Ive only been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, hes great when we are together but every time he is supposed to stay over he finds an excuse and leaves, the times that he has done this he doesnt reply to my texts or my phones calls, then out the blue he will turn up at my work to pick me up and act like nothing has happened. Just recently he made his excuses and left when he was supposed to stay over, i didnt hear a word from in 3 days till he eventually replied to a text i sent threatening to break it off with him but all it said was "Been a bit ill wasnt up 4 talking much" Wot should i do?
2007-08-30 06:47:37 · 13 answers · asked by Fiona M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has stayed over once with success and i dont expect him to do anything except sleep
2007-08-30 07:52:51 · update #1
He must open up and discuss his reasons with you. It isn't fair to leave you wondering what's wrong. then you can both decide how to go forward or part. If he won't discuss it, find someone else honey, as running away is no basis for a serious relationship. Good luck to both of you
2007-08-30 07:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he dont wanna stay at your house have you ever thought of that?? seriously stop trying to get him to stay over for a while if everything is fine then good. if he still acts weird then dump him. I used to hate staying at my ex's but she used to drive me nuts with constant nagging about it she just could not understand id rather sleep in my own bed and wake up in my own house, you have only been together 2 months maybe its to much for him too soon!
2007-08-30 07:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds he could have a secret drugs problem. Look for the signs. OR, he could be cheating on you with someone else.
I would call it off and find someone who does wanna cuddle you at night...good luck.. Jamie 28yrs Male.
2007-08-30 06:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him even if you stick with him he will only keep messing you about looks to me as though he has got another woman on the go 2 he wants the best of both worlds if you don't do it now he will keep coming back to you and to me you need to get on with your life enjoy it and who knows mr right will come along.
2007-08-30 23:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start as you mean to go on.
If you continue with this relationship it is like you are giving him permission to treat you badly, and believe me the only way is down from there.
2007-08-30 07:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by sammie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does not know what he wants. Has he someone else on the go? someone he has to get back to? You need to ask the question
2007-08-30 06:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's up. Obviously something is. I would dump him, how much of your two months together has he spent ignoring you?
2007-08-30 06:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever thought he maybe already living with someone else!!!! that is why he may not want to stay over.
2007-08-30 07:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Simon M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUND LIKE HE SCED OF OF FALLING IN LOVE AND GE TING HIS HART BROKE. I THING YOU NEED T TALK ABOUT WERE YOU BOTH WANT TO GO WITH THE RELATIONSHIP
2007-08-30 07:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by wendyfoxdavies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the term "booty call" - sorry, but sounds like this is you in his eyes - dump the jerk
2007-08-30 06:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋