he was, and accepted what he said although I felt it very frustrating at times.

Although recently he has told me that he realises that it's unfair for me to be giving him what he wants, and then he doesnt return. So he said he would like to try it. Although whenever we seem to get into the mood of it, he gets really nervous. Is there something wrong with me? Or is he just scared he'll let me down?

2007-10-15 10:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by cosmetic_x 2

Ok, so i really like this guy who teaches me one of my lessons. I don't know how old he is but he's unmarried. Unlike other people who have posted questions about student/teacher relationships, i do not love this guy! I jus really enjoy his classes and think he is gorgeous! i hate it when i don't have a lesson for ages and love it when we talk! is this a really bad thing to feel/think? please help me
(ps: im 15, female)

2007-10-15 10:14:30 · 6 answers · asked by butterfly_bell 1

would you rather have a guy tell you he is excited about you and ask, or just hold you close and go for it?

2007-10-15 10:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by Nate 6

We met once before and again yesterday and had a really nice time....ended up going back to my place and fooled around but didnt have sex coz i refused....slept for a while then he left. I feel terrible coz i want him to respect me and now i feel i've ruined all the chances for that..didnt even want to get physical that soon....what should i do? We are both in our 30s so we are mature.

2007-10-15 10:12:18 · 12 answers · asked by Boo 1

2007-10-15 10:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by spick&span 4

2007-10-15 10:10:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a girl who loves gym class(im in highschool) except for one problem... a sexist gym teacher. He is failing all of the girls in his class on purpose because he has a theory that girls are weaklings and don't participate in anything( yes he has told us this in those exact words). That may be true for some girls but i always participate in running, sports, etc. He is usually pointing me out and claims that i dont work hard enough, he is often making rude comments towards me as well while he tries to look down my shirt. Many people agree that he is an arrogant man and i think he is a weak one as well for judging girls so harshly and giving boys all the credit even if they are just sleeping on the sidelines of the football field not doing anything. Not to have a negative attitude, but i can already assume i am going to get a C or lower...because thats all i can expect from a sexist jerk like him. So, any suggestions on what i can do to avoid FAILING his class?

2007-10-15 10:08:43 · 11 answers · asked by lhatetrees 3

I like this guy in my class and over the weekend I asked him out by a message on facebook. We're both really shy! He responded and asked if I was the in his class and I said yes. Today in class I was waiting for him to approach me but he didn't. We also had a quiet study time so it wouldn't have worked. We did lock eyes a couple times but I was too shy to say anything. If he's looking at me a lot what is he thinking?? What should I do tomorrow??

2007-10-15 10:05:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-15 10:03:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I brought a girl I really like back to my place and she was really sexy, I was completely turned on, but when we were all over eachother, I kept getting hard then loosing it quickly because I was tired and drunk, any suggestions?? (sensible answers only please!)

2007-10-15 10:00:20 · 23 answers · asked by Brundle 1

I've been friends with a guy who got divorced in April/no kids. We have a lot of chemistry but he needs some time on his own before getting into another relationship. I want him to tell me about his ex-wife/marriage but don't know what the best way is to ask. Any ideas?

2007-10-15 09:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by electra1978 2

Which is more attractive in a man--

a man as a warrior/protector;

or

a man as a provider?

For this question, you have to pick one of those two.
But choose wisely, my daughter.

2007-10-15 09:58:46 · 9 answers · asked by LuckyLavs 4

2007-10-15 09:52:53 · 4 answers · asked by Miss New Jersey =] 5

We don't really know one another. He's a good friend of one of my good friends. He's suggested (via text )
we "hang out" when I get back into town. (I've been away for about a year).
I'll be back in town next month...what to do.?
He's really sexy. But I've just gotten out of a pretty rough relationship that lasted over 6 years.
I'm afraid that might be a dealbreaker.

2007-10-15 09:52:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this guy i like and he likes me is touching my back and butt and like we hug and kiss and like idk what to do. @ my school i have to wear a skirt every day so he told me to put my feet on the chair and he asked me to kind of open them up! whats that suppost to mean? plus like theres this other girl who always hugs my boyfriend goodbye at school what the hell is that about!?! please help im super desperate for answers!

2007-10-15 09:51:46 · 31 answers · asked by pinkgirl5 1

I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year and still haven't kissed her, i wonder sometimes if she's not into me and whenever i bring it up she goes quet. What do i do?

2007-10-15 09:51:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend is a guy, and he recently got his first girlfriend(I am not friends with her/never met her...just heard about her).....I told him that I knew that he wasn't going to talk to me as much anymore but I didn't want him to get too carried away with it......it was going as usual for the first week, but starting last week, he's been talking to her(his girlfriend's) friends a lot more.....me and him are in the same lunch class and so we always talk in class and sit together at lunch, but today, the WHOLE time he was talking to his girlfriend's best friend and barely said 2 words to me, AND he moved away from me at lunch.....I knew he was going to not talk to me as much to some extent but I didn't think it would be this bad.......I don't want to say anything to him though b/c I don't want to be the "clingy" friend...but I know that if and when this won't work out, he'll come crying back to me but he'll have already lost me....so please, any advice would be helpful

2007-10-15 09:50:59 · 8 answers · asked by problem_girl 3

the advice is for my friend, and to make it less confusing im going to ask from her point of view

I like this guy a lot, and i think he likes me too. We went to a movie, and he always was holding my hand and putting his arm around me, he even tried to kiss me. (this was only the 2nd i have seen him) we never "went out" or anything, but we talkd on the phone for like 3 hrs every day for a week after that.
he mentiond going to this dance thing and me going with him, but only once then never said anything again.
me and some friends went to the dance, he didnt know we ended up going. when we got to the dance, we found him, and he was all over this other girl! he saw me and gave me a hug, then me and my friends just kinda left. i called him when i got home. he said he would be home soon and call but never did.
i still like him a lott

this is not my problem, its my friends. but what should i tell her! should she call him.
i think hes a jerk

2007-10-15 09:48:23 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

a coworker and i were emailing each other and he said let's make luv and i said i wasn't sure. anyway later on in the day, he told me he wanted to touch me and me touch him. i then changed my mind and told him i wanted us to touch. after his shift was over, we met at the top floor of the library which is where we work and we tried find a spot, but i freakd out thinking someone would see us. he could tell i wasn't sure and told me we shouldn't do it since i wasn't sure and that i wasn't into it. he just seemed really cool about it when i asked him if he was upset and he seemed laid back. he could tell i was nervous and confused and he kinda hugged me. the next day i emailed him from home saying that I want him and me to still do it, but then he said he couldn't do it since he was horny yesterday and that i should do it with someone i luv . he said he was sorry and that he hoped i didn't feel used. was he using me or did he feel rejectd? how should i move past this?

2007-10-15 09:42:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok today me and my friends were outside, and i had an apple and the guy i like, grabbed it out of my hand. the apple fell on the floor and i was trying to get it. me and him started kicking it and then we stopped for like 2 seconds. I then grabbed it and threw it at him. i am soooo mad at myself for throwing the apple at him. I dont know what i should do! cuz i think that i hit him pretty hard! plz help!!!!!!

2007-10-15 09:30:05 · 9 answers · asked by Blahhhhhh 3

ok so me and my gf have been goin out for 2 months we go on dates and stuff but its uasully with a crowd of people so its rly hard to get her alone to try to put the first move on her to make out we have not made out yet weve kissed i need help on that??? also usally we go to down town after school on friday so its rly har to get her away from her friends to try to make out??? and wat if i do it at school??? how wuld i do it???? wen??? how to i get her there???do i say anything before we make out wat should i do?? teen couple. im a guy thanks

2007-10-15 09:29:56 · 10 answers · asked by tomzzz 1

mmk so this guy i like and i just started hanging out more, and being all flirty and stuff, and yah we hung out all friday night at the school ftball game, like holding hands and whatever cuz we were "cold" and then after the homecoming dance the next day[he didnt go to the dance] we hung out at thi party for like severeal hours and ppl kept on being like are you two going out yet? and stuff, and yah he was kinda trashed and i relly wasnt, and yah he haad his arms around me all night, and when another guy tried to like grab me or whatever hes got all protective, and then by the end of the night we were making out and, today was the first day back at school since that day, and its wasnt awkward or anything, and he told me he remembered everything, and idk i think he might like me but i dont know what to do i want to go out with him, but im to "old-fashioned" to ask him, so yeah what now?

2007-10-15 09:26:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't get me wrong, I love sex, but it has never been affected by emotion for me. I pretty much do not feel emotion when I am having it. Even if it is with someone I love, I still do not feel any profound "loving" feelings during sex. I have never developed feelings for a person after having sex with them. I do not form attachments to people because I had sex with them. Sex is purely physical for me and I am pretty sure it always will be.

Is this odd??

2007-10-15 09:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4

last night i kissed her on the cheek. and she blushed. i being the worst with women, took it as a rejection. so i explained to her that i liked her and hope fully become boy/ girl friend. then paniced and offered to finish some home work. while doing the HW i appolagised for what happened back there, she says "no no, i want to get to know you to. lets just see what happens". what a relief. then i reliesed that i see her every day in my first hour class. she seemed happier today, and said she was nervous, and felt weird. i couldent think of any thing to say, it was kind of akward. but now that the secrets out, should i just roll with it, or explain to her more. am i over stressing?

2007-10-15 09:20:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my 20's and have the most overprotective, old fashioned parents...sometimes it's a good thing and sometimes...it's kinda hard...

For me to get where i am today with their trust and for them not to get paranoid...is HUGE...i'm the oldest so they STILL have the hardest time letting go (even with the littlest things 16 yr olds can do grrr) I'm a simple girl and i usually don't go along w. the crowd...i've got values and i'm a smart cookie :) Being the oldest, i've kinda had to grow up and be mature compared to others my own age but of course, they'll see something else, as "innocent".

I was planning on having some on my bday until my cousin brought it up (getting me drunk) and of course, the FREAKED...the whole "drinking" thing didn't even come up w. them 'til now and they're back to freaking out again..

HELP...is it really worth it?

2007-10-15 09:19:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime things are going well, I freak out. When I feel happy, I panic. To the point that when something bad happens I feel almost releived. I know its crazy, but those feelings are familar to me and being happy freaks me out because my past has proven it will only "last so long" before something bad happens~which it usually happens all at once. Sometimes I think I even CAUSE things to screw up just a little because, as much as I say I hate the drama, it feels like a rush when I get it. I want to break this pattern and am not sure how. Everyone is telling me counselling, yes I know it helps. But I have no choice but to work 40plus hours to support my 3 kids(I am a single parent) so I dont even have time for it. (And yes I am on medication) But I still crave cutting and sometimes almost hope for an excuse to do it and I know its sick and as much as I wanna let go, Im freaked out because part of me, in a sick way, likes the feeling. Im so conflicted adn I just want to stop the struggle

2007-10-15 09:17:55 · 1 answers · asked by t 2