please help me.........
2007-08-30 06:50:33 · 22 answers · asked by attractive boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PUT A GUN TO HER HEAD...AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAA
2007-08-30 06:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. That's the nature of love.
What you CAN do is be her friend. When her current relationship falls apart because she was with a toad (and any guy but you is a toad) tell her that maybe she was looking in the wrong places - like under rocks and fallen rotting logs - for a nice guy - when all she had to do was open her eyes and look at you for the nice guy who loves her very much - you.
Of course, this will take time - more time than you may want to wait - and you shouldn't limit your thoughts to just this one girl. In fact, you might just look elsewhere yourself for someone who can love you back.
Oh and the advantage of finding someone who will love you back is that the ice princess will see that she let a really good man get away while she was being selfish and stupid.
2007-08-30 13:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make this person fall for you and then you realize that she's not what you expect and you want to dump her. So you come here back and ask for help about that. Seems like you can't do anything. Wait until you're mature enough to understand that you can't make anyone love you. Then you yourself will know how.
2007-08-30 14:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by My Final Answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" her love You. You can be her friend, be caring and friendly and supportive. Friendships can turn into love. I believe that you have to start by being a friend first. How long have you known her and how does she respond to you? Do you date at all? Have you ask her out? If not try asking her out as a friend. Good Luck
2007-08-30 13:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by snowbirdljpeterson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is something that ppl fall for. u fell for her love but she didn't. You can't make her love you because it's something that happens suddenly and comes from inside of you. So i'd suggest you not to think that she would love you. Try not to show your interest on her. Good luck!
2007-08-30 13:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean like get it out of her OR make her love you?
Thank GOD I am gay and I don't have to deal with any of this....
Oh, BY the WAY you can't make anyone fall in love with you..
She either does, or doesn't
2007-08-30 13:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy. This situation.
Ok, you can't make her love you. Are you sure she doesn't like you at all?
If she doesn't like you at all, then it just wasn't meant to be.
If she likes you, but not intensly, there is still hope.
Be there for her when she needs you and even if she doesn't, still be there so she knows she can count on you. Be her friend. Treat her nice but don't get too mushy. I hope I helped.
2007-08-30 13:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what is your status with her? Are you on a friendly basis? Does she know you exist? do you talk to her?
But yea try becoming friends with her then just keep it that way well showing all the great things about you. So hopefully she sees the great person you are and hopefully will feel the same way about you. If she still doesnt, well then she doesnt, it happens. Good luck.
2007-08-30 13:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant force anyone to love you, i know this first hand it has happened to me and it was sooooooo hard to move on, i did and now i have a bf that loves me back! wat would be the point of forcing someone to love you, love is such a genuine thing that cannot be forced or faked! and there is no point of not being yourself so that sumone likes you, NO NO NO! if she doesnt love you for you than move on, and if you act like sumone your not you will have a hard time in the relationship there are many more cheetos in the bag! <-lol. move on, as hard as it will be you have to!
goodluck
**hugz**
2007-08-30 13:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by gf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, love is a natural thing. So, you can not really force love to someone that does not love you. What you can do is simple acts of kindness, so that she will know your personality =)
2007-08-30 13:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by julie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you CAN make someone love you. But, in reality why do you?? You want someone that loves you from the get go.
2007-08-30 13:55:53 · answer #11 · answered by Con4Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋