Smell her crotch the next time you see her, I'll bet he put his stink on her because he's hitting that. You got played, sorry. Ditch the ***** and go fishing for a new one.
2007-08-30 07:18:37
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answered by Anonymous
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You are in a very volatile situation here. This may be why Christians try to push the "wait until you're married" morality. Most people become attached to their first sexual partner. I think woman do more than men, but that's another discussion. Some sort of bond is formed by taking someones virginity that no one else can penetrate.
It sounds like she longs for the sexual relationship with this guy, but loyalty (or guilt) seems to keep her from doing this (just yet).
It's good that you've talked to her about it and she was honest. Now here's the tricky part, can you trust her? It's likely that she hasn't done anything yet, but she has thought about it.
I would suggest that you don't limit her from talking to him. This will just make her talk to him without telling you. I would express interest in their conversations. If you keep a dialog open, then it's harder for her to conceal any details.
Also, you may want to meet the ex and size him up. You should decide if he's serious or just reminiscing over what used to be. Be bold enough to tell him that he's no longer in the picture for her.
You should try not to become paranoid just yet.
2007-08-30 14:27:45
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answered by bx01z 4
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First, at least she has been completely honest with you, thats a bonus....:)
I think you are in for trouble in the long haul, she obviously still has feelings for the other guy, and eventually, even if she never cheats on you, she won't be able to commit to you fully until he is completely out fo the picture.
In other words, she may be faithful physically, but she has some problems being faithlful emotionally.
2007-08-30 14:20:04
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answered by Michael H 7
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well its really hard to say,,, there is a good possibility there is nothing going on since she has told u so much detail,,,,
but B U T,
if nothing is happening something will,, sooner or later,,,,,
a woman will always have sex with her ex-no matter what,,,
i have done it with all of my ex gf,,, n we still paly around one of them is engaged....
so draw what u want from that,,,,,,
well its good that u r noticing the signs- like her beng distant,,,,
another confirmation is if u c her gettin pissed or startin arguments over silly things or things that normally wouldn't bother her then u know she has slipped,,,,,,,,,,
n e way good luck man,,
2007-08-30 15:27:29
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answered by Anonymous
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There are certain things in a relationship that someone shouldn't tell you. And to me that crosses the line. If she wants to sleep with other people then let her and let her go. To me it just sounds like you're standing in her way. Say sorry and move
2007-08-30 14:24:51
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answered by Allen O 2
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What you need to make of the situation is that she is not respecting you. To hang around with an ex, who she is admittedly sexually attracted to, is just cruel to you. I think it's every bit within your right to make her chose. You, or her ex. If you stay with her, I PROMISE she will cheat on you, if she hasn't already.
2007-08-30 14:20:14
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answered by Eraserhead 6
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DTB. If she admits she wants to get down with her x, you know she's not done with him. Bail out before she cheats on you, bro. You ought to go talk to the guy if you want to keep your woman. Let him know who's king of the castle, and tell him if he keeps it up you're gonna have problems. I personally think you just need to move on though, her admitting that she's wants his (insert clever word here) has sirens going off, chief.
2007-08-30 14:22:58
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answered by The Ball Coach 4
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OMG! ok your first sign is that this girl says she is intrested having sex with her ex!!! Hello... that should tell you enough right there. Also, what song is his ring tone? Is it a love song? You need to be careful with this girl, you dont want to end up getting hurt.
2007-08-30 14:19:31
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answered by Beautiful Blonde 2
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You will have to ask her to make a choice!
Either she stays with you and YOU ONLY
or she leaves and have sex with him ...
You don't need the headache! you can find a better and faithful one! she is probably cheating.
2007-08-30 14:22:01
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answered by EnjoyR3d 4
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that is so inappropriate! she should have no reason for talking to her ex when she is with you! i dont know whats going on with your girlfriend but i wouldnt be suprised if she was hooking up with him from the sounds of it. sorry guy
2007-08-30 14:19:21
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answered by Lynne. 2
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