she keeps telling me "she just shaved, and asks does this feel smooth?" while she has my hand goin up her thigh.
Last night while we were wacthin a movie w/ my parents. she tell me to put my arms around her so i do. then she takes my hand and starts putting it down her panties. I stop her and tell her to calm down. so after the movie i walk her home and ask her why she did that. she says cause she was bored........... After i kissed her good night she tells me she "want to put rubber sheets her the bed. and take out the baby oil and for me to slick her up real good from top to bottom and front to back. and have me try and hang on to her and if i can.
what ever position that i get a grip on her."..................
................. I JUST DONT GET HER.
2007-08-30 15:32:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like someone is having an over abundance of hormones ...
She may also believe that this is what guys want... Girls are conditioned to believe that you have to be this "whore" in the bedroom and "angel/lady" in the kitchen (old saying) and some girls may take it hard to heart that this is what a guy wants...
Maybe she believes that unless she does these things she will lose you, and is feeling insecure...
or Maybe she just wants it that way....
It depends on her ... It sounds like you guys have an imbalance on what is appropriate at what time... and a difference in opinion on what you want in bed...
My advice is, if these things are NOT what you want, then sit down and say... Honey, look.. I want you, I am crazy about you and I want to be creative with you.. but I'm not comfortable with "certain acts" in front of my parents... and try and find a way to find out if this is what she wants or if it is one of the other reasons... If you lean towards the more loving and romantic.. then take control and do so... but DO NOT make her feel demeaned or ashamed of what she has done... you will know the right words, because she is your girlfriend... but causing her pain and to be upset over these things, no matter what the reason is ... is NOT the right thing to do...
Work it out with her, and you will find a balance and figure out what each other wants... :) Don't worry and good luck..
2007-08-30 15:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by CheyMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot like my situation, but yours is way easier, let her know you don't care how long, but you'll wait until she's 16 because you love her so much. That will let her know you really care, and that you're different from all the other pervs.
2016-05-17 12:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she is giving you those types of hints because she wants to sleep with you. The one with her taking your hand and putting it down her pants should've been the one that told you so. If you aren't ready or just dont want to then you need to let her know, tell her that you aren't sexually attracted to her, so she needs to stop. Now if you are and do want to have sex with her, then I say just use protection and go slow. Even though she's moving on strong now, she might get scared when it boils down to it, and you all are about to have sex, so make sure it's done on both of your terms, you and her both want it.
2007-08-30 15:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by cosmetologistbeauty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense... but she sounds kind of like a whore. The "I just shaved" thing is just an attempted turn-on. She's trying to show you she's ALWAYS ready for sex.
If you're uncomfortable with the way she's forcing herself upon you, dump her, please.
You need a nice girl that respects your privacy and her own.
2007-08-30 15:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by whoops! 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ahahah! Nice one man. It's Nice that you seem to Have Morals But when life gives you lemons, make Love!
2007-08-30 15:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by kevin p 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she's been getting FAR too many ideas from porn - I think it's about time you find out if she's all talk ;););)
2007-08-30 15:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In so many words...Your girlfriend's a strait up freak.
2007-08-30 15:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by AnarchyONtheSHORTbus 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
whats so confusing... she even painted a picture buddy
2007-08-30 15:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by your a joke... spell it? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She wants sex. Dur.
2007-08-30 15:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she wants to f*ck, buddy. its not that confusing.
2007-08-30 15:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by kjhbh, 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋