My friend just split up with his wife, because he found out about her shady past after they were married. This was a classic bad girl pretending to be a good girl thing.
He loved her, but once he found out it ate him up.
Something similar also happened to me(I did not sleep with the girl, because of my beliefs, and we were'nt married), but i found out she had been promiscuous before she met me- that lifestyle disgusts me, and we split up after six months. this was a girl I met at the church.
I know half the people gonna say pasts don't matter, all I can say is you can have the people that sleep around, some of us just choose not to.
My question is, when is it appropriate to ask/ or a tactful way to find out before you get too into a relationship?
For you that think i am too judgemental- this is MY life. I look for a lifemate I can trust, and I feel sex is an addition as bad as any drug. Would you marry a drug addict?
2007-07-26
15:26:11
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