I recently saw a text message that came in from a girl i have never met on my boyfriend's cell phone. It said "The week is almost over, and kitten wants to play..." Is he cheating on me or planning to? I can't help but think that the text can't mean anything except that. I mean...what else could she be referring to? He has never lied to me. He's not perfect - but neither am I. What should I do?
2007-08-30 06:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by bksg22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ignore your gutt feelings. There shouldn't be a reason why another women should be sending him text like that period and if they do.. you wonder why they feel so comfertable to do so. Before you ask him.. know what your going to do with the answer. Are you going to stick around if he says there's someone else? Are you going to analize it and find excuses for him as to why he did it or why he flirts like that. And what are you going to do he he denies it? Your going to accept it, so it won't ruin what you think you have? Think before you ask... have your ducks in a row or don't ask if you don't want to know.
Life is to short for you to short change yourself in a relationship that u have to babysit with things like this.
2007-08-30 07:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by patitavazquez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why else would any girl even have his number in the first place to be able to text him. If I were you I text back pretending I were him and see what she says. If this does not give you your answer then call her and have a female to female talk. If you ask him for sure he will deny it. Men have a way of denying anything even when caught. You must have had your suspicions even before you found that text or you would not have checked.
2007-08-30 08:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I have a question do you look through his phone all the time( and he knows). If he knows ask him about it if he says no don't pressure him into making it big just wait until something bigger pops up (like a naked pic or a better juicey text with a little more detail). But if he doesn't know wait until you have some hardcore evidence because if you don't you'll look like you're insecure. I honestly dont' know what they could be referring to but the could have secret code talk as friends
2007-08-30 07:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Allen O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you have already got evidence he's dishonest ("So I suppose my bf is dishonest doing the net factor I do have evidence, however he hides his "cookies" temp records that may hint what you're doing on-line.. ") why might you desire to keep torturing your self watching for extra proof? Just kick him to the reduce noone merits to be cheated on. I recognize its simpler stated than performed considering the fact that I'm certain you're keen on him, however love your self extra. No man is ever valued at your tears.
2016-09-05 18:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I was once a filthy cheater..and I've since reformed my ways. Cell phones are terrible for fidelity....they bust more cheaters than std's. He has broken your trust regardless of if he cheated. Learn from your relationship and move on....good luck.
2007-08-30 06:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it can't mean anything else. Not to sound shallow, but unless he has a six-figure salary and is showering you with luxurious gifts, KICK HIM TO THE CURB!! He is not worth your time. Maybe even put a video camera in his bedroom.There is definately someone better!!
2007-08-30 06:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him, without being argumentative or angry, because you don't know for sure... You will know by his response what the truth is...
I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound good... But at the same time, it may have been a mistake... Has he given you any other reason to doubt him???
2007-08-30 06:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by CheyMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text the sender back and tell her that the sandbox is full, thankyou.
2007-08-30 06:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
unless he works at the animal shelter the only kitty he should be playing with is yours - dump the jerk- he's a dog
2007-08-30 06:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him but why are you looking at his text messages? were they for you?
2007-08-30 06:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋