I want this guy, its clear he wants me.. everytime he goes to kiss me though i just cant do it.. i want to so bad but i cant, when he touches me i push him away..
He eventually thinks he gets the idea that i dont like him but i do.. and i tell him i do and he it starts all over again... he tries to kiss me but i back away.
I want him so bad, and i want to physically be there for him, but i just cant, my body wont let me.
Im so confused. I dont understand, I want it, but i cant do it.
Help?
2007-07-26 01:34:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not fridgid your scared silly.Tell him this you dont know what your doing yet and u need time.To me u seem to young to even be considering sex yet. You need an older relative to talk with .This can be a dangerous thing such as unwanted pregency or disease.Go with care somethings can't be undone.Thinking the best for U always.
2007-07-26 01:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by oatesmokid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my professional background I can say that this is a real problem which is fairly common though always under reported. You need a professional help go to a counselor he/ she will guide you and for the session take your BF as well. Just relax this is going to be over.
2007-07-26 08:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Friendly medic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your body is saying no, maybe it's because you're not ready. It may also be that you're afraid of what will happen. In this day and age, there are a lot of good reasons to be afraid of what will happen.
You said you like him. Maybe your body and mind are telling you that "like" isn't enough.
2007-07-26 08:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that you really like him but you would like to take the physical part really slow. Once you spend more time with him and the time is right the kissing part will take care of itself.
2007-07-26 08:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Macho Duck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your friged..
Just not ready yet, tell him that and im sure he'll be fine with it if he really does like you.
Don't be forced into something your not ready for. x Good Luck x
2007-07-26 08:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by mariah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need psychiatric and other clinical help. Otherwise, it will be a life-long problem. Go now and take tests.
2007-07-26 08:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just make yourself do it, if you want it so bad. Force yourself to. Once you do it for the first time it will get easier. Good luck!
2007-07-26 08:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by SmileyFace 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps your subconcious mind is tryign to tell you youre not ready.
2007-07-26 08:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kween Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes willing to wait till you get over it then it will happen. u got be 100% that you want it then il fink ure be ok
2007-07-26 08:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by spg34u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HI fridget !
IM bridget!!
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2007-07-26 08:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Deprie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋