...and I'm worried I'll do something stupid?
Me and my exgirlfriend are still friends but we didn't really make plans for the holidays cos she was spending time with her new boyfriend on the last day of school and I've missed her so much.
Me and my ex have been together twice and the second time she dumped me it was because some one had given her proof that I'd betrayed her trust when I hadn't and she said because of it she never wanted to go out with me again. I admit the first I betrayed her trust and she found out but the second time I didn't but she found out from the same source and he had proof that I'd betrayed her trust both times and I haven't really told her that she'd been lied to cos I didn't want to make feel stupid.
Yesterday I rang her bestfriend cos we hang about together alot and she's really the reason me and ex got together both times and I told her the true story cos she's been tellin me to back off from my ex lakely and she said to tell her the truth but I'm...
2007-08-30 06:53:26 · 6 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...worried I'm gonna do sommat stupid that'll make her not even be friend cos I get really nervous, once when me and my ex were together I sent her an email with my phone number in and I got the stupid idea in to my head that she'd dump me because of it then I did send a stupid email that might have had her dump me, luckily she never read them. I know telling her the truth is the only way I'll ever have a chance of winning her back(not straight away cos she's got a boyfriend at the moment and I also need some time to breathe and calm down) but may some time in the future but I'm worried I'll muck it up. What can I do?
2007-08-30 06:53:45 · update #1
I don't mean insane stupid, Imean say something stupid.
2007-08-30 07:07:28 · update #2
you have got to sit down and think about what you want to say to her from your heart not point in doing anything stupid it will just push her further away maybe you need to move on if she has got a new boyfriend and find a new girl in your life and maybe be honest from the start once you betray some 1 it's hard to forgive im being honest with you sorry but sum times it's for the best.
2007-08-30 08:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean you'll do something stupid? I hope you don't mean hit her!!!!. If you have an anger problem as I read further you mentioned that you need to calm down and breath.
I think she finds hard to trust you as you have betrayed her and sometimes that can scar people and they never forget that. But, hearing from someone else plays on their mind and I would not trust eithier of you, I would walk away.
Stop getting other people involved including her friend.
2007-08-30 07:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie79 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well now you know you might do something silly, dont then. Behave cool and stay as calm as poss.
2007-08-30 07:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have already answered this question!!!
How many times do you need to ask this Question!!!
2007-08-30 07:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i done something stupid i would kill her burn her, chop her up into sixteenths and throw her remains into the sea. That way no one would ever know what you done.
2007-08-30 07:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Please rewrite the question in understandable english and then resubmit.
2007-08-30 07:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by peter s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋