I Want To STOP Texting And Calling Him. But I don't know How. Help?

Question

I want to stop texting and calling this guy. He's a nice guy and we are only friends. However, Now I find myself thinking about him and miss him a lot. gosh! That worries the h3ll out of me.

We are living in different states. no way.. we are just not meant to be. I need to stop contacting him.

Everytime I took out my cell and wanted to text him, I would tell myself.. nay! Again, days went by, when I start to think about him again, I'd text him and I was like.. "last one".
Aww.. I really need to stop. I wish I could just delete his number but... I couldn't. It's already been stored in my mind.

Help me. One magical way to stop contact him and let him do the work if he's meant for me.

His no is in my mind.

Answer 1

Just stop.

Anytime you want to call or text him, go do something else. ANYTHING else. Walk the dog, call a friend, go outside, take a jog, play a video game, watch TV, read a book. If you fill your mind and your time with other things, this fixation will fade away.

Answer 2

Enter into your mind and find out what will benefit you the most, by calling him that means you at least have some feeling for him, o.k. but then again is it mutual, no relationship can work out if you guys don't feel the same for each other. Hence-forth, now the thing with you guys in different states is another story, it's going to be hard to break it based-on it's already stored in your memory bank, but there-fore what good is it doing for you? Nothing but yearning and reminicing, Move on, don't put your life on hold for someone else. It will only take longer for you to find Love, and there is more people out there than just one.

Answer 3

I had the same problem. I was in SOuth Bend Indiana and he was in Jersey. We met at the Notre Dame/Syracuse game and had a great weekend. We traveled to see each other a few times each and it sort of died out because of the distance. I started to wein myself from calling and when he called I didn't answer at times. Each time it got longer in between until we just stopped talking. I still think about him a lot, but know it will go nowhere so I keep my distance. Just put the phone down when you want to call or call another friend instead. You will be surprised how fast you get used to not texting him. Good luck

Answer 4

You do know how,you said,"you started too text him and didn't",so you have a little control. Girlfriend don't stress over you're feeling,call if you want it might help you get through the day. You live in different states, so look around you there are guys where you live. It will take a while to completely get over him,but you can.You don't need magic,you got control use it.

Answer 5

you know what not to long ago i was going through the same thing there was this boy that i like him and he like me back he also told me he loved me.although in my heart i knew we could never be and were not meant to be but yet i still kept callin e-mailing, and texting him.But i got over him and now i am happy here's what you do think of all the bad times not the good times and remind yourself of all the bad things that happened between you to remind yourself that you do deserve better and you can do better.I wish you the best of luck because i know how you feel and if this does not work ask yourself is it worth it do i really want this guy to feel that i am some kind of fan of his and that he has me wrapped around his finger.Don't degrade yourself move on and do better for yourself and remember just because they say they love doesn't mean that they really mean it you'll know if they really love you by the look in their eyes and the way they touch you and their kiss not by three words. Best of luck Ms.Lovely

Answer 6

Who says it was not meant to be, just friends. My thoughts are along the line of its OK to have friends. Be conservative and if you like play hard to get. If destiny seeks you both to meet well then good gracious you have some knowledge of each other. If its love then never wave it of. If you like to cast a farewell , then place a single flower/ rose in a flowing river or ocean and say goodbye to love. Remember the moments of goodwill and leave it be in the heart of goodness..

Your destiny awaits in time move to your next path, Daryl.

Answer 7

Are you sure you want to? How does he text back, does he want to hear from you, and if he does than by all means call him and tell him how you feel. Distance is not that big of deal if you are suppose to be together. Give it a try, if not then make your self forget the number.

Answer 8

Well.... It seems to me that you have deeper feelings for this person. If that is the case, then you should tell him how you feel, what do you have to lose? If that is not the case, then texting/calling him is leading him on. So if you don't have feelings for him, everytime you pick up the phone to contact him, think to yourself, "do I want to lead this person on, and possibly hurt him?" Good Luck

Answer 9

I know exactly how you feel mines is in Texas and i am in Florida except we did have something but now its slowing fading away i know how much it sucks you just want to say no its pointless you dont want to talk them again bc you do miss them and you want to see them but something like this you just either need to let him know thats how you feel or try and keep yourself busy distract yourself i know not the best answer but it might work

Answer 10

Every time you want to text him!!!!!! call a friend.... I have the same problem, but my live like 3 blocks from me!!!!! I always want to text him!!!! so i end up calling a friend!!! that help me out a lot!!! wish you the best of luck!!!!!!