I just started going out with this guy to make my recent ex bf jealous because i see him hanging around the school with ex best friend all the time. i'm not sure if their going out or not but it really pisses me off seeing them together, i guess i still have hope of us getting back together after all we were together for almost 3 years. anyways i decided to stop looking like a hurt fool in love everytime he ignored me and everytime i seen him with my ex best friend.
so i went out a date with this cute guy from my math class. we went to the movies, i profusely made sure went to the movie theater my ex bf works at. the guy was really nice throughout the date then as we were leaving the movie theater we ran into my ex bf(he looked really cute in his uniform). So i quickly pulled the guy i was with close and made out with him. (he was a really bad kisser) then when i pulled away from him i watch happily as my ex bf walked off mad. th
then when i got in the car with the guy i was with he almost attacked me for a kiss and maybe something else… So I slapped him in his face and scream NO!!! oddly he just smiled then started driving (which scared me) so I text friend telling her I was going to call her and for her to stay on the phone with me because I didn’t feel safe. So I called her and stayed on the phone with her until he drove me home, and he left. That night he text he about 10 (I’m sorry) and the 11th text was one of him telling me about how he wanted to tie me up and do things to me. which was a kind of scary seeing as it was only one day.
Then today I was talking with a group of friends in launch then he just came up from behind me and gave me a hug from behind. Like we were bf and gf all of sudden. I was about to tell him off but my ex bf was sitting a two tables up with my ex best friend. So I played it off for the for the day
Now here’s the question should I continue on with this guys since he is effectively making my bf jealous even though he’s creeping me out?
2007-08-30 13:38:11 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is wrong with you? Number 1: you're a jerk for leading this guy on. you're using him like he's not even human. Number 2: He's a weirdo. Get rid of him and stop leading him on.
2007-08-30 13:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by letukno 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This dude is a psycho, leave him now before things get worse. If need be ask ur ex-bf for help if he still stalks u.Plus maybe it's better to move on. Just become friends with ur ex instead of trying to make him jealous all the time.U guy's must have broken up for a reason and who knows maybe if u stay friends for a while u might end up back together. But yeah as for psycho boy......RUN AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-30 13:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by kbmisfit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either this guy is a whack job, or he knew what you were up to from the get-go and decided to mess with your head a bit. And...that said...it was pretty immature of you to risk hurting a guy's feelings just to hurt your ex. What if you would have found out he was a really great guy and he'd really liked you? I know I wouldn't want to be the object of another person's heartlessness.
2007-08-30 14:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Unpretty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends if you like him or not, I mean, if you dont like him and are just using him, he might really like you.
Then ther is the possibility that your ex- is using your ex- bestfriend and really trying to make you jealous.
The thing about him wanting to tie you up and do things to you, you should probably keep around like, a friend or something when your with him. Or if things get worse CALL THE POLICE!
2007-08-30 13:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by *Natalie.* :P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw what you need to do is grow up first because what if this guy had just took you out of town and did something to you what then. You need not to worry what your ex does and move on. NExt time you might not be so lucky.
2007-08-30 14:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would probably only play it up for a couple more days or just tell the guy that i wasn't really interested i was just trying to get over my ex u shouldn't stay with someone you don't want to be with or creeping you out unless you really really have to
2007-08-30 13:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
double danger
and next guy make sure he believes in Jesus and is for real, and stay away from your x boyfriend unless you think he is worth marrying and has changed so you wouldnt break up again.
and if he is flirting with you and has a girl friend, then he has issues. His girl friend is probably broken hearted and doesnt mind being abused. when a girl knows she has been used-there are a couple of reasons they stay in that type of relationship, for the moments that they can convince themselves that they cant do any better, for the crumbs they are given thinking he does love me, for the chance to think they can help the other to change, and people that are enablers learned it from their past boy 'friend/s' or and their family.
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wow! awesome answer!
It is painful to see someone allowing themselves to be hurt, and feeling they dont deserve any better.
praying for you and best wishes too, The sweet pea
2007-08-30 14:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely get rid of that guy.. To tell you the truth, this sounds like the perfect beginning for a horror novel >;p
2007-08-30 13:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by Line 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try finding another cute guy in ur math class? Or some other class, but ur ex bf is a bch.
2007-08-30 13:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Produh G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you'll get what you deserve, hopefully you get out of this alright.......but you shouldn't do those things to your ex just to make him jealous, it's simply stupid
2007-08-30 13:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by fireskull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋