im gonna get married in september but i jst like girls so much i dnt know if i can stay with one all my life sure she is perfect fisical and she is funny and smart but i jst love girls so much i dnt think i can be with one all my life( and i love her) but why u girls have to be so atractive and so beutiful
any tips
sry for bad spelling
2007-07-26 16:25:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ahm.. well as I say.. Men were genetically.. ahm.. Horny.. or maybe it is more safer to say that men's sex drive is usually more agressive than girls. In addition to that. Men usually loves adventure, challenges, and bitches if I must say.. well.. Men will always be men. For sure it is not only you who are experiencing the same problem.. well me myself and I also experienced it.. ahm.. And it is really tough.. Do you know the rule of charles darwin?? we always pick the best.. and it really aplies to us men. why? It was simply because we men love honor.. and in that case we want the best to be our wife.. for others to recognize how great are we.. well.. we men really dreams of soaring high raising the best price in the world.. well in your case you were just looking for the best price that you can have.. well.. My advice is you should look into the deeper side of the girl rather than its physical assets, well.. When I say deeper it doesnt mean that I am talking about the p*ussy which is literally the deepest side,,.. ahm.. when I say deeper I mean the character,behavior, ahm.. Odor.. and stuffs like that.. why? because if you will just base your wanting into the girls physical aspects... It will be really hard for you to find your dream girl.. because you will just find and look and find and search comparing and camparing and comparing and in the end you will say that I have never seen the best.. Maybe the best thing that you can do is.. well.. Consider your fiance the best.. though it will mean fooling yourself a little .. ahm.. It will still help you a lot.. I think therefore I am.. is my phylosophy .. And I guarantee you effectiveness.. Let your mind decide.. And your body will follow... ahm.. there.. I hope that this will help you alot.. By the way I am just a sixteen years old..so sorry about the grammar.. I hope that I am the worthy one to deserve your price as the best answer.. Good day
2007-07-26 16:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should seriously sit down with you fiance and decide if you are mature enough to be getting married. For example, you call females "girls" rather than "women". Do you see females simply as being girls that you can have a one night stand with and then move on? Do you often want to have relations with people other then your fiance? If so then maybe you are not ready to be getting married.
But, if you wake up every morning and the first thing you think about is your finance and before you go to bed she is the last thing you think about, and you crave to be with her all the time (not just physically but emotionally as well) then you are ready. There will for sure be times when you fight but hopefully you will have a strong and mature enough relationship that you will be able to work things out and learn to truly love one another.
I suggest taking some time to reflect on your relationship before walking down the aisle in September. It will be best for you and the woman you love.
2007-07-26 23:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by N :O) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best answer you'll get is one that doesn't call you a jerk. You don't sound like you care much about your fiance if you're writing for advice on a website on how not to chase other women. If youre not ready for marriage, don't get married. Divorce is alot more expensive than a marriage certificate. Plus, why do that to the girl? Why hurt her more by cheating on her, etc instead of just ending now before you cause her alot of pain in the future. Do the right thing!!! Honestly!
2007-07-26 23:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are. If you're under 30 maybe you should give yourself more time to sow your wild oats before you get married. If you think you can't be faithful then don't get married or it's gonna cause you alot of problems. I don't know if you have a case of cold feet already or you have raging hormones........either way you sound like you're not too sure about marriage, committment, being faithful, etc. Good luck either way!
2007-07-26 23:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by KeysGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont think you can stay with one woman for a lifetime then DONT GET MARRIED. Trust me that woman will hate you fro eternity if you marry her then cheat on her or divorce her or whatever. Marriage is a once in a lifetime thing and you dont tred lightly in those waters. The best thing to do is tell your "fiancee" how you are feeling and un-engage yourself from her.
2007-07-26 23:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by qtpie0149 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and start thinking of other people's feelings beside your own, or cut you nuts off for the sake of all humankind BEFORE you further threaten the gene pool.
And by the way... you beautiful bride to be is thinking the same way about you and your...(insert your specific physical defect here)
2007-07-26 23:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you asked her to marry you, and you really love her, you'll be fine. Just don't be the kind of husband that gets home late because he is having an affair with another woman. You'll be just fine if you actually love her.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 23:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I admire your honesty. However, if you do not know if you can be faithful to your mate or not, you really should not be getting married. I know it may hurt her, if you break off the wedding, but believe me, it's better to let her know that you aren't ready. It's a jungle out there, all those STD's. That's a gift you can keep to yourself.
2007-07-26 23:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Johnny Boy...
If you are asking this question and know within yourself that you like women and is still attracted to other girls DO NOT put that woman through the pain of getting married and possibly breaking her heart.
Enjoy being single and young and remain friends with her and when you are ready to be with that "one" then get married.
If you really love and care about her you will know what the right thing to do is. Dont even put yourself through it.
She will thank you in the long run. She may not understand now but believe me she will thank you in the long run.
2007-07-26 23:27:13 · answer #9 · answered by darcanjle 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If you had to ask this... I am sorry, but you are NOT ready. Yes, we girls are GREAT! But you need some time to figure out if you really want to get married. Imagine if you had a kid with this girl!!!! You would screw it up. That's just bad!
2007-07-26 23:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by christi L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋