I found out that my "boyfriend" was trying to e-mail an escort on his boys weekend in Vegas...add to that the fact that he was e-mailing women on Myspace last year but took it down when he realized I knew about it (he never said anything). He now has another account but hasn't put up a picture nor has he e-mailed anyone. I think he's keeping tabs on one particular person he seemed enamored with before and I am more than fed up with his behavior. I love him completely but truly love myself more. How do I get out of this destructive relationship before it's too late. Emotionally I'm done but, for the very first time in my life, I lack the courage to just walk away.
2007-08-30 13:50:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sam's Golden Lovin Mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion is for you to read these books. You can check them out at your local library as well. If they don't have them; they can probably get them.
http://www.katemcveigh.org
** "Single and Loving It"
** "The Blessings of Favor"
** "The Favor Factor"
http://www.therulesbook.com
** "The Rules: Time-tesed Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right"
http://www.gregbehrendt.com
** “He’s Just Not That Into You”
Written by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
** “It’s Called A Breakup Because It’s Broken”
Written by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
2007-08-30 13:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raspberry Tea~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't walk away, you will be stuck in this relationship and not happy. You say you are emotionally done, but if you don't walk away, then I think you are lying to yourself. A person doesn't have to have sex, to cheat. You know you deserve better than that, so get the courage and don't look back.
2007-08-30 14:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its high time 4u to have the courage to tell him straight into his face... u've already found out what his motive are... the mere fact that he's hinding something from u is already proof that he's not true and faithful 2u... if u wanna break up wid him... then its about time b4 its 2late...
2007-08-30 13:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by zykoe1208 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO MUSTER UP ENOUGH COURAGE TO WALK AWAY BECAUSE YOUR SELF ESTEEM AND WELL BEING ARE AT STAKE AND NO MAN IS WORTH IT. THERE ARE ALOT OF NICE GUYS OUT THERE WHO WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A NICE GIRL LIKE YOU. GOOD LUCK!
2007-08-30 13:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋