we broke up 4 the second time cause he dropped his lil brother off and he went 2 the july 4th fireworks wif some other girl and i saw him when i was there with his lil brother and my friends. and now he says he was tryna play cause he thought i was cheating and it was a set up cause he thought i was playing him wif my best guy friend that he knows. so now we've been talking 4 like 5 hours decuising this and he came by the other day 2 give me an promise ring he bought 4 me and him silver with 5 lil diamonds and his name on the inside.
so now im stuck between an rock and a hard place.
2007-07-26 15:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Babez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you two have a promblem with communicating. or at least you did back then, he should of told you how he was feeling, that he thought you were cheating and you could of explained and all, sounds like he was jelous and insecure is why he did that, if you really like this guy, talk to him and tell him if anything is ever on his mind to talk to you about instead of turning around and hurting you, it's worth another try, he must really like you to be buying you a ring and all, so give it a shot and tell him not to let that happen again that he needs to talk to you first before jumping to conclusions. good luck with this.
2007-07-26 15:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he got busted running around, then had to come up with some BS lie. Tried to turn the tables on you, and make you out to be the bad huy.
Think about it, this dude drops his little brother off to you to babysit, while he goes out behind your back with another woman.
This was nto set up, give the ring back and go find a guy who appreciates you.
2007-07-26 22:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never choose a guy cause he gave you a chunk of rock.
It's how you feel.
Do you REALLY think men are that smart that they would plot something like that "set up"? I didn't think so.
It depends on how you feel, but chances are he's trying to bribe you with this ring, and the part about it having his NAME on it? That is weird. He's trying to get under your skin, so if you don't choose him, if you wear it you'll remember it and be hurt.
Really, think about how you feel and decide for yourself, none of use know him.
2007-07-26 22:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he's projecting and that's why he says he thought you were cheating. It doesn't mean he's cheated on you, it just means that maybe he's been thinking about it and the ring is just something to make the both of you forget about it all.
2007-07-26 22:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Pop princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to be strong for yourself girl. stand up fro what u belvie is right. i woukldnt belive his whole excuse but if u do and u know he was sincer then try again. its all up to u can u have to follow ur heart and what it feels is right. go with ur instics cuz no1 can tell u those except u. but no matter what be strong and dont feel bad to give him back the ring if u decided not to try again.
bestz luck
2007-07-26 22:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the ring back and forget about him. Dating exes is fail, and this guy either doesn't trust you or was cheating on you himself.
Now go date ten other guys.
2007-07-26 22:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. That ring could have been meant for someone else. If it had been meant for you, both your names would have been on it. Dump him!
2007-07-26 22:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by HoPeFuL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was just trying to play it off but if he is not the kind that would lie then i would think he really means it
2007-07-26 22:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jacks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him back the ring and move on
2007-07-26 22:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Honey b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to spell. i can barely understand what you are trying to say.
2007-07-26 22:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by \m/-Ari-\m/ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋