Since you never want to tell me the truth, I am going to tell you the truth.
1.) I have been waiting for you to approach me.
• In Edinboro, I wanted you to talk to me or just ask me out ^-^
• Your sweet poems are wonderful, but I need you to tell me directly ^-^
2.) I liked you a lot, but I was shy. I never have a boyfriend so I did not know how to act around guys. ^-^
3.) I just afraid that we cannot be together so I have been avoid you. I just don’t want us to be heart-broken.
4.) Before my graduation in 2006, I just wanted to say “Good Bye” because I knew you care about me. (We never talked, but I just knew you care ^_^)
5.) After I left Edinboro, I was very upset and depressed because I missed you. I decided I am going to forget about you. But with god wills I found your Myspace and able read your poem (The longing---how amazing and wonderful that is!!) .You took my breath away with your poem.
2007-08-30 07:50:42 · 14 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
6.) After I read “The longing” I thought you are the one that I love and wait for. I decided to contact you.
7.) I told you “My life is confused and unstable” because we are in different states. I don’t want us to be in a long distance relationship.
8.) Long distance relationship is hard and tends to fail. To be honest, since we don’t have a relationship---I don’t mind if you flirt with other girls in school. I just want you to be happy.
9.) Here is our reality--- we stay in touch as friends, but we still cannot figure out how to open our mind. This make me nervous ---how can we make a relationship last if we ever be together.
10.) In the past year, I didn’t want to move on because I afraid you still like and wait for me. Since I hurt your feelings in the past when I was in Edinboro, My focus is to make sure that you are moving on and happy with life.
11.) I asked you for the truth whether you love me or not because I just don’t think that you are really moving on---her
2007-08-30 07:51:59 · update #1
12.) I want to tell you that I love you and your poems. I want you to be happy.
13.) ***Would you please let me know whether you love me or you want to move on?
14.) We should not hang on any longer. We need to make a decision and acceptance the reality.
15.) If you love me, we will find our way to be together. If you don’t love me, we need to move on. (You find your love and I find my love)
16.) After we know what we want in life ---we will be friends again.
17.) Finally, I wish you best of luck with your school, work, life, and everything.
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Very long because we have known each others for 4 years
What do you guys think? Thank you and god bless!
2007-08-30 07:54:09 · update #2
thanks, was some of the sweetest writing ive read about someone they cared about in a while. I am sorry to say this but the truth is that if you send this to him he will be 1. overwhelmed 2.maybe creeped out 3. but more than anything he will know that he has you no matter what. this is how i used to get "friends with benefits" or "eff buddies" you tease em for a little and make them want to take a bite and then eventually the girl gives in and does something like this and i know right away that i can have her at any time i want. you have to get in his face and show him what your all about. shy girls can be cute but the truth is shy girls end up with mean guys. if i was this guy i would be the happiest guy ever cus well theres a girl out there that absolutely loves me, but at the same time id be thinking, i got her on a leash so why go for it. id rather work for my meal. love the chase
good luck miss
2007-08-30 08:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by reveuR87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I myself can not and will not deal with long distance realationships, they r 2 hard on the emotions, I recently got a buy out from my job and moved 2 where my girlfriend lives, about 200 miles. U should go with your heart and if your heart told u 2 write that than u were right. Your boyfriend might just B trying 2 deal with life without U around. He should B able 2 tell how he feels now that U R not around and just how much he cares. Since that is not happening U yourself no him better than we do, so Like I said go with what your heart tells U and then that will B what U want. I have always said look after # 1 first, then do what U can 4 everyone else that U want 2. I hope that this helps U. Just remember go with your Heart and things will fall into place.
2016-05-17 08:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send it, it's far too long winded and melodramatic, you're taking yourself far too seriously. I doubt he'll even read it to the end. Sorry honey I'm not trying to put you down I'm just being honest.
I think he'll be baffled by it.
Try and write something a bit more light-hearted.
2007-08-30 08:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by cara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should send it. If you live in different states, it's practically impossible to have a relationship as anything other than friends. If you try to have a relationship, both of you are going to end up unhappy and disappointed.
2007-08-30 07:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by cmh0114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
stop wasting time fantasizing and writing stuff you're never going to send, and find a way to spend some time with the guy face to face. Maybe you two would learn to open up and communicate.
2007-08-30 07:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How sweet! You should send it! You're very mature and smart. You have a good head on your shoulders! Good luck!
2007-08-30 07:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by MsMarie1213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spell check it first then send it. you have nothing to lose. for me as an outsider it was mind numbing to read and i gave up after number 4
2007-08-30 08:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by rupert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your tenses might need a bit of checking but all in all it sounds sweet eg....i decided i am (was) going to forget about u...sounds sweet, and if its how u feel great! :D
2007-08-30 08:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dont mean to be rude but that is a lot of very boring read
2007-08-30 08:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I applaud you very well written !
2007-08-30 08:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋