Singles & Dating - 30 August 2007

Do men like to get compliments from their girlfriends in a relationship?

What do you like to be complimented on?
Any pointers?
I don't think that i have ever complimented my boyfriend.

2007-08-30 18:34:44 · 7 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5

2007-08-30 18:28:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's already 32 but is already stable & still hot although he's almost getting bald....anyways, we have been texting each other for quite some time now & he has been extra caring & hospitable whenever we & our friends are together...he has sent me a message before that he misses me but until now he hasn't said if he feels something for me or what? i'm interested in him although i got a lot of choices right now...if he wouldn't make his move soon, i think i have to choose another...should i let him know first or should i wait for him still? (i'm only 22 by the way)

2007-08-30 18:26:46 · 28 answers · asked by leighn 3

ok well one day i got drunk with the guy "friend" in my patio.SO we did engage in some sexually activity and i also had sex with his best friend the day before.And i was also messing with his cousin( i still dont see anything wrong with it).Well this big ordeal happened when i was drunk some 30 year old guy had sex with but i said no and i didnt kno what was going on.anyways then my mom found out about everything.so after i got my cell phone back i tried to call the boy that i was in the back with but he didnt have minutes.then my mom said that i wasnt allowed to talk to him after everyhting that happened and that i had relations with 3 best friends.well one day when i was outside about to go to school he came out of his house and i kno he saw me and i really wanna talk to him because he was so so sweet.so do u think i should go against my moms wishes and keep it on the down low and jus let him go.But wat if i do decide to talk to him and he doesnt wanna talk to me?so wat should i do

2007-08-30 18:23:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 18:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by alspring7 1

Why is everybody so quick to move onto the next person, instead of really trying to make their current relationships work? And people wonder why nobody believes them when they say "I love you".

2007-08-30 18:07:33 · 14 answers · asked by Wandering the Shadowlands 1

I personally think that because of the age difference, it's uncomfortable, at the same time i want to, but not sure. he thinks that its okay for me to give it up after 2 months of if not he should be able to touch, but i think differently, hes 20 and im 17, i just need some advice, hes not a virgin and been with a few different girls. I want it to be special and witht the right person, just don't wanna give it up that quickly, even though we both love each other.
any advice,
and plz don't be assholes. thnx

2007-08-30 18:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by moon 1

your girlfriend's friends were mostly guys? They comment her myspace and they are really good looking and joke around like on the edge of flirting?
They're all just friends though...

2007-08-30 18:04:43 · 27 answers · asked by jeska102 1

comment how you think I sound, or what u think I should work on w/ personality looks...
sry no pics
but ah, i have fair clear skin hazel eyes with a hunter circle, normal sized nose, auburn hair w/ natural highlights, layerd an dside bangs...i leave it wavy or straighten it...naturaly wavy...342, 25 in waist, 36 in hips, only 5'1 or 5'2, 105-107 what should i do different??

um style is preppy/chic/fun
im pretty happy, but can have a seriosu convo, not dramatic really, have mood swings though i can't lie hehe, been told im pretty spoiled but also told i dont act that way unless im in the mall and like, buying half the store...heh...
i no its a hard q to answer but is there anything that you think i sohuld change..idk im 13 and i want to be like , the best i can...and i dont think people who know you give honest enough opinions just cause of being aqaurd or getting in fights

so please BE HONEST

2007-08-30 17:48:07 · 17 answers · asked by xox o.live.juice xox 2

2007-08-30 17:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

you see for 7 or more months now we have liked eachother...
we met at church and we quickly started to like eachother. he then one day told me he liked me. Boy was i a happy girl =]
then time passed. he went on vacation and i got asked out alot, but i rejected. when he came back i decided to tell him my feelings. so i did i told him everything on my mind. i told him i still liked him even if he dosent like me. he then said that we cant be cause im so nice and pretty and then he said soemthing about his ex i couldnt understand [this convo was not in english] but yea... i told him that he shouldnt think about the end. cause its not the beginning or the end thats important its in between that matters. but he had nothing to say. He told me he still likes me and he meant everything he said and did. although it was hard for me i told him that i guess we should be friends hes reply was "yea...i guess?"
friends think hes got commitment problems. but how do i show him that im different?

2007-08-30 17:37:31 · 1 answers · asked by Lovely-Lyn 1

who is right!? me or my bf?

2007-08-30 17:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

Hey, ive been talking to a guy on the internet for a while and he wants to meet up sometime. Not only is he 28 (im 18), ive always thought that anyone who meets up with someone on the internet is a dumb f*ck, but im still considering agreeing anyway. We get along really well and have a lot in common, but what i want to know is whether his behavior is more consistant with ppl his age, or more like a perverts. Hes often told me he wants to date me, which im open to. The thing that bothers me is that he hints at sex a lot, and the other day when he was completly trashed, he just came right out and asked me if i would have sex with him. so im confused, i havnt dated older guys before and i dont know if the relationships hes used to are more mature and therefore more open about sex, or if the dating rules are the same as im used to and hes just a pervert in disguise. What do you think? thanks

2007-08-30 17:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2

I must say, I am an attractive and smart man. But there is something that I miss and that is excitement. For example, when I am with her, I can appeal her satisfaction with sweet words and ligitimate actions. But there is something that often comes around which makes me boring. I sometimes become silent(which feels awkward) just because I have nothing exciting or funny to say... I feel lame in such conditions. I want this to go right. How can I become solve this issue?

2007-08-30 17:36:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i make him stop this craving?! i want my garlic bread!

2007-08-30 17:35:29 · 11 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3

Ive been dating this girl for 8 months now. Started out great then turned rocky! She needed and wanted a little more attn then I am used to giving. I pushed away a bit because i was unsure of her feel. She then pushed harder toward me. She then took a trip to and ran into an an ex. Told me she was confused. Said she did not cheat? We had several long talks since then resolving(hopefully) all issues. I changed my work schedule to allow me more time to spend with her. I decided to fully trust her. Very tough to due. Things for the last month have been perfect. Im feeling closer and closer to her. I then saw an email she wrote when she was near him. stating that she has felt he is supposed to be her husband. etc.and that she still compares all guys to him. Because I was not gving her enough attn. She was not sure that I was what she was looking for. Since she is back she has reassured me that I am what she wants. ex was 3 yrs ago. 9mo long relationship but engaged. Am i wasting my time!

2007-08-30 17:32:38 · 19 answers · asked by pgrxtob 2

2007-08-30 16:57:46 · 22 answers · asked by nanasue1559 1

My b/f and I talked tonight and I told him that sometimes I feel too nice and that I feel like a doormat. He works as a teacher, coach and is in a musical, all of which consumes alot of his time. At night after the musical, like 10 or so, he calls to tell me about his day and we chat for 15 or 20 minutes. He then says he will call back and when he does, it's 2 or 3 hours later because he falls asleep and then he wakes up and remembers he forgot. He keeps apologizing but to no avail, the same incident happens every night. Tonight I said that I was going to put my foot down and get mean about it. I am so irritated and don't know what to do or say. He told me that his ex was a royal ***** and always mad at him, so he feels he put extra effort into that relationship to try to keep her happy. He told me that I never get mad or express my feelings, so he feels like the relationship flows and therefore, he doesn't put tons of effort in! Does he take me and the relationship for granted?

2007-08-30 16:53:20 · 12 answers · asked by PrincessAsh23 2

This is not meant to offend anyone.. We have a bet going as to what the answer will be. No rude and obnoxious answers please.

2007-08-30 16:48:23 · 9 answers · asked by BigWashSr 7

I really like this girl and I think she likes me, but im not completly sure, shes really nice around pretty much everyone, so how do I make sure shes not just being nice to me but that she really likes me?

2007-08-30 16:46:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and i miss him...and then we ended up talking online about nothing until we started playing this game u could say..we asked eachother like bad questions..like about us.. stuff like us as an item...and now i think i miss him...and idk wut 2 do...

2007-08-30 16:46:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious to know some of your answers :-)

2007-08-30 16:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by miley 2

So, I'm dating a lawyer and he seems to hardly have any time for me (even returning an email takes a while, like 2 wks...in the beginning it took a little less time) I know his job is very busy and keeps him occupied. If anyone is a lawyer dating a non-lawyer or vice versa, please give your advice...is it really such a busy schedule or should I move on? (I really do like him though and when we do meet or talk, it doesn't seem like he's losing interest). BTW, we haven't even kissed yet but talk endlessly when we meet...

2007-08-30 16:30:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your girlfriend hangs out with a male friend from uni more than she hangs out with you, mostly because they have the same classes and see each other every day. She is always talking about him, they comment on myspace all the time, and now she is helping him coach a soccer team.
Does this:

a) Make you want her more because you are jealous?
b) Make you want to break up with her?
c) You don't really care

2007-08-30 16:26:53 · 22 answers · asked by jeska102 1

My Boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 7 months and we have been having sex for a little over 5 months. For some reason when we have sex I never 'get off'. I have only one time, but why is it that i have this problem? is it him or me? or could it be a lot of different things?

2007-08-30 16:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 15 yrs old and my boyfriend of 7 months recently broke up with me. Ever since we've been broken up i feel fat and ugly...i need a guy! advice?

2007-08-30 16:25:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old, and I met a 22 year old. We are seeing each other tomorrow. Our personalities click as if we are twins! He is funny and so caring! I really like him!! He mentioned to me that he does not want to have sex because I am underage and he could get in a lot of trouble for that, I told him that I do not want sex until I am ready. THe only problem is that my parents don't believe it... so now I have to hide seeing him behind their backs...and this really hurts me...to lie to them. But this guy is just wonderful he truly is the definition of a man who respects women. What should I do?
Thank you so much for your help! <3

2007-08-30 16:24:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anna G 1

At work I've found out tonight through a customer that she has 'got it on' (her own words) with my male supervisor. I saw a naked photo of him on her phone. My supervisor is in a long relationship with a girl and she works with us too.

Should I keep stum or tell her? I've only worked there for 6 weeks so far.

Obviously, it would affect my job if I was to say anything about this to her...

I knew he was a rat. I am a good judge of people. It may not be worth me saying anything. It is none of my business. I hardly know the girl who will be hurt. however, now that I know this how do I have a giggle and joke with her... and then listen to her say great things about him.

That would make me feel guilty in a way.

Any ideas?

2007-08-30 16:16:32 · 22 answers · asked by Sebastian 2

2007-08-30 16:15:05 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am an African american male I go to Highschool and i just became a sophmore and im 15 there this one red head asian girl i like alot. i talk to her alot on aim and we have good conversations and sophmore year just started its been the 3rd day already i seen her but im to nervous to say hi and she said hi to me last freshmen year. My friends are friends with her aswell but i also have a fear of rejection and every girl i asked out since 7th had rejected me or were taken or liked sombody else.Some times im told im ugly but i think im avarage looking. I even posted a question on this site saying am i ugly most people said i was avarage looking. like im not hella hella hot but not ugly either. How do i ask this girl out im really scared of her rejecting me i also want to know her better so she wont reject me saying she hardly knows me.

2007-08-30 16:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by man 2