Hey, ive been talking to a guy on the internet for a while and he wants to meet up sometime. Not only is he 28 (im 18), ive always thought that anyone who meets up with someone on the internet is a dumb f*ck, but im still considering agreeing anyway. We get along really well and have a lot in common, but what i want to know is whether his behavior is more consistant with ppl his age, or more like a perverts. Hes often told me he wants to date me, which im open to. The thing that bothers me is that he hints at sex a lot, and the other day when he was completly trashed, he just came right out and asked me if i would have sex with him. so im confused, i havnt dated older guys before and i dont know if the relationships hes used to are more mature and therefore more open about sex, or if the dating rules are the same as im used to and hes just a pervert in disguise. What do you think? thanks
2007-08-30 17:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lizzy S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lizzy, any and every guy you meet from your age on will be horny all the time and constantly thinking about sex. I'm 41 and I've been that way since high school. Now, there are many ways of divulging this information to a woman you like. Everything between coming right out and telling you in exact detail what he wants to being shy and coy and just dropping little hints here and there. In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with any of that. It's just a fact that men are different then women when it comes to sex. It all depends on how you feel and what you want. Welcome to adult-hood! ;)
2007-08-30 17:48:14 · answer #1 · answered by aaron_n_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be a pervert in disguise, but he does seem to have some issues. He's ten years older than you, and at 18 that's still a pretty big difference. I really doubt that you two are going to find all that much in common after a while. Basically it sounds like he's playing a part to get sex. After all, he hints a lot, and when drunk asks for it. So you already know what he is really looking for.
If you just want to be his trophy plaything, it's up to you.
2007-08-31 00:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go out with him he just wants one thing. SEX. It is so hard to find good people on the internet. I would meet people out or through friends.
2007-08-31 00:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tanner L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he may just want you for sex, but we dont know forsure, but befreo you go meet up with him, dont go alone, make sure someone is with you the first time, just to be safe, you never know what could happen,
2007-08-31 00:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by jahnaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet or chat with him anymore. You will just end up getting hurt. Date someone your age.
2007-08-31 00:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you meet a guy from the internet ? are you that bad off
2007-08-31 00:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by jody t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh... I don't think you should date him. Doesn't sound like good news to me.
2007-08-31 00:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by steve paisley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋