Singles & Dating - 26 July 2007

I have a guy-friend that I have known almost 28 yrs. We lost contact 12 yrs ago. I found him last summer. Have never had romantic feelings for him, but always had unconditional love for him as a friend. I broke up with my BF in May. The very next day, my guy-friend tells me that he has been in love w/me for 27 yrs. This was like dropping a bomb on me. After the shock, I thought to myself, "maybe?..." But... he is married and I told him I would NOT have an affair. He filed for divorce. I told him that I did not want to be portrayed as the reason why he was filing for divorce. (Because his claims were that his marriage never grew and they had no marriage). I wanted to end all contact until he was divorced and he had time to heal. It was at this point that he became the stereotypical stalker. I am torn because I feel guilt for hurting him, but at the same time, he is scaring me. I have only been telling him (NO!) to all his repeat contacts. I never saw stalker in him. What to expect next?

2007-07-26 02:35:26 · 4 answers · asked by Hallie 1

2007-07-26 02:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Joe 1

We've had an up and down relationship. But I know he loves me, at least he did. I just have this gut feeling that we are going towards a bad breakup soon or later. I need to tell him and help myself get over him.

2007-07-26 02:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by Cecilia 1

I like a guy I work with, and from the advice I've gotten from other questions I've asked about him, I think he def might like me as well. Problem is that he's leaving for college around August 20th. So I'm trying to figure out how, when and if I should tell him that I like him. I'm thinking of either telling him through AIM or in person. So what do you think?

If I tell him through AIM, should I send him a long message while he's away? Or just start a normal convo with him and just bring it up somehow? Any ideas how I could say it?

Or if I tell him in person, like at work or somethin, how could I say it without straight out saying I like you?

Also, I'm not sure when I should tell him. I'm going away July 29- August 8. I'm only working with him one day until I go away, and then only like 3 days between me coming back and him leaving for college. Should I tell him before I go away? While I'm away? When I come back? Before he goes to college? While he's there? Any help would be great!

2007-07-26 02:31:23 · 2 answers · asked by dreamer55 2

So my broyfriend and I have lived togther a year and his family is having a family camping party this weekend. We are in our twenties. My boyfriends parents will be there and they are VERY religious. They told my boyfriend to bring two tents for him and I. How would you feel about this whole situation? He told me he is going to sneak in my tent. What if they see him leaving my tent in the morning? I have a 6 year old and I feel like a child having to hide. lol

2007-07-26 02:30:40 · 13 answers · asked by Sales Girl 3

me and my ex bf broke up for very dumb reasons... i have still been seeing him every few days or so. He says he misses me like crazy and he has thought about coming back but he doesn't know if he should or if he should just move on. I am not sure if I should hang on and see what happens or if I should let him move on and have no contact with him. he also says that he is not worried about us right now and he wants to do his own thing. what should I do I love this man more than anything and I know I have done really dumb things to him to make him leave... but talking is not doing anything and he says that I cant do anything to bring him back he is going to have to make up his own mind but right now it is pointing to no. Please help my heart is breaking everyday!

2007-07-26 02:30:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 02:25:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 02:23:31 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

I feel my relationship is based on sex but my boyfriend takes things the wrong way how can i make sex a special thing instead of just sex!

2007-07-26 02:16:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is on crack but i love him very much he act like he hate me. his mind was already bad. but he is very good to me very respetful he help me when no one else would but at the time i didnt appreicate him because ithought he was like my old boyfriend what could ido?

2007-07-26 02:10:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you look for in a girl?? i really like this guy and i dont know what to do to get him, tell me what you love when girls "want" you what do you want them to say or whatever, i want to know how to make him like me and i dont know what to do!!!!

2007-07-26 02:09:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 02:04:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating a guy for 8 months now, but it feels like so much longer. We've spent maybe 2 days apart the whole time, and spend every free hour we have with each other.

I understood that when we first started dating it hadn't been that long since his last serious relationship. They had been dating 2 years and were engaged. He told me towards the end he didn't love her, but I wanted to make sure things weren't rushed between us ( like engagement and talking about it)because of his past, but for awhile I couldn't help bringing it up. He told me he wasn't ready, which I understood, he was probably still healing from her breaking up with him for someone else.

Recently he's been really sweet and mushy, and last night he told me he was ready, knew how he wanted to do it and what he wanted to say, but just doesn't have money for a ring. This is a really big change for him, because before he was so uncertain of it. He knew he wanted to, just wasn’t ready and didn't know why.

2007-07-26 01:55:35 · 13 answers · asked by Łøνε-α-Łøт 2

im 14 and sometimes guys feel me up but i dont stop them.

Is that being to easy.But like if he trys to completly take my shirt off i wil lsay no.

still am i being to easy??? he still didnt ask me out. should i continue to let him do this>

2007-07-26 01:55:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a human wanted to love a martian, or a klingon dated a droid, do you support that? What are your views on marriage between species?

2007-07-26 01:54:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you believe that color shouldnt matter as long as your in love?


'cause my ex bf is black and im white...&& alot of people made fun of us....i thought that it wuz wrong of them ...also i always thought it shouldnt matter what color..as long as you love eachother....

what do you think?

p.s. we broke up like a month ago...we still like eachother..

long longgg story

2007-07-26 01:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can tell my colleague likes me and I'm a shy person. He asked me what I was doing for the weekend, etc and before I'd even opened my mouth he said, "You're not going to go all shy on me now, are you?" I went bright red and went out of the office. He should like me for me including my shyness, shouldn't he?

2007-07-26 01:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4

2007-07-26 01:45:28 · 14 answers · asked by arthas 1

the heart is obviously in your chest, but the bleeding heart could be a heart break or just a sickness?

2007-07-26 01:44:25 · 14 answers · asked by putera_lucifer 1

i love you . you'd say?

2007-07-26 01:39:52 · 42 answers · asked by It's A Secret. Shh 2

2007-07-26 01:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by SHAWN 3

My x wants to be friends with me but its not with benefits just a friendship. Why do men bother being friends with there ex's, now i want him back so i see this as the only way back to his heart. There is no1 else involved in our lives so thats perfect in its self. He wants to still hang out and has said we could to the cinema and for a drink sometime, could he still have feelings for me and be confused. He had a lot going on his life when we split and it took its toll on our relationship but all of that has calmed down now. What do you think?

2007-07-26 01:35:12 · 15 answers · asked by bluebell 1

I want this guy, its clear he wants me.. everytime he goes to kiss me though i just cant do it.. i want to so bad but i cant, when he touches me i push him away..

He eventually thinks he gets the idea that i dont like him but i do.. and i tell him i do and he it starts all over again... he tries to kiss me but i back away.

I want him so bad, and i want to physically be there for him, but i just cant, my body wont let me.

Im so confused. I dont understand, I want it, but i cant do it.

Help?

2007-07-26 01:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Of course state why. And I don't mean virginity until you die - I mean until marriage.

2007-07-26 01:32:54 · 23 answers · asked by Marc Hector 3

2007-07-26 01:32:09 · 12 answers · asked by Cecilia 1

k well im 14 and still dont have a bf. maybe ill ask out somone when school starts again soon

but lat time he felt me up and DIDNT ASK ME OUT??? we talk and stuff but i think he is to shy.

do they just do that for a quick second and forget u the next?

2007-07-26 01:31:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

weve been best friends for 6 years, im 15 and hes 17 and our dads are best friends. i used to like him but he had a girlfriend. hes always talking about how much he loves me and how amazing i am and how he wants to marry me some day. he is verry experienced and i am a virgin. so he was sleeping over last week and he said that he wanted to have sexand i said that i wanted to wait till i was in love and he said "i dont know about you but im in love" i do love him but i dont know if im "in love" with him anymore. he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes, but now he stopped mentioning sex. does he not like me or something. he sleeps over like he used to and he just cuddles me he doesnt try anything and earlier we were in my room on my bed and i was joking around and pushed him down and stuff so we started making out so i thought ok were going to do it. then he gets up and runs out of the room. why did he do that? is it becasue hes not attracted to me?

2007-07-26 01:29:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ve dated dis guy four yrs ago,we stopped seeing for no serious resons,of late we started talking on phone again,he is asking i should come and see him that he is missing me.Do you think anything serious could come out of this?I want to settle down and dont want to waste my time on any unserious relationship any more.

2007-07-26 01:24:17 · 4 answers · asked by kicky 1

im new here just few days and i already get many nasty email and just wonder why some guy is like that. why do bother even to email if they dont wanna be nice? may be some girl like to recieve message like that? im just not under stand. im looking for friend only and not hurt the some one else. im sad.

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2007-07-26 01:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by happy_pinay 2

Last night I had an argument with my ex boyfriend he told me that when he first met me the only reason he dated me was to get into my pants. I yelled a lot and I felt so worthless after that and he also said what can I do to make you go the hell away. He's also mentioned that he was never attracted to me but that I should move on and find someone else I said I didn't want anyone else and he said you should because you deserve someone nice and I'm an asshole. What is it that I'm doing that repels guys so much I have had three different relationships in three months and none of them have worked out.

2007-07-26 01:13:02 · 20 answers · asked by hsflaggirl 1