How do You start a conversation with this girl????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

Question

If your just going to answer without reading the quesiton and answer "say hi how are you" then don't answer.

I'm in 10th grade and I just moved to a new school district. School doesn't start until the 6th of September, but since I do X-Country I have to go to practice which started on the 13th of August. Anyway our X-Country practices in the track most of the time. On the other side of the track the cheerleaders practice there. Well when we usaully run around on the track we pass by them everytime. There is this one girl that I think I have a crush on, but I don't know how to start anything. No one on the X-Country team knows who she is except for that shes in 9th grade. I want to try and get something started before school starts, because once it does I won't have a chance (9th grade is a seperate building for 10-12).

I want to go up to her and just start talking, but that kind of seems weird but I don't know any other way.

I personally think shes out of my league, but not by that far. I'm just afraid cause she might not like me, then if like some 10th graders that cheerlead find out they avoided me when school starts.

If you were in the girls situation would you be creeped out if I just smiled and said "hi" or something??

Answer 1

No, I wouldn't be creeped out if you said hi or something, why should I?

Are you repulsively ugly or something?!?

I seriously doubt it so just go over when she's not busy doing her cheerleading routine and introduce yourself like a gentleman.

What are you waiting for buddy?

Go get your woman tiger!!!



Good luck to you!








P.S. Do you even know her name?!? Do you even know if she's single?!?

Answer 2

I know this predicament. I know how you feel about just walking up to her and talking; at that age it is a bit of a weird thing to do. Anyone who says “just go up to her and say hallo” will not be a 9th grader or would not have been for a long time! When you get older girls become more approachable and less self-conscious.

The truth is if you walk up to her in front of everyone, she may get a bit freaked out because of what other people will think, even if she personally doesn’t mind it.

Your best bet is to try and say hi and start up a conversation with her when she is alone, or at least far enough from her friend, so that on one else can hear what your saying. She will be more relaxed if she does not have to worry about her friends hearing what she is saying to you.

Keep looking for an opportunity there will always be one if you look hard enough. Try and see if you can talk to her after practice or before it starts. After practice she may need to wait for her folks to pick her up, if you pretend that your waiting for a lift too, you may be able to strike up a conversation by taking about something casual like how crap/good the weather is. ( it’s corny and lame I know; but its still better than walking up to her in front of her friends and asking her out. cause that would freak her out big time !)

Good luck mate, it gets a lot easier as you get older!

Answer 3

I am a girl, and I am never creeped out by someone smiling genuinely and saying hi! Discuss things of interest to both of you- compliment her on her hair- or her new sweater-keep conversation simple, and end it with a request for lunch-
Don't be afraid of rejection after all what have you got to lose?
The only way to get her attention is to ask for it.
Do not mention- ex girlfriends
Keep it short, and polite..
If she isn't interested move on..lots of great ladies out there, and you are still young..
Most of all-
Have fun

Answer 4

If you want to read something really long but has a LOT of good advice in it, then read this:


OMG! u don't no her, she's not even in the same school building as you, and you just think shes cute and thats all!! As you're running and she looks at you, then smile or something but don't stare at her while ur running or u might fall or do something embarrassing! You can talk to her but this doesn't sound like you two are a good couple! Threre are soooo many cute guys that i might see every once and a while and i might think i want to go out with him for a couple days but then I'll think about it for a while and i know that it won't work out! I'll just think he's really hot forever but thats it. Its perfectly normal to think some ones cute all the time but before you think about getting in a close relationship, make sure you know her real good first! Like, you can be friends and all, but in my opinion, you shouldnt go out with her! But you're not me! Just do what you think is best!!!!! Hope it helps!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

How do you make a new friend? it all starts with an introduction like the advice you are rejecting.

if you dont want our advice you should at least watch the movie Hitch instead.
Yeah its a movie

but it will get you somewhere and at the same time it will make you think and be creative to talk to this girl.

"Hi, how are you" will be your last resort (if you are not creative but it is a start to something), i am not kidding you.

and you are in tenth grade, and guess what we all have been there and know the results of NOT MAKING THE FIRST MOVE.

thats the truth
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check out one of my questions that i have answer previously on my profile which was chosen best answer it will also help you to get her attention.

best wishes man
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AND STOP BEING CLOSED MINDED AND GIVING NEGATIVE POINTS TO EVERYBODY THAT IS SAYING THE SAME THING!

its the only option you have whether you like it or not

Answer 6

If no one knows who she is, she's probably not out of your league (she's not the most popular girl in school, for instance).
Do your practices end at the same time? Try to be there when she is leaving, or get there early. Sorry though, I can't think of a good start but hi.

Answer 7

tell her,she is really pretty. don't say it goofy just make it seem like your just casually passing and you noticed it. that will get her attention she will say something... anything. then ask her her name ( if you don't know it already ) a conversation will start from there. if you know of a party or if you have plans with some people invite her to it. if she declines, give her your number and tell her just in case she changes her mine. if she never calls you, say hey i guess you couldn't yesterday or what ever, if she disses you after all this she just wasn't interested . but at least you mad an attempt

Answer 8

no if i were her i wouldn't be creeped out i someone said hi 2 me, say hi 2 her a few times and once practice is over go over and talk 2 her. say "hey" then ask her what grade shes in or tell her that she looks like a really good cheerleader, then it will lead to a conversation. but yeah just say hi 2 her everyday

Answer 9

awwww. I'm in grade 9, and a cheerleader!! Lol, funny coincidence! Anyways, for me to even look at a guy. he has to be smiling, so once and a while glance over in her direction and smile at her... if she smile back, then she might consider liking you! Sorry, but if she doesn't then you're outta luck! Next, if she smiles., go up and compliment her like


"wow. you're a really good dancer"
or something. but to make it less awkward, after you say hi and compliment, then leave. don't hang around, if she's interested, chances are she'll say hi to you later on!

Answer 10

run by her when she's kind of separated from the group and just say somthing like

you - "man it sucks working out in this heat, doesn't it?"

her - "yea it really does"

you - "So that stuff you do out there looks hard... it doesn't really seem possible... How long did it take you to learn how to do all that?" (it doesn't matter if it looks like it's easy as hell, girls will take compliments where ever they can get'm)

her - "yea i just started this year. it's pretty tough" or "yea i've been doing it for awile, it's not as hard as it looks"

you - "so whats your name?" (doens't matter if you already know her name)

her - "nancy" (or whatever)

you - "iight nancy well i guess i'll seeya around! keep up the good work!" (as you walk away, or jog... i mean you are x-country after all)

her - "ok, seeya"



then after that make sure you always say hi when you see her, or when ever you cross paths with her. and stike a conversation when ever it's appropriate. I say "when ever it's appropriate because you dont want to over do it and crowd her"

If she ends up being interested in you, you want to create the illusion that your not THAT interested her. Basicaly you want to always keep her thinking that she's more interested in you then you are in her... it's human nature to want what you cant get, so it works"



GOOD LUCK!!!