k so like a year ago i fell for my best friend of 2 years. then we started arguing and had been on and off friends. and then things got worse and all we did was fight. but then last night she imed me telling me about her situation with her exboyfriend and stuff. then we kept talking forl ike 5 hours and everything was going great. she never opens u to me but she did last night and it was amazing.so i thought things were finally turning around for us. but then today i talked to her bestfriend and she had told her that she was just talking to me to tell me the truth about it. i dont understand why she kept talking after we talked about her ex bf for 5 hours then and things went well. did she really wanna talk to me and be freinds again maybe or was she just using me?
2007-07-26 15:15:17 · 18 answers · asked by incineratethemachine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she thinks you make a good friend and that's why she called you. Maybe she just told her best friend that b/c she didn't want to have to explain to her best friend why she was talking to you again.
2007-07-26 15:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Be me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this won't get me best answer, but its the truth. Sometimes people just don't have reasons for the things they do. Sometimes they just want attention. Maybe, as a lot of self-involved girls do, she just wanted some empathy and attention from you at that moment to make her feel better about herself and the way she was treated by her dirtbag exboyfriend.
Anyway chin up. You'll be fine with or without her.
2007-07-26 22:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
i think that first of all u should tell her how u feel about her and that u really care for her and well i think that she wants to be friends with u again cause if she never opened up to u before and she did last night then she does want to
2007-07-26 22:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really couldn't tell you, but she doesn't realize how lucky she is. If I called my friend he wouldn't even answer his phone. Since he would be too busy drinking and hating me for some stupid reason. I hope everything turns out ok, good luck.
2007-07-26 22:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth. Tell her how you feel. You never know maybe she likes you back. It will probaly make it worse if you lie to her.
2007-07-26 22:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Italiangirl976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the Friend Zone. She has no interest in you beyond friendship, and she trusts you enough to talk to you about emotional girl stuff.
You are her girlfriend.
2007-07-26 22:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably thought you were someone safe to talk to.
That may not be such a bad thing, to build a relationship.
But don't try to push it with her, she's hurting right now.
2007-07-26 22:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Robert S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is ask her straigh up. ask her wat is true and wats not. thats the only way u will know. but i think she was using u. some girls do that, but if i were u i would just try to be there for her, cuz real friends r and if u r her real frined ull be there, reguardless if she is yours.
bestz luck
2007-07-26 22:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she could be playing you.
If I were you, I wouldn't get too close to her.
Sounds like she has to grow up more.
I'm sure you can find better friends ;)
2007-07-26 22:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just felt that she could trust you and needed to vent. That's what friends are there for.... right?
2007-07-26 22:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Primalstorm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋