My sister talked to him and he said he would call me. Im kinda confused cause we broke up like a month ago or so...And he was dating someone and it seemed like he didn't want to talk to me...I still wanted to go with him but he didnt want to be with me anymore so what to do? Call again, wait for him to call, or just forget the whole thing.........HELP PLEASE!!! ASAP
2007-07-26 15:54:20 · 24 answers · asked by MoMo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im also talking to someone else but...Im not completely over him and if he's not over me then maybe we should go back out but idk
2007-07-26 17:02:58 · update #1
That should be obvious. If it isn't you're too young to be dating.
2007-08-03 16:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
When someone tells you or makes it clear that he doen't want you anymore, accept what he says and move on, however hard it is.
Do not allow him to have his cake and ice cream at the same time. It sounds as if he wants to hang on to you until he gets in good with his new lady. Don't let him do this to you. You deserve so much better.
Believe what he told you the first time. Because out of the mouth, the heart speaks.
2007-08-03 20:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
MoMo let him go. The dude is obviously trying to have his cake and eat it too and you are just playin yourself by chasing after him. If he is dating someone else maybe you should try and do the same. The best way to get over him is to cut off all communication with him or else he's going to continue to have power of your emotions and hurt you. Afterall he did say he didn't want to be with you anymore didn't he?
2007-08-03 12:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it that phone works both ways. You have done your part in this game of phone tag. Now it is his turn. Since he hasn't returned your call, I think it is time for you to forget about him. Be realistic. He's just not that into you. Have some pride.
2007-08-03 21:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the others who said stay away from him no offense becuz i don't know him but sometimes there are those guys who don't want to be with you but don't want you to be with anyone else either. as long as they can do little things to keep you where they want you and take advantage of you they will. not to mention if they can do that they know there's a good chance that they can call you up for a booty call and unfortunately i speak from experience and once you've done it enough it will finally hit you and you say to yourself hey dumb *** let him go !!!
2007-08-03 16:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. You were just getting started getting over him and now this - sheesh.... then, the guy doesn't call you and he wants you to call him and he's not there.
If he wanted to talk to you, he'd be at your front door, knocking and eager to speak to you. He's playing games. I'll bet that you already know that about him.
2007-08-03 20:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like that if you really care about there are two ques that needs to be asked if he loves you how could you think that he could just go with someone else and how bad was the breakup and do you really thinj for one second that he might have done the same thing to the other girl
2007-07-26 23:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by littlebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! He's not the only guy in this world. Try spending time to others, maybe you can met someone more than your ex-bf... It's not the end of the world, don't you think?
2007-08-03 21:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by dianelane0811 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it up - if he wanted to talk to you he would have phoned you and not used your sister as a messenger.
There are so many nice people out there so go and get one of them.
find one that will treat you with the love and respect that you deserve and let this other turkey go and play with someone else.
YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2007-08-03 20:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by wkdfem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT CALL AGAIN... basically you're stroking his ego by doing this and hurting yourself in the process. Dont waste your time on a guy who plays games, it isn't worth it. At least you can take with you that you tried and that's it. I hate to see women who keep on and on. Just take the hint,
2007-08-03 16:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!!! what are you calling him for, especially if he has moved on, maybe he was just making convo with your sis, cause if he wanted to talk to you he would've called you, so don't make a fool of yourself by calling again, I'm pretty sure he has caller id :-)
2007-07-26 23:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by Monique 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋