1. I was looking at this guy, and our eyes met, does this mean anything?
2. How do you act around people you like?
2007-08-30 13:55:24 · 31 answers · asked by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, thanks guys, but plz answer the 2nd question too. :O) ;) Hannah, if i was a guy and was caught looking at u and u smiled and nodded..i'd DEFINITELY think you liked me. =)lolz. Just wanted to say.
2007-08-30 15:06:02 · update #1
rofl i forgot to mention..he smiled at me when our eyes met! PLZ READ THE ADDITIONAL DETAILS TOO PPL! Thanks in advance.
2007-08-31 10:55:41 · update #2
your welcome for answering your question Lizzy. :) Thanks for returning the favor. =)
2007-09-03 12:05:14 · update #3
Kayleigh- that's also another problem of mine...I'm too shy to talk to him cause he's my biggest crush at this point..hehe...not good i kno. :O)
2007-09-03 12:22:59 · update #4
little house- your funny..rofl..how am I supposed to ask him out if I've only known him for 2 weeks and barely talk to him..cuz im too shy?
2007-09-03 12:24:09 · update #5
GOODNESS GRACIOUS!! I have a lot of good answers..lol..this is gona be a toughie guys! :)
2007-09-03 12:24:43 · update #6
1. It might mean something since he also smiled at you...but to make sure he's interested, you should go over to him and ask him a normal question depending on the circumstances of you meeting: like if you're at a carnival or something ask him what his favorite booth is, or if its a school thing, ask him if he's new because you've never seen him around before.... something light hearted and not too suggestive. Depending on his answer, and the way his body reacts to you, you should know if he likes you or not. If he responds enthusiastically, asking you questions as well, or saying things which allow for more conversation, chances are he likes you. If he responds with one liners that sort of close off any areas for continuing the conversation, then just forget about him, smile politely so that you don't come off as rude, and say "Okay, well, see you around." and walk away. This way, whether he likes you or not, you'll come off as open, polite, and dignified, which are very admirable traits.And as an example of how you can tell if he's not interested, here you go:
Girl: Hey, I haven't seen you around here before, whats your name?
Boy: David.
Girl: Oh, hi David. I'm Alyssa. Nice to meet you, how do you like school so far?
Boy: It's good.
(NOW see, since he's answering everything in one liners and a way that doesn't give you any openings to say more, this is your cue to end the conversation)
Girl: Okay, well, see you around *Smile politely, walk away*
Also, some examples of body language that mean he's interested are: if he smiles a lot, leans towards you, laughs at something funny you say, and makes direct eye contact.
Examples of disinterest: Folded arms, standing straight, not making eye contact, looking bored.
2. When you are around someone you like, you shouldn't come off as too pushy, but at the same time, you should make sure you're letting them know that you're interested. Be open, ask them questions, and if they're responding enthusiastically, smiling, and making eye contact, after a while you can start touching them as well. Like, put your hand on their arm, hit them playfully, these simple motions will let him know you're flirting with him...and it will also make him accustomed to you touching him...so if you end up going out, a kiss will be easier to get....Try to be really friendly with the person you like, and be laidback. Don't try too hard, just be yourself, smile a lot, and be interactive. If the topic of the conversation is something you're not into, try to direct the conversation into something you know a lot about or are interested in...if you come off as bored and quiet, he won't get the hint that you like him....
I hope this helped....
2007-09-03 11:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by nikhita k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have looked at people in the eyes, smiled and it only meant that we had noticed each other and acknowledged each others presence. Sometimes a look is just a look.....but if they look lingered, if he kept eye contact, then maybe there was some interest there. Dont overanalyze.
How do I act around people I like? I'm assuming you mean someone I'm crushin on, right? I'm nervous and giggly, and my face gets red. But, I try to keep it together so I don't look like a total idiot.
2007-09-03 18:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by usmcmama826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for answering my question, ill try to help you on yours. First off if your eyes met thats a good thing but it could be something random(but not likely) If he smiled though that is a defente good thing. Most likely interested. So im figureing you are trying to know where to go from here because your next question is how do you you act around him. You got to show him your avalible and like him. Keep looking at him and smileing. Maybe even start a convo if you are daring. I have seen girls do this perfectly to me and it is extremely clear when they do it. THey smile at you and keep eye contact for a while then look away, and continue to do this. Very hot!
2007-09-02 18:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Well, just because your eyes met, does not mean it means anything. Lots of peoples eyes meet and they smile because it is just another way for people to say hello. Don't get me wrong somepeople do get a connection when their eyes meet.
2. I usually act a little shy when I am around girls I like, at least until they bring up something that I can relate to, then you can't get me to shut up.
2007-09-01 21:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a guy's perspective, there is a chance that means that he is interested. Sometimes guys just smile because they just smile at any girl that looks at them. but personally, if i look at a girl and she looks at me and i am interested, i smile and keep eye contact as much as possible.
If he was interested and was not shy, he would probably try to get another signal from you before he approached you. if he is shy, but interested...you would probably have to make the first move or give him a better chance to make a move and say something to you.
EDIT - there is no such thing as destiny, dont wait for something amazing to happen to you, make it happen. If you like a guy, make a move. guys love when girls make the first move because nearly all guys get really anxious when making a move on a girl. So just a piece of advice to girls, make the first move if you can tell he isnt going to. it doesnt always mean that he isnt interested, most guys do not want to make a fool out of themselves and approach a girl who isnt interested. Guys are just as nervous as girls are when it comes to this kind of thing. So if you are interested, dont leave it to the guy.
There isnt just one person out there for you, there isnt just one person that you can fall in love with. There are probably many, it differs with each person, but my best advice is DONT WAIT FOR THE GUY, make a move yourself. relationships dont come easy for anyone and until you understand that, it may not happen to you for awhile and then the first guy to make a move on you will probably be an asshole and hurt you and make you think bad of all guys. dont let that happen:) go after the guys you want, or at least give him a better chance to talk to you.
2007-09-02 21:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Eric W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically I would say just because your eyes meet, doesnt mean the guy likes you, it just means he is observant. But it depends what eye gestures he might have done... -"Eye raped me" comes to mind. I personally go to the mall and places and people watch, and occassionally our eyes meet, with strangers, and i just smile, and nod and they keep walking.
Anyway, acting around people you like, it depends if they like you back. With good friends I would say that you just go to parties and movies together-(with other friends too) until ur dating. Just sit next to him, and talk, let him know you care about what he says. Give him some space though! dont come on too strong.
2007-09-01 21:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact can definately mean something. I remember vividly the night me and my boyfriend met him staring into my eyes. Did you get talking to him?! Around people I like I try to be funny, or at least cool and I usually end up doing something silly like falling over or making an idiot of myself as usual! Haha. Good luck hun x
2007-09-03 19:16:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kayleigh B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your eyes met just once, I wouldn't think much of it, but if it keeps happening, then you can get a little suspicious. ;)
As for how I act, I get a LOT more shy, and tend to say very little,
2007-09-03 19:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if he liked you or not you are coming on way to strong. Guys like a challenge maybe he liked you maybe he did not you should play it cool until he makes the first move.
2007-09-02 19:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by knndy_reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is interested. Act normal, it is hard, my heart pounds every time I see him. But I still act like me. Be who you are, that way there are no problems later. Good Luck
2007-09-03 18:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by dragonlady76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋