I ve dated dis guy four yrs ago,we stopped seeing for no serious resons,of late we started talking on phone again,he is asking i should come and see him that he is missing me.Do you think anything serious could come out of this?I want to settle down and dont want to waste my time on any unserious relationship any more.
2007-07-26 01:24:17 · 4 answers · asked by kicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you do not want to waste your time and although you are not saying Now but you would like to know that this relationship is going somewhere more than it is and even marriage.
2007-07-26 01:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship ended for no serious reason as far as you are seeing it, if he feels differently then he needs to tell you what was going on for him. I'm glad that you are being cautious. In some ways without you realizing it you've changed can you say the same for him.? In this case i would want concrete actions from him to prove he is worthy of you. You have clear ideas about the kind of relationship you want and deserve and i think you should keep him at arms length because if he misses you then he needs to decide what he is going to do about it. He also needs to be clear and honest about the past instead of just expecting you to forget about it. Don't be afraid to ask the difficult questions.
2007-07-26 08:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by pri1orn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not unless he is willing to come see YOU!
If he really wants you, he will make the effort to come see you, otherwise, he is probably looking for an ego boost and sure booty call after he has been dumped.
If he won't come to you when it is convenient for you, don't waste your time on him.a If you want to settle down, read the following book of "The Rules" to stop wasting time on loser that will not commit.
http://www.therulesbook.com/
2007-07-26 08:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very open with him about this. Ask him if he sees yall "going" anywhere in the future or is this just for fun, explain that in the future, you would like to settle down and are tired of wastefull dating....This way you know where he stands. but be sure to tell him the wedding isnt goin to take place tomorrow or any thing. ;P lol good luck
2007-07-26 08:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Just Wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋