Singles & Dating - 30 August 2007

When I was about 5 or 6 my brother started to rap me at night for about 3 years and I never toed no one. Now that I'm older (21) I am sceard of the dark because of it and now i have a boyfriend that i live with and like to touch me at night you know like put his legs or arms around me and I dont like it. It make me wake out of my sleep sceard that its my brother that is touching. Now he think that it was a bad idea for us to live toghter because I wont sleep next to him when we sleep or let him touch me and he think that i dont went to be with him any more.
I love him very much and went to stay together but how can i tell him what happen to me and the reson why i dont like him touching me when i'm sleep without him judging me.

2007-08-30 08:38:48 · 26 answers · asked by Keia 2

I live in student accomodation. Most people who know me know I'm a christian. I'm still a virgin. There's guy who lives in my building. I wouldn't like him for a long term relationship. But I would like to sleep with him. I'm a virgin..but it's because I don't really date and the one guy I did date wanted to wait. If I sleep with this guy, are people going to think less of me? Or judge me because as a christian I should be more ethical? I'm 24 years old. One of my friends was talking to me assuming I would wait for marriage and trying to convince me to only wait for love..the funny thing is I'm not sure I can even wait for love..I'm sick of waiting for love. I'm starting to doubt it's going to happen.

2007-08-30 08:38:38 · 37 answers · asked by shaomit 3

I have a myspace.....posted a pic of myself after I had gotten in a bar fight (HUGE black eye) and all these girls left comments saying how I look bad azz, sexy, hot, they really got all wet over it. I think I should get in fights more often now. So girls, is it true?

2007-08-30 08:34:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 08:33:54 · 7 answers · asked by Con4Life 3

I need a job in an International company, i speak 4 1/2 languages..How can i contact these companies, through what, or who?? i live in NY by the way!

2007-08-30 08:33:34 · 3 answers · asked by Ajlina 2

I am 28, and never had any girlfriend. I have sexual addiction (compulsive musterbation, sexual fantacy thinking).
I don't hope I will find any real sex partner. To recover from my sexual addiction and depression, I decided to practice celibacy. I want to know that, how longtime I have to force myself to stop sexual activity? Will a time come when I have no sexual desire and So I will not have to force myself and will be free from pain?

2007-08-30 08:29:37 · 28 answers · asked by Bluelover 2

Have you ever had a crush on a teacher? I have one and I don't know what to do about it.

2007-08-30 08:27:41 · 23 answers · asked by meow. 4

I recently broke up with my boyfriend, But i can't seem to get him off of my mind. What's the best way to get over a guy, and stop thinking about him?

2007-08-30 08:17:38 · 29 answers · asked by Glamorous 3

Does your perception of someone's appearance alter as you get to know them? Especially in a negative way? Or can you overlook the bad traits if they're easy on the eye?

2007-08-30 07:57:22 · 69 answers · asked by tilly 5

How do you know/tell when he's "the one" for you? Is it just this thing that suddenly hits you, like poof, I could be with this guy forever? Or is it like..."wow we work really well together, I think I could be with him forever" I mean....how do you know? Is it the inseperable feeling? I doubt all of my feelings ALWAYS, no matter who I'm with or what I do. I have this constant itch of unsatifaction in all that I do. So I wonder if I'll ever find the one. I am seeing someone ...that I look at ...and wonder if he could be the one for me, I love spending time with him, i'm always excited to see him/be with him, and it's never a dull moment, but I don't trust myself/my thoughts/feelings, and I always wonder whether I'm making the right move. I need some input on this! Please help! What is the soulmate feeling...if you've had it...or how you imagine it. Thanks

2007-08-30 07:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since you never want to tell me the truth, I am going to tell you the truth.

1.) I have been waiting for you to approach me.
• In Edinboro, I wanted you to talk to me or just ask me out ^-^
• Your sweet poems are wonderful, but I need you to tell me directly ^-^

2.) I liked you a lot, but I was shy. I never have a boyfriend so I did not know how to act around guys. ^-^

3.) I just afraid that we cannot be together so I have been avoid you. I just don’t want us to be heart-broken.

4.) Before my graduation in 2006, I just wanted to say “Good Bye” because I knew you care about me. (We never talked, but I just knew you care ^_^)

5.) After I left Edinboro, I was very upset and depressed because I missed you. I decided I am going to forget about you. But with god wills I found your Myspace and able read your poem (The longing---how amazing and wonderful that is!!) .You took my breath away with your poem.

2007-08-30 07:50:42 · 14 answers · asked by Hope 4

my boyfriend and i have been going out for eight months going on nine. so we were having phone sex and he told me he wants to make love to me. i know he wanted to tell me that before but i kind of knew he was scared to say that to me because he didn't know what i would say. so i told him when he said i want to make love to u that i wasn't ready to do that yet and i asked him if he was ok with that and he said yes why wouldn't i be.

2007-08-30 07:47:40 · 34 answers · asked by leiandra p 1

If you don't you better know what it is because it affects your sexuality.

2007-08-30 07:41:21 · 1 answers · asked by Don S 5

OK so I met this guy on dating site. After some emails, texts and calls, we went on 2 amazing dates. We have so much in commons. After 2nd date he wanted to have sex, we finally did it on the 3rd date. After that things just went down hill. I mean he still nice and everything but he is no longer romantically interested. He treated me more like a buddy. No more opening car door for me, no holding hands, no small kisses...none of those in just 2 dates!! He never ask me to hang out with him. Everytime we did hang out, I know we will going to have sex. Which I don't mind it really.. but what's up with the change of attitude though... Was he really interested in me romantically in the first oplace then think less of me just because I gave in on the 3rd date? Or he was just a prick who pretend to like me just to have sex with me. One kicker though he is a very handsome guy with a hot body. If he only wants sex.. pretty much he could have it easily with any woman he desires.

2007-08-30 07:28:58 · 12 answers · asked by flirtalicious 2

There is this girl whom I know. I admit that I do have a crush on her and I have had it for the past 4 months. I like everything about her but she does have two kids ages 1 and 3. So for the most part I have not pursued anything probably because of that and the fact the she's a coworker. But she is beautiful inside and out! Her smile brightens up the room and she always does nice things for me like bringing me home cooked meals for lunch, She has a nurturing nature that I am very attracted to and shes cute. Lately Ive been having dreams about her and its really starting to get to me. What does it all mean? She told another coworker that I was cute but the thing is If I pursue her Im not sure if Im ready for 1 kid let alone 2. Insight anyone?

2007-08-30 07:21:07 · 16 answers · asked by AspiringLovDoctor 2

I want to stop texting and calling this guy. He's a nice guy and we are only friends. However, Now I find myself thinking about him and miss him a lot. gosh! That worries the h3ll out of me.

We are living in different states. no way.. we are just not meant to be. I need to stop contacting him.

Everytime I took out my cell and wanted to text him, I would tell myself.. nay! Again, days went by, when I start to think about him again, I'd text him and I was like.. "last one".
Aww.. I really need to stop. I wish I could just delete his number but... I couldn't. It's already been stored in my mind.

Help me. One magical way to stop contact him and let him do the work if he's meant for me.

2007-08-30 07:19:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 07:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She recently started back talking and hanging out with her ex (her first sex partner), and ever since then she has seemed distant. I ask her if she wants him, she says no, I ask her if she wants to have sex with him, she says yes, but she won't because she is with me. They haven't seen each other in a few years, and ever since they started back talking, he has his own ringtone in her phone. She teels me that it's nothing to worry about because nothing will happen. He has expressed interest in her, but she hasn't in him (she tells me. What do I make of this situation?

2007-08-30 07:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by john s 1

i think thats how you spell it but i want to know how to read the manga free in english but i want to read the part were natsume kisses mika i know its in 50-55 but i cant find a site that has that chapter in english where can i read it??

2007-08-30 07:11:51 · 4 answers · asked by lex 1

that u love an he loves u but we fight all the time well not all the time but when he get home from work. I start in on him by yelling @ him an i dont want 2 do that anymore, I love him an he is so sick of me fighting with him he broke up with me bec of my anger problems but he took me back, bec im on meds now but I still fight wit him how can I stop fighting wit him over every little thing, an show him I do love him ??? ,what r some things I could do so i dont yell @ him an love him .an please dont b mean 2 me

2007-08-30 07:09:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kimberly 1

They are either taken, single and dont want a relationship or gay? Please help me as keep getting hurt.

2007-08-30 06:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3

Hi all,

As you know I been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We had a bad arguement a few days back but managed to resolve a few things.

Anyhow BEFORE his relationship with me my boyfriend was with a woman for 7 years who had a son from a previous relationship.

When we first got together he was in contact with her and she was threatening me and everything and told him she was going to move away and that she hated us and all that.

Anyhow 2/3 weeks ago we went on holiday to Cornwall and had a fantastic time.

Anyhow about an hour ago he told me that when we were away he saw his ex's son and it has freaked him out and he been having bad dreams and everything...

Why would he mention this to me and why now? Do you think this means he may be thinking about his past relationship with his ex and want her back or am I being stupid reading too much into it?

2007-08-30 06:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by SunshineApple 6

How long is too long to wait for him to purpose?
Fact: Your body only gives off love hormones for the first two years you are with someone. After that you have just decided that you are going to be with them and no love hormones are secreted.

Been dating for five years, we don't even live together at this point. We break up often (At the longest for three weeks at a time) Usually I break-up with him because he says or does something to piss me off. Sometimes he will say that he will hang out with me the next day and then he will say that he's gonna hang out with his buddy all night when I call him that day. How long is too long to wait? I understand that when you get married that you want everything to be perfectly stable. I have talked to him about it and he says I am perfectly commited to you any way and why should we get married when we fight like we do? Which I understand completely. Now we are living together for 1 month and the fighting hasnt changed except we see eachother.

2007-08-30 06:54:59 · 19 answers · asked by juniper555 5

...and I'm worried I'll do something stupid?
Me and my exgirlfriend are still friends but we didn't really make plans for the holidays cos she was spending time with her new boyfriend on the last day of school and I've missed her so much.
Me and my ex have been together twice and the second time she dumped me it was because some one had given her proof that I'd betrayed her trust when I hadn't and she said because of it she never wanted to go out with me again. I admit the first I betrayed her trust and she found out but the second time I didn't but she found out from the same source and he had proof that I'd betrayed her trust both times and I haven't really told her that she'd been lied to cos I didn't want to make feel stupid.
Yesterday I rang her bestfriend cos we hang about together alot and she's really the reason me and ex got together both times and I told her the true story cos she's been tellin me to back off from my ex lakely and she said to tell her the truth but I'm...

2007-08-30 06:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by Lily R 6

please help me.........

2007-08-30 06:50:33 · 22 answers · asked by attractive boy 1

I recently saw a text message that came in from a girl i have never met on my boyfriend's cell phone. It said "The week is almost over, and kitten wants to play..." Is he cheating on me or planning to? I can't help but think that the text can't mean anything except that. I mean...what else could she be referring to? He has never lied to me. He's not perfect - but neither am I. What should I do?

2007-08-30 06:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by bksg22 1

Ive only been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, hes great when we are together but every time he is supposed to stay over he finds an excuse and leaves, the times that he has done this he doesnt reply to my texts or my phones calls, then out the blue he will turn up at my work to pick me up and act like nothing has happened. Just recently he made his excuses and left when he was supposed to stay over, i didnt hear a word from in 3 days till he eventually replied to a text i sent threatening to break it off with him but all it said was "Been a bit ill wasnt up 4 talking much" Wot should i do?

2007-08-30 06:47:37 · 13 answers · asked by Fiona M 2

When a girl has amplified what she has (using pushup or padded bras) and there is NOT a medical reason for it (ie nothing had to be removed).

What reaction(s) have you gotten (or received) when you finally take it off and the guy sees that what you have is considerably less than what they thought?

Serious answers only please.

2007-08-30 06:19:18 · 11 answers · asked by .... 5

2007-08-30 06:17:28 · 9 answers · asked by SUNSHINE 2

What would your "ideal" woman be like?

2007-08-30 06:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by emkay4597 4