I must say, I am an attractive and smart man. But there is something that I miss and that is excitement. For example, when I am with her, I can appeal her satisfaction with sweet words and ligitimate actions. But there is something that often comes around which makes me boring. I sometimes become silent(which feels awkward) just because I have nothing exciting or funny to say... I feel lame in such conditions. I want this to go right. How can I become solve this issue?
2007-08-30 17:36:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you are with the right person silence isnt awkward its ok. ppl dont talk all the time. sometimes you will share quite times and that is ok you dont have to be "up" all of the time. just be yourself.
2007-08-30 17:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mary D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club, such as a card club, a social club, a sports team, a book club. Just find something that you both have in common that you will be able to discuss. Ask her about her favorite color, flower, dream vacation , sports, types of foods, restaurants, games, music, most embarassing moments, etc... Talk about current events. Plan something in the future together so that you can arrange plans. It is always fun to talk about future plans. Just use your imagination.
2007-08-31 00:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something fun together. I will be hard to be boring if you are doing something. Also, sometimes it can be a sign that the relationship is not working if you feel boring or are bored. It can reflect a lack of chemistry. I think anyone can think back on their best date and their worst. And, remember the energy that's there when you're a good couple.
2007-08-31 00:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become active in fun and exciting activities and then you will always have something to talk about, not to mention you'll be doing something that you might actually enjoy. Try things you wouldn't normally do, go roller blading or eat ice cream for breakfast, be spontaneous once in awhile, it's not all that bad. :)
2007-08-31 00:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miz Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill tell you what NOT to do,
1. dont blame the silence on her, or say that shes boring ect...
2. dont try to be funny, it never works..
.. maby you guys aren't really hitting it off.. maby there isnt any chemistry.. give it time, and if she likes you she'll stick around and she'll try to bring out the excitement in you.. sometimes sarcasm is an easy way to flirt and be funny, try that, but nothing too harsh or overly mean.
2007-08-31 00:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read jokes for the John
2007-08-31 00:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by frank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let loose. undo the top button on your shirt.
2007-08-31 00:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn some jokes
2007-08-31 00:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous and random.
2007-08-31 00:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by bubble wrapping 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋