Singles & Dating - 30 August 2007

There's a girl at work that I like, but she's older (I'm 25, she's 37) and has a boyfriend. I've heard rumors around the office that she's having problems with her relationship plus I catch her looking at me sometimes, then she turns away real fast when I look up, like in high school or something. It's hard for us to talk because we both seem nervous around each other. She's not talkative, but seemed to go out of her way lately to talk to me and seemed a bit frustrated when I didn't pay a lot of attention to her. I thought she was trying to find out if I was single, but when I told her I was she brought up her boyfriend again, but at the same time she seemed happy to know I was single. I'm considering offering to buy her a drink one day after work as pay back for giving me advice on finding a new apartment, but I don't want to be too forward just in case. Is she in to me? What should I do? I'm pretty much falling in love with this girl.

2007-08-30 16:05:43 · 12 answers · asked by John 2

i drive his mercedes and spend a lot of his money but he say's he does not want a relationship yet. i love him and want to marry him. he wont say to me i love you he's with his boys on the weekend to relax he says. this man has been in my life for over 19 years we started being lovers three years ago. is he just shy or undecided. he is devorced with one son in college. how do i get closer to him without running him away i live alone and i lost my job after my husband died and have been doing my own business with his help i am able to keep my apartment. we live in different areas of the city i want to be with him more and talk to him more but he's all about business. i am all about loving him but he wont stay around me long enought to talk after we wake up he is out of here. what to do. somebody know any magic

2007-08-30 15:57:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

after shacking up for over six months, with sex several times a week, she gave me permission to enter her ANYTIME, that she is asleep or seems to be asleep, as long as her "portal" is in a position that would not disturb her excessively.

Several weeks ago, though, I woke up with her straddling me and yanking on me, so bad, I thought I was being attacked by a horde of nymphomaniac aliens.

Now we're having a huge fight over "turn about is fair play"! She claims I'm a hypocrite, but she simply doesn't understand that unlike women, who don't have to be sexually stimulated for intercourse, I, as a middle-aged guy, need lots of time and foreplay ( and sometimes Viagra) to get my motor running.

How can I explain to her that the situation isn't symmetrical, without her coming unglued?

2007-08-30 15:39:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

doing it while on camera.
Sounds hot, but does anybody have any advice of what I should do, because I'd feel awkward, and I just want to know some "hot" things that would really work, or whatever....
Thank you! :)

2007-08-30 15:33:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

she keeps telling me "she just shaved, and asks does this feel smooth?" while she has my hand goin up her thigh.
Last night while we were wacthin a movie w/ my parents. she tell me to put my arms around her so i do. then she takes my hand and starts putting it down her panties. I stop her and tell her to calm down. so after the movie i walk her home and ask her why she did that. she says cause she was bored........... After i kissed her good night she tells me she "want to put rubber sheets her the bed. and take out the baby oil and for me to slick her up real good from top to bottom and front to back. and have me try and hang on to her and if i can.
what ever position that i get a grip on her."..................
................. I JUST DONT GET HER.

2007-08-30 15:32:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have yet to achieve an orgasm. I am 24 and have been sexually active since about 16. I am in a relationship now, but it is hard to even begin to think about an orgasm because my boyfriend has become increasingly selfish and has given up on the idea that I am even able to ***.

Are there any exercises that I can practice with my partner that can help me to orgasm?
How can I get my boyfriend to be more interested in pleasing me, and be less LAZY in bed? Lately his attitude is, well she can't *** so why try?
He doesn't even try guys! What can I do??? I love him, but I am feeling unsatisfied sexually. Please help me by telling me how to become more fulfilled sexually with my man.

2007-08-30 15:32:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE give me your opinions on the following situation:
My parents got way mad...

My boyfriend left on friday for college. We texted everyday and are in love and missed each other a lot. Tuesday, the second day of classes I decided to drive an hour to his college with a friend who went there too and visit. We spent the afternoon together and then I came back home to a very angry father. My brother knew about it and my mom knew but my dad said I needed to take permission first. Also, he says its not very respectful for a girl to get up and go run to a boy like that.
So what does the world think?

2007-08-30 15:16:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 15:15:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am kinda skinny but I am healthy. I am wondering if there are any guys on here that like a girl with a smaller chest. Or is that a turn off? Don't give me the answer that only personality matters, not looks!
Thanks!
10 points to best answer!

2007-08-30 15:14:21 · 22 answers · asked by Cowgirl26 4

Here's the situation. My ex and I have been broken up for a year and a half. In that time we havent seen or spoke to each other. In that time she meet someone else. They have been together for a year and some months. But in the last three months we have been seeing and talking to each other. In that time we have been intimate with each other a couple of times. She has came to see me and it usually ends up us sleeping together. When I ask about us getting back togehter. She says she has a boyfriend. So three weeks ago I got upset and told I cant do this anymore and told her dont call or come see me anymore. But recently I started missing her and I called her. I told to come see me she remind me what I said and she told me she'll think about it. I've dated other girls but she makes me happy. At times I was a jerk for a boyfriend but I changed. Question I'm asking ladies what should I do? I love her

2007-08-30 15:05:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 15:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by aggie 1

or what would you do if your long time boyfriend started dealing drugs?

2007-08-30 14:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3

"I told you... I am so swamped this week. I've been working non-stop.
Like I said, you are always going back and fourth about whether we should see each other, or shouldn't, you want to, you don't, it's crazy.
I don't know what to think. I do think it's because you are young and still figuring things out...which is normal. But I have a real hard time dealing with that kind of behavior. I out grew it a long time ago. I'm old.... have had long relationships... and even been married once.
It's got me so concerned. I think we are a big mismatch. You need someone who is young like yourself and figuring things out, passionate just like you.
You are beautiful and sexy but just not in the same place I am right now. "

Please help me say the right thing. I really really like this guy and I am willing to change and be more mature about everything. I dont know how to respond. I really want to try and make things work if he is willing. Can anyone help? I really appreciateit

2007-08-30 14:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by confusedz1 1

To be in love with a man, and have feelings for another? It doesn't seem like the heart should work like that. Think it's just lust?

2007-08-30 14:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by starlichik100 1

hey dated this guy for about 5DAYS and then he wanted to be more than friends? i was like slow down i need to get to know you more give it at least 1 month. im 23 hes ???21 years old in college.

This guys seems to be acting funny now, i mean hes grumpier and seems confrontational and seems to have an attitude im thinking to myself what is his problem! anyway he still tries to call me and the last few times i talked to him he started an argument with me in which i hung the phone up in his face

anyway why is hes still trying to call me and things like that being rude? i mean whats going on in his head

2007-08-30 14:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by gaurdianangelic 3

I saw my bf for 3 hrs on tuesday night, then 2 hours thursday night (but that was out at a pub with his family so we didn't have any alone time). I'm meant to see him on Sunday but his relatives are visiting so his mum won't let him leave the house.

I hardly ever see him. He works full time, has to study for work as he is just new to the police acadaemy, he plays mixed netball twice a week and he has tennis on saturdays.

He msgs about 2 times a day and we talk briefly on msn every night. I've talked to him about my issue about never seeing him and he says he loves me and will make an effort. He has been trying but it's so hard for him because of all these things going on.
I love him and don't want to let him go. Is this a healthy relationship or do you need to see each other more for it to work?

2007-08-30 14:46:08 · 27 answers · asked by jeska102 1

i like him he likes me we want to b together he is my karate teachers son so idk wat to do cuz if we break up class will prolly b akward help me wat should i do

2007-08-30 14:20:54 · 15 answers · asked by Country Girl 2

So my best friend finally did steal my girlfriend and at a perfect place a party to which i wasnt invited to typical. Any ideas how to get her back?

2007-08-30 14:13:22 · 18 answers · asked by Billy 1

Dating this gurl for mnths and its serious quick! Played games like talking about kids and moving in. We have fun all the time and sleep together almost every day and love it!! But my gurl gets off on flirts by guys. Always checking out other guys when we're together. I've dumped girls for less. She looks great too. Yay or Nay?

Oh, but I look good and meet girls all the time. So toss her back?

2007-08-30 13:57:16 · 33 answers · asked by BEN C 1

1. I was looking at this guy, and our eyes met, does this mean anything?
2. How do you act around people you like?

2007-08-30 13:55:24 · 31 answers · asked by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3

like when making out

2007-08-30 13:53:16 · 13 answers · asked by chillininCA 1

I found out that my "boyfriend" was trying to e-mail an escort on his boys weekend in Vegas...add to that the fact that he was e-mailing women on Myspace last year but took it down when he realized I knew about it (he never said anything). He now has another account but hasn't put up a picture nor has he e-mailed anyone. I think he's keeping tabs on one particular person he seemed enamored with before and I am more than fed up with his behavior. I love him completely but truly love myself more. How do I get out of this destructive relationship before it's too late. Emotionally I'm done but, for the very first time in my life, I lack the courage to just walk away.

2007-08-30 13:50:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sam's Golden Lovin Mom 1

i met this girl recently in my calc chem and phys classes and we got to know each other pretty well over the last few days. we have tons in common and many diferences that we both like and respect about one another. we talk endlessly about anything and everything which is fun and have acctually talked for hours on end which is also very fun. i offered her a ride home today and she agreed after my insisting it wasnt a trouble. when we got there she told me she wanted to show me her house and introduce me to her folks who seemed to have heard a bit about me and we ended up again talking for a good while before i had to leave o and can someone tell me why when we say bye its a little awkward..............anyhow like the question says.....

2007-08-30 13:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by nascarfan 2

I just started going out with this guy to make my recent ex bf jealous because i see him hanging around the school with ex best friend all the time. i'm not sure if their going out or not but it really pisses me off seeing them together, i guess i still have hope of us getting back together after all we were together for almost 3 years. anyways i decided to stop looking like a hurt fool in love everytime he ignored me and everytime i seen him with my ex best friend.

so i went out a date with this cute guy from my math class. we went to the movies, i profusely made sure went to the movie theater my ex bf works at. the guy was really nice throughout the date then as we were leaving the movie theater we ran into my ex bf(he looked really cute in his uniform). So i quickly pulled the guy i was with close and made out with him. (he was a really bad kisser) then when i pulled away from him i watch happily as my ex bf walked off mad. th

then when i got in the car with the guy i was with he almost attacked me for a kiss and maybe something else… So I slapped him in his face and scream NO!!! oddly he just smiled then started driving (which scared me) so I text friend telling her I was going to call her and for her to stay on the phone with me because I didn’t feel safe. So I called her and stayed on the phone with her until he drove me home, and he left. That night he text he about 10 (I’m sorry) and the 11th text was one of him telling me about how he wanted to tie me up and do things to me. which was a kind of scary seeing as it was only one day.
Then today I was talking with a group of friends in launch then he just came up from behind me and gave me a hug from behind. Like we were bf and gf all of sudden. I was about to tell him off but my ex bf was sitting a two tables up with my ex best friend. So I played it off for the for the day

Now here’s the question should I continue on with this guys since he is effectively making my bf jealous even though he’s creeping me out?

2007-08-30 13:38:11 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

If your just going to answer without reading the quesiton and answer "say hi how are you" then don't answer.

I'm in 10th grade and I just moved to a new school district. School doesn't start until the 6th of September, but since I do X-Country I have to go to practice which started on the 13th of August. Anyway our X-Country practices in the track most of the time. On the other side of the track the cheerleaders practice there. Well when we usaully run around on the track we pass by them everytime. There is this one girl that I think I have a crush on, but I don't know how to start anything. No one on the X-Country team knows who she is except for that shes in 9th grade. I want to try and get something started before school starts, because once it does I won't have a chance (9th grade is a seperate building for 10-12).

I want to go up to her and just start talking, but that kind of seems weird but I don't know any other way.

2007-08-30 13:21:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 13:19:29 · 31 answers · asked by Gabs2Much 2

So I just got a boyfriend now...with one of my friends. And now he's showing me a bit of his immature side that i've never seen before. Like...smelling farts or whatever it is sort of thing. He's a really sweet guy though, romantic...telling me i'm his one and only angel and such. So wanderful. And...I thought I would mind the immaturity but I don't...but at the same time I do. Are all guys naturally immature? how do you deal with it?

2007-08-30 13:18:51 · 7 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1

Girls, which whould you pick?. the nice guy or the hot guy

2007-08-30 13:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

around what age do you think teens should start dating? middle school,high school, etc?

2007-08-30 13:05:43 · 4 answers · asked by =) 2

She doesn't now it yet...but I'm gonna win her heart...her current boyfriends are dust...back off, Tyler, Joey, and Kate...

So here's my question...(asking with the same sentiment the teens always use...)

Do you think she likes me? (sniffles)

2007-08-30 12:50:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous